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Welcome to a candid conversation where I shed light on a topic often shrouded in secrecy—the nuanced world of soft cock and erectile disappointment. Joining me in this conversation is none other than the remarkable Michelle Renne from Soft Cock Week. As a dedicated sex educator, Michelle brings a wealth of wisdom and empathy to our exploration, challenging us to reframe our understanding of what it means to navigate softness in a world obsessed with hardness. In this dialogue, we unravel the layers of stigma and misconception surrounding softness, inviting listeners to challenge societal norms and embrace a new narrative. Together, we navigate the emotional and psychological terrain of soft cock experiences, offering understanding, validation, and hope. From debunking myths to addressing the complexities of relationships, we explore the importance of open communication, vulnerability, emotional intimacy, and self-compassion in the face of disappointment. This isn't just a conversation—it's a call to action

Join us on a journey of somatic liberation and sensual awakening with our esteemed guest, Rahi Chun, a Somatic Sex Educator specializing in pelvic and genital dearmoring. Rahi's expertise transcends traditional healing; it's a profound exploration of trauma recovery and embodied empowerment. In this conversation, Rahi illuminates the path of pelvic and genital dearmoring, unveiling its potential for those burdened by trauma stored within their bodies. Drawing from personal and professional insights, he guides us through the intricacies of somatic healing, offering clarity and compassion to those navigating their own paths to wholeness. Discover what dearmoring entails and how it's integrated into sessions with clients. Explore the profound benefits—physical release, emotional catharsis, and the reclamation of sensual sovereignty—that ignite the flames of healing, pleasure, and liberation. As we conclude, we reflect on the ripple effects of pelvic and genital dearmoring on intimate relationships, emphasizin

Embark on a sensual journey beyond the conventional as Taara sits down with the remarkable Pamela Madsen in "The Erotic Spectrum: Exploring Pleasure Beyond Penetration." In this episode, we shatter societal norms surrounding sexuality, delving into the vast landscape of human desire and connection. Pamela, a trailblazer in somatic wellness education, guides us through the concept of the erotic spectrum, challenging the myths and stigmas tied to non-penetrative intimacy. Together, we explore mindful practices that elevate presence and deepen connections, emphasizing the pivotal role of communication and consent in diverse forms of intimacy. Beyond the confines of traditional expectations, we celebrate the richness of sensual pleasure, sharing stories that unveil the beauty of non-genital-focused experiences. Pamela, with her wealth of experience and expertise, encourages listeners to break free from performance pressure, fostering a paradigm shift toward prioritizing pleasure, connection, and the exploration

Get ready for an electrifying episode! Taara Rose is back, and this time, she's joined by the incredible Somatic Solace, a somatic sex educator and sexological bodyworker. Together, they're immersing you in the lush world of ecosexuality – a journey of sensuality and connection with nature. In this episode, Taara and Solace navigate the enchanting landscapes of ecosexuality, exploring its deep connection with somatic experiences and the transformative power it holds. From connecting sensually with nature to the rituals and practices that embody ecosexual principles, this conversation is your gateway to a richer, more embodied connection with the natural world. Discover how embracing ecosexuality can lead to personal and sexual transformation, breaking down societal taboos and barriers along the way. Solace shares wisdom on the role of somatic sex education in this exploration, offering insights that resonate on both a personal and collective level. Tune in for a sensory-rich experience that opens the door

Embark on a transformative exploration of self-discovery and healing in this episode, where we explore the intricate interplay of somatic sex education and trauma recovery. Taara is joined by Melody from Body Soul Journey, a professional in somatic sex education and trauma-informed practices. Together, they're delving into the intricacies of healing through touch and the powerful synergy of somatic sex education and trauma recovery. This deeply personal conversation delves into the profound impact of trauma on our sexuality, relationships, and overall well-being. Melody shares insights into how trauma manifests physically, emotionally, and energetically and sheds light on the transformative role of somatic sex education and sexological bodywork in reconnecting with the body and healing. Explore the distinctiveness of these approaches and how they offer a transformative pathway for individuals to rediscover and reclaim their bodies post-trauma. From the art of consensual touch to the importance of setting bo

Join us for a uniquely personal episode as we unveil the journey of a non-monogamous couple who just tied the knot. That's right, your host Taara Rose and her partner, together for a glorious decade, share their adventures of love, commitment, and marriage while navigating the intricate waters of non-monogamy. You'll get a front-row seat to the significance of their recent nuptials and discover how 'New Relationship Energy' (NRE) can light up long-term love. But that's not all! They just returned from their FIRST Lifestyle hotel takeover as a married couple – they haven’t attended one together since pre-pandemic times! In this episode, we'll dish out the lessons they've learned, divulge the highs, lows, and unexpected twists, and provide wisdom for those considering or exploring non-monogamy. Don't miss this honest and enlightening conversation about unconventional love, relationship bliss, and thrilling adventures. Tune in and embrace the transformative power of love, marriage, and an open heart. WATCH ON

Get ready for an enlightening episode as we unravel the mysteries of HPV - what it is, how it spreads, and its impact on our health. HPV Awareness Week in Canada may have just passed, but we aren’t done talking about this topic! Join Taara, as she teams up with infectious disease expert, Dr. Angel Chu, in an episode that's as entertaining as it is informative. We uncover the risks and complications of this virus, including its sneaky connection to cancer and those infamous warts. We dive into the nitty-gritty of HPV symptoms and the risks and complications associated with this virus. Dr. Chu spills the beans on why men should care about HPV, and essential safe practices to protect yourself and your partner, even within long-term relationships. Armed with Dr. Chu's insights, we explore treatments, vaccines, and how your immune system can become an HPV superhero. From infection to protection, this episode is your VIP pass to everything you want to know about HPV! WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/D_GkLB24y1

Get ready for a sizzling episode! Taara is turning up the heat with expert guest Katie Spataro, a certified Somatic Sex Educator and School of Consent facilitator. In this episode, we're peeling back the covers and diving headfirst into the tantalizing world of embodied consent. What is it, you ask? Well, it's the secret sauce to unlocking a sex life that's not just steamy but also incredibly empowering. Together, Taara and Katie explore the wild terrain of pleasure, from indirect routes to direct delights. Ever wondered why learning to touch your partner for YOUR pleasure is a total game-changer? We've got the answers. And because we're all about leveling up your intimacy IQ, we'll also chat about the art of asking, offering, and inviting. So, grab a comfy seat, your favorite drink, and get ready to embark on a journey of self-discovery and pleasure that'll leave you craving more. This episode is your passport to a sex life that's not just hot but also profoundly fulfilling. Tune in and let the adventure

Join us in this profound episode as we discuss the intricate connection between healing, grief, sensuality, and personal growth. Our guest today is Jess DeVries, a trailblazer in the field of somatic sex education and intimacy coaching, dedicated to guiding individuals on their paths to wholeness. Jess, the founder of Beloved Coaching, is a passionate advocate for healing and empowerment. She specializes in helping people navigate the uncharted territories of grief while embracing their erotic selves. With a commitment to creating safe and nurturing spaces, Jess's work is nothing short of taboo-shattering. In this episode, we delve deep into the profound intersections of healing, grief, and sensuality. Discover the taboo-shattering aspects of this work as we uncover how Jess facilitates an atmosphere of trust and vulnerability. Whether you're currently traversing the landscape of grief or simply seeking to broaden your understanding of how sensuality intertwines with healing, this conversation promises to b

In this enlightening episode, join us as we discuss the transformative journey of Taara and her journey of becoming a certified Somatic Sex Educator and Sexological Bodyworker. From the initial spark of inspiration to the triumphant moment of graduation, Taara shares the ups, downs, and pivotal moments that shaped their path to becoming an empowered advocate for sexual well-being and education. Her partner, James, guides this intimate conversation, exploring the challenges, triumphs, and personal growth that marked this 2.5-year voyage. This is a celebration of persistence, empowerment, and the transformative potential of embracing one's sexuality with confidence. Learn how somatic practices can help individuals reconnect with their bodies, find pleasure, and enrich their intimate relationships. Gain insights into the vital interplay between emotional well-being and sexual empowerment. Whether you're interested in pursuing a similar path, considering working with one of these professionals or simply seeking

In this episode we dive into the captivating world of date nights and their profound impact on relationships. Joining Taara for this episode is her partner, James, as they share their personal insights, experiences, and practical tips to help you nurture and revitalize your relationship through the power of date nights. Although Sylvie won't be joining Taara for this episode, Taara and James will take you on an engaging journey into the benefits of date nights. Discover how setting aside dedicated time for date nights can reignite passion, enhance communication, and foster emotional connection in your relationship. Throughout the episode, they share personal stories, creative ideas, and budget-friendly tips to help you plan memorable and meaningful date nights. They address potential challenges and provide guidance on how to prioritize date nights, even when one partner may not share the same enthusiasm. Listeners can also look forward to a Q&A segment, where Taara and James answer burning questions from t

Are you curious about the transformative power of somatic sex education? Do you want to hear about a retreat where consent was always in use and embodied presence was nurtured? Then join hosts Taara and Sylvie as they reflect on their experience at a retreat hosted by the Somatic Sex Educators Association in Portland. In this episode, Taara and Sylvie take you on a journey to a cozy Airbnb filled with 8 other people, where they explored the depths of their bodies and returned home with a newfound sense of self-awareness. They share their insights on the importance of consent and embodied presence throughout the retreat, which created a safe and welcoming space for everyone involved. But that's not all! They also delve into the workshops, community activities and peer support they enjoyed, as well as some aspects they would have changed. You'll hear about the power of somatic sex education and how spaces that prioritize consent and embodied awareness can help you connect with your body in ways you never thou

Are you tired of the same old dating scene? Do you crave something more adventurous and exciting? Look no further than the world of polyamory! In this episode, we sit down with the brilliant Dr. Marie Thouin to explore the ins and outs of non-monogamous dating. Dr. Thouin is a polyamorous relationship coach who helps individuals and couples navigate the complexities of multiple relationships. Her approach emphasizes mindfulness and personal growth, as she believes that dating can be a powerful tool for self-discovery. We dive into the philosophy of mindful dating and how it applies to polyamory. By being intentional and present in our dating experiences, we can learn more about ourselves and what we truly desire in relationships. We also discuss the unique opportunities and challenges of dating as a non-monogamous person, including how to meet other CNM folks and how to navigate rejection. And for those who are new to the world of polyamory, fear not! Dr. Thouin breaks down some common misconceptions and prov

For this special episode, Sylvie interviews me and fellow educator Jenn about our unforgettable experience at a lifestyle/swinger hotel takeover. We discussed what it was like to go on this trip without our partners, the classes and workshops we taught, and how it felt for me to get back into hotel takeovers after a three-year hiatus. As a BDSM educator, Jenn has over 10 years of experience in BDSM and ethical non-monogamy, making her the perfect partner to join me on this adventure. We share our perspectives on the lifestyle community and how it has evolved over the years. From the excitement of meeting new people to the challenges of navigating this new environment, we cover it all. We also dive into the classes and workshops that we taught, including BDSM and consent workshops that were well-received by the attendees. Join us as we take you behind the scenes of a lifestyle hotel takeover and share our insights and experiences. Whether you're a seasoned lifestyle veteran or just curious about this community

May is Masturbation Month and Taara and Sylvie are kicking it off by diving into the topic that's often considered taboo but crucial for our sexual health - masturbation! They have an open and honest conversation about the benefits of masturbation, common misconceptions, techniques, and tips, as well as the shame that can come with it. They explore how masturbation can be incorporated into relationships, from doing it in secret to using it as foreplay or even masturbating together. It's all about communication, intimacy, and exploring your sexuality. Taara and Sylvie bring their personal experiences to the table, sharing stories of their own self-discovery and the role that masturbation has played in their lives. Whether you're a seasoned pro or just starting to explore the world of self-pleasure, this episode is for you. So, get ready for an informative, fun, and judgment-free conversation about a topic that we believe needs to be talked about more. Let's dive in! WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/tbMOuOKj

Ready to stir some good trouble and dive deep into the world of modern dating? Our latest episode of Sex Ed for the Modern Bed is here and we're thrilled to be joined by the incredible Reia! Hailing from the Ottawa Valley and currently residing on Treaty 7, Reia is a pleasure activist, Somatic Sex Educator, and Sexological Bodyworker.⁠ Together with hosts Taara and Sylvie, Reia shares her insights and experiences on navigating the ever-evolving world of dating. From discussing how dating has changed over the past 10 years (hello, ghosting and digital age) to exploring the importance of mindset and embodiment in dating success, we cover it all. Plus, we share tips on approaching safety and boundary-setting, and dive into the importance of sexual dialogue in creating empowered, fulfilling connections.⁠ Throughout the episode, Reia brings the realness and some serious story telling, reminding us to stay present, claim our pleasure, and own our bodies. It's a conversation you won't want to miss, so tune in now an

Bisexuals are the most common identity in the LGBTQIA+ population with 84% of bisexual people in opposite sex partnerships. On top of that, women are more likely to identify as bisexual. So why isn’t there more support and resources for queer women? Especially those in straight relationships? We invite Heather as a guest on this show to discuss major challenges bisexual women face, the stereotypes many are labelled with and even physical and mental health outcomes this invisible majority can encounter. Heather is currently a third-year graduate student in Southern Methodist University’s Counseling Program working toward completion of her Master’s degree. As a member of the LGBTQIA+ community, she is committed to finding creative ways to serve and support others in the group. You won’t want to miss out on this intimate and candid discussion three bisexual women share about being in straight, long-term partnerships. Guest Info: Heather is currently a third-year graduate student in Southern Methodist University

We have our FIRST cis-male interview on our show! James is Taara’s partner and we invited him to join our show to share his experience of dropping traditional and patriarchal mindsets. We talk about how these mindsets negatively impacted him, the tools he used to help ditch them, and what shifts he noticed after when it came to his personal relationships, sex and intimacy. This isn’t James’s first time on the mic, he has recorded over 100 episodes with Taara on their former podcast Sex Uninterrupted and has travelled to events like Young Swingers Week and Naughty n’ Nawlins to speak at workshops and panels and share his knowledge and experience with men. WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/gjO8_D6-1m4 ---- About Sex Ed for the Modern Bed: I have been working as a sex educator since 2014. First as a non-monogamous educator and podcaster with my partner. In April 2021 I decided that I wanted to expand my knowledge surrounding sex education and enrolled in school to become a certified Somatic Sex Educator and S

We often talk about all things “modern” on our show. Modern love, modern sex, modern relationships. However, today we decided to switch things up and go back in time. We have invited the incredible Dr. Kate Lister onto our show to give us a history lesson on sex workers, non monogamy and all things sex! Dr Kate Lister is a lecturer in the School of Arts and Communication at Leeds Trinity University. She primarily researches the literary history of sex work and curates the online research project, Whores of Yore, an interdisciplinary digital archive for the study of historical sexuality. Kate has also published in the medical humanities, material culture, Victorian studies and Neo-Medievalism. She regularly writes about the history of sexuality for inews, Vice, and the Welcome Trust and won the Sexual Freedom Publicist of the Year Award in 2017. We can’t wait to get into it! About the Guest: Dr. Kate Lister Bio: Dr Kate Lister is a lecturer in the School of Arts and Communication at Leeds Trinity University.

Most people have them…erotic, sexy, hot fantasies that get our juices flowing, bodies aroused and genitals throbbing. But what happens when these fantasies and desires are considered a little taboo? Or really taboo? Do you keep them a secret? Never to be discussed or acted out? On today’s show we are going to center on the taboo. On fantasies, desires and why “the naughty” can feel so damn sexy… WATCH ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/7S47bVlxbxQ ---- About Sex Ed for the Modern Bed: I have been working as a sex educator since 2014. First as a non-monogamous educator and podcaster with my partner. In April 2021 I decided that I wanted to expand my knowledge surrounding sex education and enrolled in school to become a certified Somatic Sex Educator and Sexological Bodyworker. I have recently completed my fourth Core Course with my Institute and I am a certified "Like a Pro" graduate with the School of Consent. I am currently starting a waitlist to work with clients both online and in-person. Read more about Somat