Miss Gender (audio)

Remember back in 2015 when Ashley put in a two-years-out down payment for bottom surgery with Dr. Bowers? Well, that...

After Ashley’s wobbly visit with her parents over Independence Day weekend in which her parents carelessly outed Ashley to her...

Ashley went to see her parents over Independence Day weekend. Her brother Adrian, and his wife and parents-in-law were also...

Ashley chats with Jay about visiting her parents in December. They didn’t use her birthname during the trip, but they...

Ashley and Jay talk about Ashley’s travels over the last few months, including the family reunion she attended in July,...

Ashley gives Jay all the details about her recent trip to Argentina for her FFS (Facial Feminization Surgery) with Dr....

After a promising visit with her parents over Thanksgiving, Ashley felt somewhat optimistic about seeing them in December, but since...

After Ashley sent a second letter to her parents about using her correct name, she realized that they would probably...

About a year ago, Ashley sent her parents a letter asking them to call her Ashley. At the time, she...

Ashley visited her parents at the beginning of winter. Over her previous visit for Thanksgiving, she had heaps of support...

Even though Ashley’s name change has gone through, she’s wasn’t sure whether it would make any difference when she visited...

After having filed her paperwork and heaps of waiting — among other steps — Ashley’s court date for her name...

Ashley had been trying to remain patient with her parents’ refusal to use her new name or correct pronouns, hoping...

Ashley has waited for months for her parents to start using the name Ashley instead of her birth name, but...

Ashley answers 7 Questions for the we happy trans project, such as who’s been most supportive of her transition, changes...

Ashley is frustrated by her parents’ lack of acceptance, and suggests that instead of emphasizing her new happiness to them,...

Ashley teaches Jay about the nuances and changing meanings of some of the more hurtful slurs directed toward trans folks,...

Ashley’s father seems to view her gender therapist as a sort of puppet-master (puppet-mistress?) pulling Ashley’s strings, even though Ashley...

Ashley visits with family and friends during the yuletide season and her parents obstinately use the wrong name and pronouns...

Ashley gets laid off, inferring through the business-speak that it was a means for the company to cut costs. She...