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Comedian Kendall Ferguson stops by to talk about sex and relationships

Comedian Kendall Ferguson stops by to talk about sex and relationships

Comedian Kendall Ferguson stops by to talk about sex and relationships

Comedian Kendall Ferguson stops by to talk about sex and relationships

A few of my friends are having some relationship issues. Without going into details, the one thing that they all have in common is that they feel like they are missing some crucial elements in the relationship. For the most part, they were at one point happy with the relationship and their partner in general. But over time, they realized that something that they felt they needed was missing. Suddenly, that need became so great that they were willing to sacrifice what they had to seek out what they didn't have. I had always thought that this behavior was more common in men than women. However, according to my recent experience, it has become apparent that women have these feelings too. I thought that most women just kinda settled into their relationships, and lived them out until something devastating happened to make them want to leave. So, either the majority of my friends are not the average woman, or there are more women out there that are refusing to settle. I'm betting on the latter. This excit

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Paul Branton is back and still talking shit!!

Paul Branton stops by to talk dirty !!!!!

I got this letter from a myspace friend about a friend of hers: Her husband had got deployed for 4 months. Well before he left to go to Iraq, they were already talking about getting a divorce. Well while he was away, she started seeing another guy. I told her she wasn't being smart with the affair, she was out in the open with it. Now where she lives...it is nothing but military families. All of them are friends! They watched her for 3 months, parade her new man around. She even had the man in the house with the children. Well, she has three kids, but the oldest one is not his. So when her husband calls one day, the oldest son tell him that mommy was having another man in the house. Well to make a long story short, he and she had an argument about it and he threatened to kick her ass out his house when he got back home. Well, he came home Oct. 1, and it has been hell every since. He has followed her to stores, and other places. Just to make sure she isn't having any type of co

Okay y'all, I got this message from this guy the other day. It took me a couple of days to answer it, because I was trying to figure out how to keep my cool and not call him a punk BEEEYOTCH!!!! Oh, wow, I guess I didn't make it, huh? Ok, so anywayz…I won't reprint the letter, nor will I publish his name simply because he asked me not to. I will say that it is my sincere hope that he does not delete me for what I am about to say…but, I warned u all from day one "don't ask if u don't want to know". I do not sugar coat anything, and Imma give it to u raw and uncut, so here goes… The question was this…in so many words…"how do I tell my wife that I'm bisexual?" wtf? Okay, let me just say this first…the answer is "you don't"!!!!! Before y'all get to jumping on me for telling this man to keep a secret, let me tell you why I said this, for those of yall that don't already know. I say don't tell her, because she already knows!!!! Telling her i

Why is it so hard for people to believe that a woman can be involved with a jumpoff situation for a long period of time and not develop feelings for the other party? Does it take a hardcore, heartless BITCH to separate love from sex? What does it matter that it's been 12+ years of the same guy, ALL the friggin time? Why can't a booty call just continue to be a booty call without somebody falling in love? If you go into a situation knowing what it is from the beginning, why should it be more difficult to accept later? How come people think a woman cannot control her emotions well enough to call a spade a spade or a booty call? Since when are men the only ones that can distinguish sex from emotions and treat it as such? Or does a guy have to be just as cold to consistently sleep with the same woman for 12+ years and not feel a damn thing? What is the standard for when you stop calling a booty call a booty call? Is there some unspoken ru

I have a friend who had been in a long term relationship for umpteen years with the father of her child. She was undoubtedly faithful to him throughout their relationship while he consistently cheated on her. She always knew he was cheating, even though most of the time she didn't speak up about it. He was caught over and over because he was careless in hiding his antics. She would find all kinds of stuff in his pockets (no snooping, she was doing his laundry), and in the car they shared. She would get anonymous phone calls from women who refused to give her their name, but proclaimed to be the woman (women) that her man was currently sleeping with. She forgave him time after time only for him to do it again and again, even to the point of fathering another child outside of their relationship. Finally she was fed up and felt she deserved some attention from a guy who had been pursuing her for quite some time. She talked to him a couple of times and eventually met him

I have heard it said that fellatio (oral sex performed on male) is the ultimate form of submission. After all, a woman should derive no pleasure from orally pleasuring a man. It is he who receives the benefit from all the teasing and licking and sucking of his member, while she suffers only the agony of the strain on her jaw muscles from trying to perform while avoiding contact with her teeth which are a natural obstruction. How could anyone disagree with the notion of submission when after all, he is looking down at her and she is in a sense bowing down to him (especially if she is kneeling before him)? How could anyone question his superior position in this situation, when he is obviously the only party receiving pleasure from the act and therefore she is practically sacrificing herself in a physical sense by giving in to his need for carnal pleasure? A woman with a bit of a controlling streak might see the situation fro