Kuldrin's Krypt: A Bdsm 101 Podcast

Recorded: 11/21/2021 / Published: 5/29/2022- https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are revisiting how to keep it kinky during the holiday season. - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Keeping it Kinky for the Holidays Revisited-S04E15”With the holidays fast approaching I get a lot of questions about maintaining a D/s role around the nonkinky family. And a special thank you to my sub, Mayfair for suggesting that I do this as an episode...again. There are several ways to stay in role but not appear anyway that would make grandma uncomfortable. So here are five ways to keep the kink without killing kinfolk.Decide on names.Decide on food limits prior to any gatherings.Use gestures.Serve food and drinks.Pick clothing and day collar in advance.

Recorded: 11/14/2021 / Published: 5/19/2022- at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about polyamory partner compatibility and jealousy. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Polyamory Partner Compatibility and Jealousy-S04E14” Polyamory from Curtain Call https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OyO1H6eBP60 Definitions to know: https://www.webmd.com/sex/what-is-polyamory Polyamory: multiple loving, intentional, and intimate relationships at the same time. Polyamory is a type of open or non-monogamous relationship that follows certain guidelines. Polyamory specifically refers to people who have multiple romantic relationships at the same time. It does not mean any type of open relationship that may include more casual sexual partners

- Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are celebrating the 5 year anniversary of the podcast! This is not a typical episode.- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Five Year Anniversary-S04E13” - Seasons 1-4 review.- Kuldrin gets interviewed by Mayfair and take's 10 licks.- Mayfair gets 10 licks.Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/413National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN

Recorded: 10/31/2021 / Published: 4/28/2022- https://kuldrinskrypt.com- In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are back from Panama City Beach, Florida and talking about an extremely important topic; risk mitigation. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “BDSM Risk Mitigation-S04E12” Deviant Discussions Podcast and Kynk101.com (Https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Risk)Risk Mitigation:Definition (Project Management Institute): The process of developing options and actions to enhance opportunities and reduce threats to project objectives. Risk mitigation Progress Monitoring (Project Management Institute):Definition: The tracking of identified risks, identifying new risks, and evaluating risk process effectiveness throughout the project.Steps of Risk Mitigation:Risk Identificatio

Recorded: 10/17/2021 / Published: 4/25/2022- https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are finishing up our deep dive to help people recognize abusive relationships and get out of them. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “How to Recognize the Signs of Mental and Emotional Abuse-S04E10” Medically reviewed by Timothy J. Legg, Ph.D., CRNP — Written by Ann Pietrangelo — Updated on December 6, 2018https://www.healthline.com/health/signs-of-mental-abuse?fbclid=IwAR1TSnF_j8kYoAgmVxYBF0Bs7A2Iup-4eZA4igXfeO2-QMHk7mRo7rBnFqM OverviewYou probably know many of the more obvious signs of mental and emotional abuse. But when you’re in the midst of it, it can be easy to miss the persistent undercurrent of abusive behavior.Psychological abuse involves a

Recorded: 10/10/2021 / Published: 4/19/2022- https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are diving heavily into psychology with part 2 of an attempt to help people recognize abusive relationships and get out of them. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “How to Recognize the Signs of Mental and Emotional Abuse-S04E10” Medically reviewed by Timothy J. Legg, Ph.D., CRNP — Written by Ann Pietrangelo — Updated on December 6, 2018https://www.healthline.com/health/signs-of-mental-abuse?fbclid=IwAR1TSnF_j8kYoAgmVxYBF0Bs7A2Iup-4eZA4igXfeO2-QMHk7mRo7rBnFqM OverviewYou probably know many of the more obvious signs of mental and emotional abuse. But when you’re in the midst of it, it can be easy to miss the persistent undercurrent of abusive behavior.P

Recorded: 10/03/2021 / Published: 4/15/2022- https://kuldrinskrypt.com - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are diving heavily into psychology today in an attempt to help people recognize abusive relationships and get out of them. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “How to Recognize the Signs of Mental and Emotional Abuse-S04E09” Medically reviewed by Timothy J. Legg, Ph.D., CRNP — Written by Ann Pietrangelo — Updated on December 6, 2018https://www.healthline.com/health/signs-of-mental-abuse?fbclid=IwAR1TSnF_j8kYoAgmVxYBF0Bs7A2Iup-4eZA4igXfeO2-QMHk7mRo7rBnFqM OverviewYou probably know many of the more obvious signs of mental and emotional abuse. But when you’re in the midst of it, it can be easy to miss the persistent undercurrent of abusive behavior.Psycholo

Recorded: 09/26/2021 / Published: 4/10/2022- https://kuldrinskrypt.com - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are discussing some of the reasons D/s relationships fail and how to prevent them from happening. - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Why Your Dom/sub Relationship Will Not Work-S04E08” “Race Bannon: Dom Disillusionment Syndrome” 21 May 2019https://www.recon.com/en/Blog/Article/race-bannon-dom-disillusionment-syndrome/2802 Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/408National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.c

Recorded: 09/12/2021 / Published: 4/05/2022- https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are touching on a few topics like narcissists and the saying "it is what it is" and answering random questions out of the chatroom.- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Narcissists, 'It is What it is', and Live Q&A-S04E07” Narcissist Defined: a mental condition in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others.“Facts don’t care about your feelings.”“It is what it is.” by Emerald Wolf https://fetlife.com/users/7081106/posts/7462467 Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/407National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-825

Recorded: 09/12/2021 / Published: 3/28/2022- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt it's a requested topic by Mi Tu: FinDoms. Also known as Financial Domination.- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Financial Domination (BDSM FinDom)-S04E06” Defined: is a subsect of the BDSM lifestyle, specifically dominance and submission, in which a submissive gives control of their finances to a Dominant. Often degradation and humiliation are included in the D/s dynamic.What is the difference between Financial Domination and sugar babying?A sugar baby relationship is where a sugar daddy/mama offers gifts and money to the "baby" in return for a relationship, generally without any explici

Recorded: 08/29/2021 / Published: 03/20/2021- https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about competing in kink.- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Kink as a Compition-S04E05” - Who competes?Doms with other Doms: Who has the most subs? Who has the “best” sub? Who is the best top? Who is the most extreme/heaviest top? Who has the most notoriety? Subs with other subs: Who has the “best” dom? Who is the “best” sub? Who is the “best” bottom? Who is the most extreme bottom? Who knows all the slave positions and performs them the best? Who has the most notoriety?- Why?People are naturally competitive.The lingo and talk of our community naturally encourage it.Frenzy.Ego.- Is it healthy?Comparing ourselves to othersActing outside our

Recorded: 08/29/2021 / Published: 03/13/2022https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are diving into BDSM Discipline and Punishments.  Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )- Safe, sane, consensual, and informed- KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity- “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “BDSM Discipline and Punishments-S04E04” Why do we use discipline and punishments?Growth and improvement are part of the Dom/sub dynamic and discipline and punishments are valuable tools in obtaining goals agreed on and set within the dynamic.  When is it ok to discipline or punish?When agreed-upon rules have been broken.When the infraction is understood.When anger isn’t directing the punishment.What are common types of disciplines and punishments?Spankings, floggings, wooden spoon, …Groundings HumiliationBeing left aloneWithholding cuddlesSilent treatmentTaking away items like

Recorded: 08/29/2021 / Published: 3/10/2022- https://kuldrinskrypt.com - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are diving into BDSM Discipline and Punishments. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “BDSM Discipline and Punishments-S04E04” Why do we use discipline and punishments?Growth and improvement are part of the Dom/sub dynamic and discipline and punishments are valuable tools in obtaining goals agreed on and set within the dynamic. When is it ok to discipline or punish?When agreed-upon rules have been broken.When the infraction is understood.When anger isn’t directing the punishment.What are common types of disciplines and punishments?Spankings, floggings, wooden spoon, …Groundings HumiliationBeing left aloneWithholding cuddlesSilent treatmentTaking away it

Recorded: 08/08/2021 / Published: 3/6/2022- https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are diving into a discussion about unhealthy times to participate in BDSM. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “AnnaLynne McCord and Unhealthy BDSM?-S04E02” “AnnaLynne McCord Says She Experimented with Cutting, BDSM: 'To Feel Anything In My Body At All'” By TooFab Staff 8/4/2021https://toofab.com/2021/08/04/annalynne-mccord-says-she-experimented-with-cutting-bdsm/ “AnnaLynne McCord has opened up about her childhood trauma and abuse, and the different behaviors and coping mechanisms she experienced as a result.Speaking candidly on Wednesday's episode of the "Call Me Daddy" podcast, the "90210" actress recalled being "abusive" to herself because the "level

Recorded: 08/02/2021 / Published: 2/28/2022- https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are discussing the rule life before lifestyle and the difference between stepping away and walking away. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “When is it Time to Step Away From BDSM?-S04E01” What does it mean to step away?Taking a temporary break from parties, events, munches, cons, D/s dynamics, topping, bottoming, and/or other lifestyle-related activities.Stepping away is not to be confused with walking away. Walking away means that it isn’t a break, it is a decision to permanently leave.Why would someone need to step away?In general, it is best to follow the “Life before Lifestyle” rule but here are some specific reasons we can think of the people hav

Recorded: 7/11/2021 / Published: 2/25/2022Visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about BDSM dungeon etiquette and your first play party.  Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young“BDSM Dungeon Etiquette and Your First Play Party-S03E52” What is a play party?: A play party is a gathering for those in the lifestyle, getting together for various methods of play, be they demonstrations, performances, or just scenes in general.Types of play parties:General play parties are usually listed on Fetlife and openly known about within community munch circles and groups.Dark parties are by invitation only and are only known about by those who have been invited. These are not to be talked about to anyone before or after the event. These most

Recorded: 7/04/2021 / Published: 2/20/2022- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking about how not to introduce yourself to others and sharing some FetLife messages some of the Krypt Producer’s have received. These are some of the dumbest, idiotic, and thirsty messages I have ever had the laugh of reading. As a disclaimer, this episode strays outside the typical high-brow use of the English language we like to primarily stick to using. This episode is not safe for children are none of the episodes should never be shared with anyone under 18. However, this one isn’t safe for work, college, or human consumption in general. Now, sit back, grab your favorite beverage, and let’s all enjoy laughing and puking at some of the terrible messages that were seriously intended as a way to get the sender laid. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowl

Recorded: 6/27/2021 / Published: 2/17/2022Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are raping up gay pride month by talking about giving you a list of the top ten LGBTQ documentaries according to Screenrant.com and then we have a quick, funny, and surprisingly refreshing bonus article about the Weiner Twitter video.- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young“Top 10 LGBTQ Documentaries to Watch-S03E50” Netflix's "A Secret Love" (& 9 Other LGBTQ Documentaries) To Watch https://screenrant-com.cdn.ampproject.org/v/s/screenrant.com/netflix-secret-love-other-lgbtq-documentaries-to-watch/amp/?amp_js_v=a6&amp_gsa=1&usqp=mq331AQKKAFQArABIIACAw%3D%3D#aoh=16247557426252&referr

Recorded: 6/20/2021 / Published: 2/13/2022- https://kuldrinskrypt.com - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are celebrating gay pride month by talking about ‘The Trevor Project.’- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungNational Survey on LGBTQ Youth Mental Health 2021 https://www.thetrevorproject.org/survey-2021/?section=Introduction What is The Trevor Project? https://www.thetrevorproject.org It’s a nonprofit that was founded in 1998 by the creators of the Academy Award®-winning short film TREVOR. The Trevor Project is the leading national organization providing crisis intervention and suicide prevention services to lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer & questioning (LGBTQ) young people under 25.The past year has been incredibly difficult for so many, but we

Recorded: 6/13/2021 / Published: 2/11/2022- Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are celebrating gay pride month by putting together an episode aimed at parents who want to send their children to conversion therapy. We are going to define it, get into what psychology thinks about it, go over some of the techniques used, tell you if it is still legal and where, and finally, report the unsurprising statics on its effectiveness, the number of self-harm cases caused by it, and whether it increases or decreases suicidal ideation in the gay population. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: K