Kuldrin's Krypt: A Bdsm 101 Podcast

Recorded: 6/06/2021 / Published: 2/06/2022- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are celebrating gay pride month by defining and discussing Gender Identity.- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Gay Pride Month: What is Gender Identity?-S03E47” https://www.hrc.org/resources/sexual-orientation-and-gender-identity-terminology-and-definitions Sexual orientation: An inherent or immutable enduring emotional, romantic or sexual attraction to other people.Gender identity:One's innermost concept of self as male, female, a blend of both or neither – how individuals perceive themselves and what they call themselves. One's gender identity can be the same or different from their s

Recorded: 5/30/2021 / Published: 2/3/2022- Visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are discussing the ongoing controversy of leather, kink, and BDSM’s involvement or removal in Pride parades. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Gay Pride Month and BDSM Isn't Allowed-S03E46”- “BDSM and kink don’t belong in Pride celebrations. This is whyEvery year we have this debate, but the facts stay the same: It’s a matter of politics and consent” By Skylar Baker-Jordan / May 25, 2021https://www.independent.co.uk/voices/bdsm-kink-pride-lgbt-rights-celebrations-why-b1853859.html “The best clap backs to the ‘no kink at Pride’ discourse: Leather, kink, bare asses and a titty or two are a fundamental part of Pride” By Mel Woods • May 2

Recorded: 5/16/2021 / Published: 1/30/2022- In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are talking to Lady Katie about female Dominance and The Sapphire Club,- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Lady Katie on Female Dominants-S03E45”- https://fetlife.com/users/6523246?sp=4 Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/345National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92- Master Producer ($50/month): - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Just_Call_Me_Ash, Kiongakyu, and dboat

Recorded: 5/16/2021 / Published: 2/27/2022- In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are going to be explaining DD/lg BDSM dynamics.- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “What are DDlg BDSM Relationships-S03E44”-”15 DDLG Quotes That Explain Daddy Dom/Little Girl Relationships”.https://www.yourtango.com/quotes/sex/kinky-ddlg-daddy-dom-quotes Daddy Dom and little girl relationships, also known as DDlg or DD/lg relationships, are among the most commonly misunderstood of the various types of passionate loving relationships that fall under the umbrella of BDSM kink.I can understand why, at first glance, seeing a Dominant referred to as "Daddy" or "Mommy" and a submissive referred to as "little girl" — or baby girl," "boy," "boi," or a variant along those lines — could app

Recorded: 5/09/2021 / Published: 1/23/2022- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt I am going to be talking mentorships-what are they, who needs them, what makes great mentors and mentees, and what causes them to fail.- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “What are BDSM Dom and sub Mentorships-S03E43”- What is a mentorship?Definition: The guidance provided by a mentor, especially an experienced person in a company or educational institution.- Why are mentorships important?A mentor may share with a mentee (or protege) information about his or her own career path, as well as provide guidance, motivation, emotional support, and role modeling. A mentor may help with exploring

Recorded: 4/25/2021 / Published: 1/20/2022- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt, we are talking about "The Safeword defense" and consent violations.- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Safeword Defense and Consent Violations-S03E42”Written by and permission given by Soup on Fetlife. https://fetlife.com/users/10338348/posts/6015142 Let’s say that Daniel and Craig decided to do a scene together. Daniel lays down a hard limit: don’t put a pineapple up my ass. An hour later, during the scene, when Daniel is vulnerable and things are getting pretty steamy, Craig slowly shoves that pineapple right up into Daniel’s butt.Now let’s pause for a second here. In an ideal case, Da

Recorded: April 25, 2021 / Published: Jan 16, 2022- Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt, thanks to the newest subcategory of TikTok, we are talking about watersports also known as golden showers.- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Ultimate Guide to Watersports-S03E41”.Why golden showers/watersports?:The feel.The taste.The taboo.Dominance/submission..Humiliation/degradation.Basic types of watersports:Wett

Recorded: 4/18/2021 / Published: 1/13/2022- In this week’s episode of The Krypt we have some fun sex toys buying facts from 2020 and then it's another highly requested audience Q&A.- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “BDSM Fun Facts, Sex Toys, and Q&A-S03E40”“The Rise of Sex Toys and Key Trends for 2021” By Lara Dolden February 8, 21https://techround.co.uk/news/the-rise-of-sex-toys-and-key-trends-for-2021/Let’s face it, 2020 was not the most exciting year on record. Between canceled holidays, restaurant closures, and separation from friends, it was difficult to stay entertained. Many were taking to the bedroom to add some adventure to the otherwise humdrum lockdown days, with record-breaking increases in sex toy purchases. With much of the world still on l

Recorded: 4/11/2021 / Published: 1/9/2022- Ccan call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this week’s episode of The Krypt we are going to have some fun and talk about 20 sex facts you probably don’t not know about sex. Plus, if we have time, we’ve three really interesting bonus facts.- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “20 Things You Don't Know About Sex-S03E39”*Prior to birth, unborn babies masturbate.* Orgasm is a reflex of the autonomic nervous system. The ANS controls things we don’t continuously control like arousal, breathing, and digestion.* You can orgasm when you are brain dead.* You don’t need genitals to orgasm.* Orgasm can cause a seminal odor in women’s breath about an hour after achieving or

- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - Two weeks ago we talked about when you should not participate in BDSM play and in this week’s episode of The Krypt we are going to keep with that theme because I found something from Spain that I have to share with as a BDSM nightmare and a huge warning to those of you that love to randomly meet people in person that you have met online.- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young-  “IRL Hooking up with online players: BDSM Nightmare-S03E38-S03E38”“Group Arrested For Torturing, Blackmailing Man With Learning Disability” by Brian Yalung, Mar 11, 2021https://www.latintimes.com/group-arrested-torturing-blackmailing-man-learning-disability-466718“Seven people who allegedly torture

https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this episode of The Krypt we are going to talk about when you should not participate in BDSM play also know as a scene or scening. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “What's in a Desired Top by TinkerBratTN-S03E37”https://fetlife.com/users/12148162/posts/7011967“I have this friend that I have known for 5 years. He is a very well known Master and Top in some of my circles. He is semi-famous and sought after to play with. I have wanted to scene with him since we first met at a munch in E TN years ago. We just haven't been able to connect in person to do so and that's ok.I was speaking last night to another Top and he asked why so many people flock to this particular fellow. My answer was initially on the lines of "He is educated." "H

Recorded: 3/14/2021- In this episode of The Krypt we are going to talk about when you should not participate in BDSM play also known as a scene or scening. - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “When Shouldn't You Participate in BDSM Play-S03E36”As we go through these remember:- Mayfair and I are NOT licensed mental health professionals as this is a psychology heavy episode.- Both Kuldrin and Mayfair have personal experience with several different types of mental illnesses and treat this topic with the utmost respect.- This is not a complete list and these are not the only reasons not to play.- Some of these are and others are not absolute reasons to play or not to play

Recorded: 3/7/2021- In this episode of The Krypt we are going to have to talk about a few hot button issues that are bouncing around right now because of a Nevada court case currently taking place. Some of those topics are victim-blaming, buyer’s remorse, BDSM and the law, and if we have time relationship contracts. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Nevada's BDSM Sexual Assualt Trial-S03E35”“Sex assault trial gets underway in Nevada County courtroom” - By Liz Kellar (Staff Writer), February 17, 2021-https://www.theunion.com/news/sex-assault-trial-gets-underway-in-nevada-county-courtroom/ - The issue of consent — and whether a BDSM contract was enforced under duress — was the crux of the arguments of both prosecution and defense as the sexual assault trial of a

Recorded: 2/28/2021 / Published: 10/11/2021- In this episode of The Krypt we are going to have a live Q&A session about anything and everything BDS, sex, and relationships. Plus, today is the day that two people that filled out the podcast survey will each be winning a $25 Amazon gift card! - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Dominant, submissives, and Live BDSM Q&A-S03E34”- Questions: - babylove&Sir: What do you wish new people would ask you?What’s the most common question people ask?- Alley Hoops: Mayfair, what is a journal topic that you found very useful for understanding the dynamic you were entering?- Art Kitten: in one of my groups on fetlife, a Do

Recorded: 2/21/2021 / Published: 10/04/2021- In this episode of The Krypt I am joined by a fellow lifestyle veteran and new YouTuber to discuss what you need to know about BDSM.- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young-  “What you need to know about BDSM with CurtainCall-S03E33”https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/CurtainCall is a long-time BDSM educator, munch leader, and a new YouTuber with a truly unique delivery. He is a mentor, a protector, and a friend to many. Please join us as The Krypt welcomes him into the YouTube space, learn the lessons he has to teach, and help him grow his channel to reach more people.- Ten Licks (Rapid Fire)1. How long have been into Kink?2. Top, bottom, o

Recorded: 2/14/2021 / Published: 09/26/2021- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I, discuss a problem that is so common in the scene most people don’t even realize they do it; abuse of power and authority.- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Abuse of Power and AuthorityBDSM-S03E32”- Abuse of Power, also known as Abuse of Authority, is defined as the use of one’s position to gain an unfair advantage over another outside of that position’s scope.To be clear, although writing about this can come across as more clinical and less dramatic, purposeful misuse of power is indeed a form of actual abuse, and its use should not be tolerated.Abuse of Power can

Recorded: 2/7/2021 / Published: 9/23/2021In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, Master Gabriel, and I are going to discuss BDSM Etiquette: Dom to Dom Communication Part 2.Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. 1: Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )2: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed3: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young“BDSM Etiquette: Dom to Dom Communication Part 2-S03E31”A brief recap:The dictionary defines Manners as:Ways of behaving with reference to polite standards.A way of acting, bearing, or behaviorThe socially correct way of acting.Manners really are important no matter what lifestyle you lead, it is the basic common courtesies which most people learn as they grow up. The please and thank you, not speaking with a mouthful of food, not interrupting a conversation,

Recorded: 1/31/2021 / Published: 9/19/2021- In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I, are going to figure out what BDSM Etiquette: Dom to Dom Communication is all about.- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “BDSM Etiquette: Dom to Dom Communication Part 1-S03E30”- This is a topic that comes directly from a listener and is one that, in my experience, isn’t really talked about outside of mentorships, really good Dominant training classes, or after the fact when there has been an issue.- The listener, who consent to us using the messages as an example and wishes to remain anonymous, wrote: “Question about Dom to Dom etiquette. I have a collared submissive

Recorded: 1/24/2021- In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I, are going to figure out what we should do if our partner is into kinks and fetishes we are not into.- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “My Partner Has a Fetish that's not for Me-S03E29”- Power dynamics come into play in ALL relationships to a degree.- Just because someone is dominant or submissive in the bedroom does not mean they are the same or opposite their day-to-day life. What happens in the bedroom doesn’t always reveal much about a person’s personality.- Many studies have shown that 80% of the population are switches. It is typically the situation or the other personalities around

Recorded: 1/17/2020 / Published: 9/01/2021- In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I, are going to talk about solo BDSM play; a topic that was sparked by a fet message I received from MorIsrael. - Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Solo BDSM Play-S03E28”- There are a lot of reasons someone would want to, need to, or prefer to play alone. Let’s break these areas down and see what kind of advice we and the chatroom can come up with to help people out.- Some people just want to play alone.- Some people just aren’t ready to come out of their kink closet.- The time it takes to find a partner these days can be quite time-consuming and not everyone has the