Kuldrin's Krypt: A Bdsm 101 Podcast

Recorded: 1/10/2020 / Published: 08/22/2021- In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I, are going to spice things up and talk about some of our favorite and least favorite BDSM toys.- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “17 Best BDSM Toys to Spice Up Power Play” By Gina Vaynshteyn, Jan 7, 2021- https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/17-best-bdsm-toys-spice-211421334.html 1: Lynx Satin Mask/Blindfold2: Bordeaux & Chocolate Massage Candle3: Sportsheets S&M Kinky Pinky Cuffs4: Love Egg Vibrator5: Dark Side of the Rainbow Kit6: Spanking paddle7: Bijoux Indiscrets MAZE Tassel Flogger8: CalExotics Advanced Nipple Suckers9: Spartacus Adjustable Tweezer Nipple

Recorded: 12/20/2020 / Published: 08/13/2021Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactIn this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to dive into the little know behind the scenes aspect of the movie “Secretary” and hear what Maggie Gyllenhaal and James Spader had to say about BDSM and some unexpected onset aftercare needs.- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “‘Secretary’: Maggie Gyllenhaal Once Broke Down on the Set After Her Infamous Spanking Scene With James Spader” By Laura Dorwart, December 14, 2020- https://www.cheatsheet.com/entertainment/secretary-maggie-gyllenhaal-once-broke-down-on-the-set-after-her-infamous-spanking-scene-with-james-spader.html/ - Maggie Gyllenhaal, Jake Gy

Recorded: 12/20/2020 / Published: 8/03/2021In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to discuss the joys of adult movies and 2 articles about the latest screw-up by the adult website Pornhub. Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- Why Pornhub Might Get Shut Down-S03E25- “Pornhub removes most of its videos in effort to purge illegal content” By Noah Manskar, December 14, 2020 https://nypost.com/2020/12/14/pornhub-removes-millions-of-videos-in-illegal-content-purge/Pornhub appears to have removed most of the smutty videos from its site, apparently taking down more than 10 million of them as part of its recent crackdown on illegal content.The purge

Recorded: 12/06/2020 / Published: 7/12/2020Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to discuss another article published by Cosmopolitan about BDSM switches- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- What is a BDSM Switch by Cosmo-S03E24“Let's Discuss What You Need to Know About Being a BDSM Switch: It's like a lil bit of dominant + a lil bit of submissive” by Rachel Varina, Nov 20, 2020- https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a34740571/what-is-a-switch-bdsm/- “A top is simply someone who leads/guides the scene and the bottom is there to receive the experience,” explains Mistress Rogue, professional dominatrix and headmistress of The Dom House. (The d

Recorded: 12/06/2020 / Published: 6/25/2021Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to talk about a letter of experience and caution sent in by a listener telling his personal recent experience with red flags and respecting boundaries.- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- Red Flags and Respecting Boundaries-S03E23- A listener message titled “Want to Say Thank You” sent to me by CourtsDom69 on December 6, 2020.- Kuldrin,I wanted to take a minute and say thank you. I grew up ultra vanilla and found myself at age 44 in a relationship with a more experienced partner, OopsCourtDidIt exploring areas of sexuality I never knew existed.Courtney had been

Recorded: 11/29/2020 /  Published: 6/11/2021In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to talk about four BDSM myths that simply are not true.Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1) Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2) KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3) “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- Four Myths About BDSM You Need to Stop Believing-S03E22- Original Article by Canela López and Julia Naftulin Nov 16, 2020-(https://www.insider.com/myths-about-bdsm-according-to-kink-specialists-2020-2?fbclid=IwAR3-QNCNawRCIv0MZe0pRZQknCIh3zg8UdBzSybgRIwdVGIzipz0beTxMjo)Here are some of the biggest myths about BDSM, according to kink experts. 1: Myth: People who like BDSM are sexual deviants and freaks.- Whether they're the butt of the joke on shows like "Skins" or openly c

Recorded: 11/22/2020 / Published: 5/24/2021Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair, the chatroom, and I are going to offer some advice on finding a new Dom, sub, or play partner.- Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- Five Questions to ask a potential Dom/sub or Play Partner-S03E21- Before knowing what you want in someone else you have to know yourself.- What are the primary characteristics of my Dom/sub/play side?- Respectfulness- Playful- Obedient- Friendly- Demanding- Nurturing- Sadistic- Exhibition- What characteristics do I want in a Dom/sub/play partner?- Respect- Obedience- Thoughtfulness- Communication- Enjoys erotic humiliation/degradation- Masochist- Alpha sub- Loyal

Recorded: 11/08/2020 /  Published to Podcast: 5/17/2021In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair and I have a very special guest on the show to talk about Trauma and the community. She is a Sr. Producer and the administrator of the Patreon producer’s only Discord Community, xEmeraldxWolfx!Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.comRules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- WARNING: Potential trigger risks ahead. Listen at your own risk.- “Trauma and Community: Survivor Vs Victim Vs Acceptance-S03E20”- By xEmeraldxWolfx https://fetlife.com/users/7081106/posts/6698137- I recently attended a munch where part of the focus of conversation revolved around trauma. How we handle it, the mindset we have, where we can get stuck, and just

Recorded: 11/08/2020 /  Published: 05/06/2021- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - In this episode of The Krypt it's a Live Q&A with Kuldrin and Mayfair.- Next week Mayfair and I have a very special guest on the show to talk about Trauma and the community. She is a Sr. Producer and the administrator of the Patreon producer’s only Discord Community, xEmeraldxWolfx!Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Narcissist Doms and sub and a Live Q&A-S03E19”Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/319 National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:

Recorded: 11/01/2020Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair and I have a very educational article from Medium.com titled “She Said She Liked it Rough, I Had No Idea Where to Begin”. If you are a person that struggles with what your partner wants or if you are the one that wants it and they are the one struggling, this might be the thing that helps both of you understand it better.Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “She Said She Liked it Rough, I Had No Idea Where to Begin-S03E18”By Liam MacAdam https://medium.com/sexography/she-said-she-liked-it-rough-979ce1dfaded The other day, my wife Kate was talking to a friend on the phone about her record of falling for the wrong kind

Recorded: 10/25/2020 / Published: 4/12/2021- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair and I have a hilariously interesting article from BuzzFeed talking titled “17 Nurses Reveal The Worst Things People Got Stuck Up Their Penises, Vaginas, And Butts” so we thought we would lighten up a bit and talk about toy safety.Rules to Love By:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “Right Hole, Wrong Toy: Kinky Adult Toy Safety-S03E17”Let’s hear from these medical professionals first and then talk about some safety tips that we all need to follow.- BuzzFeed Article: “17 Nurses Reveal The Worst Things People Got Stuck Up Their Penises, Vaginas, And Butts” https://www.buzzfeed.com/spenceralthouse/things-up-penises-vaginas-and-butts?utm_source=d

The post-show for Kink as a Middle-Aged Woman with Gabbing Girl Time Podcast-S03E16.We were also joined by Krypt friend, supporter, and guest LylacWine to discuss the nuances of being a woman of a certain age. https://KuldrinsKrypt.com

Recorded: 10/18/2020 / Published: 3/27/2021On this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are joined by the hosts of The Gabbing Girt Time Podcast, Bruised Tonsils and Gale Grantham, to talk about kink, sex, D/s relationships, and many more topics that only "women of a certain age" know about.Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.comRules to Love By:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young“Kink and BDSM as Middle-Aged Woman with Gabbing Girl Time-S03E16”- Introducing Gabbing Girl Time Podcast and the hosts BruisedTonsils and Gail Granthem- Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gabbinggirltime/- Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/1A7Zfr135CfwchrogkIYPT - How would you define middle-aged?- How would you define the modern middle-aged woman?- What are some advantages to being

Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/315Recorded: 10/04/2020- In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair and I have an interesting article from Time Magazine talking about lessons the monogamous can learn from the polyamorous.- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - Rules to Love By:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “What Monogamous Couples Can Learn From Polyamorous Relationships, According to Experts” by Samantha Cooney / Aug 27, 2018, 3:23 PM EDThttps://time.com/5330833/polyamory-monogamous-relationships/?fbclid=IwAR0vwTiKjX4UcpgBKB7R2zwJe3LVoDWUSNLQh8mLiDgbni8Zn_w21Gf9h0wPolyamory, having more than one consensual sexual or emotional relationship at once, has in recent years emerged on television, mainstream dating sites like OkCupid and even in research.

Recorded: 10/04/2020 / Published: 3/21/2021On this episode of The Krypt LylacWine is joining us to talk about the concept of free space and a piece she has written on a sub in free space.Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. Rules to Love By:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- Free Space (with reference to D/s and submission specifically)Definition: (my definition)The place or a state of being occupied by a submissive at the end of his/her dynamic and the beginning of a new one. A sub in free space still holds sacred their submissive heart and values therein. He/she is unowned and can be uncollared or self collard in free space. The place of deep contemplation, reflection, healing, and self-growth after the ending of dynamic. The re-acclamation of self whilst

Recorded: 9/27/2020Published: 3/06/2021In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are tackling the differences between Hot Wife, Cuckold, and Voyeur kinks and fetishes.Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - Rules to Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- Cuck vs hotwife (and now we can add vs voyeur) a Discord post by Atsila"To the best of my knowledge.... these are the basic answers...Cuck tends to be ...Voyeur...I am a Voyeur... Basically.... we like to watch... some prefer in ...It’s hard for me sometimes even ...- Hot Wife Vs Cuckold Vs Voyeur-S03E13- Hot Wife (https://www.dictionary.com/e/slang/hotwife/)Definition: A hotwife is a married woman who has sexual relationships outside of her marriage, with the full knowledge and consent of her husband, wh

Recorded: 9/20/2020 / Published: 2/24/2021Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are talking the often forgotten about Dom’s right to deny consent. Rules to Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young“Sex With My Girlfriend Has Taken an Alarming Turn in Quarantine: Not all of us are cut out to be murderous KGB agents. by STOYA AUG 11, 2020https://slate.com/human-interest/2020/08/girlfriend-submissive-top-consent-advice.htmlDear How to Do It,Since the pandemic, my girlfriend has be

Recorded: 9/13/2020 / Published: 2/13/2021Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are talking about BDSM dynamic and what it really means.- Rules to Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- What is a BDSM Dominant submissive Dynamic-S03E11 https://fetlife.com/users/5941729/posts/6570436 “A Dynamic should always evolve, be updated, be thought about, have the ability to flex, etc. The word Dynamic itself means precisely that.” - Master Gabriel (@RavynBlood), Head of House, @HouseRavynbloodDynamic:adjective(of a process or system) characterized by constant change, activity, or progress. In the vanilla world, we refer to relationships in static terms such as dating, hooking up, marriage, and so on. While these lend a hi

Recorded: 9/6/2020 /  Published: 2/6/2021- In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are talking about Breaking (News) the Norm with BDSM: The good, the bad, and the ugly.- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. -Rules to Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- DYING FOR IT: Six in ten pensioners want to have a threesome and try BDSM before they die by Sun Reporter, Aug. 27, 2020 https://www.thescottishsun.co.uk/fabulous/5975873/pensioners-threesome-bdsm-six-ten-die/- ECSO: Woman and 14-year-old boy engaged in BDSM relationship by: Cody Long, Aug 25, 2020https://www.wkrg.com/local-news/ecso-woman-and-14-year-old-boy-engaged-in-bdsm-relationship/- Report: Jerry Falwell Watched While ‘Pool Boy’ Had Sex With His Wife by MICHAEL STONE Aug 24, 2020https://www.pa

Recorded: 8/30/2020- In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are going to talk about Depression within the BDSM Community.- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- Rules to Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- Depression within the BDSM CommunityDepression is a mood disorder that causes a persistent feeling of sadness and lack of interest, to the extent that it interferes with your daily life. It is a common mental health problem that normally affects around 7% of the American population in a given year. However, that number has skyrocketed this year, 2020, due to the COVID-19 pandemic, and a cornucopia of other travesties this year has seemingly gift-wrapped for us all. There are lots of reasons why a person might be diagnosed with depression, from si