Kuldrin's Krypt: A Bdsm 101 Podcast

Due to technical issues that were unknown at the time, the audio quality is not at our usual standard. However, the content is extremely important for all those who enjoy the freedom to practice BDSM. Recorded: 8/23/2020- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are going to talk about some new scary laws happening around the world and how they apply to those of us who live in the U.S.- Rules to Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- BDSM Concerns About New Domestic Abuse Laws“The BDSM Community Is Worried About Changes to the Domestic Abuse Bill: The much-welcomed end to the ‘rough sex defense’ has some kinky people concerned about the implications for BDSM.” by: Alice Snape (https://www.vice.com/en_uk/article/xg87

Recorded: 8/16/2020 / Published: 1/15/2021- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com - In this episode of The Krypt, Babylove is joining me and Mayfair to tell her story and give advice about how to transition from a vanilla marriage or relationship into a D/s dynamic.- Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungHow to transition from vanilla marriages/long term relationships to D/s with BabyLove- Only my experience, every couple will be different.- What is Power Exchange- What isn’t PE- it’s not abuse, it’s not domineering, it’s not a doormat- While PE falls under BDSM, isn’t just about kinky fun.- Equals in an uneven relationship (find the wording for this)- Talk. Introduce slowly, Check-in. Go slow. Trial run, Find resources. Engage with other PE couples

Recorded Live: 8/09/2020Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt, The Reverend aka Master Gear of The KinkyAF Podcast is joining me and Mayfair to take a deep dive into the world of chastity.-Rules to Love By ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungMaster Reverend Gear from The Kinky AF Podcast http://KinkyAFpodcast.com https://anchor.fm/kinkyafpodcast/episodes/Episode-10-Chastity-e1r3dl -How long Master Gear thinks is ok or too far to lock.-Using an app verse mailing keys away.-Chastity contracts. What does he think about signing a long-distance contract? Does he suggest using a service for them?-Is pain play ok while locked up?-What does he think is better metal or plastic?-Which is better for long-distanc

Recorded: 5/24/2020 / Published to podcast: 11/27/2020-Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. -In this episode of The Krypt Myself, Mayfair and the chatroom are going to have a conversation on how BDSM is viewed in third world countries. -Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young-”Sex Talk: Is it domestic violence or BDSM?” by Carolyne Nakazibwe July 30, 2020.https://observer.ug/lifestyle/65897-sex-talk-is-it-domestic-violence-or-bdsmSomeone asked me, does BDSM exist in Uganda? I honestly have no idea, but I bet many of the physically abusive people to their spouses are covertly into BDSM and are just not able to ‘diagnose’ themselves as such.In case you were wondering, BDSM are erotic practices (some will say perversions) that involve bondage, dominan

Recorded: 7/26/2020 / Podcast Published: 11/26/2020- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt we are going to talk about choking and breathe play. - Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- DISCLAIMER: This is extremely dangerous. We recommend you NOT do this. If you choose to participate in this type of play, you are taking responsibility for the consequences which could include serious injury and/or death. BDSM is NOT a valid defense for accidental death and if your partner dies you will go to prison for negligent homicide.- Why Some People Are Turned on by Choking During Sex—and How to Do It Safely, According to Experts (By Gigi Engle, July 21, 2020 https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a26471117/choking-during-sex/Have

Recorded: 7/19/2020-Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.-In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair and I are going to be joined by show Executive Producer JUnicornsAngel to have an in-depth conversation about safewords, using them to improve your scene quality, and the underutilized use of yellow.-Rules to Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young-Safewords: How to use them to improve your scene life.Safewords (what constitutes a good safe word)Nonverbal safe”words”: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunicationJUni’s personal history with safewordsBeginning – not knowing how to yellow, and not wanting to red.Learning to yellow but still not wanting to red.Being forced to red, good bad indifferent.Using red in exactly the right place, the world not ending.Kuldrin’s

Recorded: 7/12/2020 / Published: 11/04/2020Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt Mayfair joins us again for a conversation about last night’s play party, we will break down how to scene from start to finish, and then we will answer your questions, live.-Rules to love by.1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young-Important Linkshttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/245-Show Producers:Benefactor ($2,000/month): Pro Producer ($100/month): Lily ChaosMaster Producer ($50/month): Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, Sweet Charlotte, and JunicornsAngelSr. Producers ($10/month): M

Recorded: 7/5/2020 / Published: 10/23/2020Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair85 is joining me to talk about emotional sadomasochism.-Rules to Love By:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungSome information is sourced from “15 Signs of Emotional Masochism” By Mike Bundrant https://blogs.psychcentral.com/nlp/2015/03/signs-emotional-masochism/?fbclid=IwAR0po8lky89XvbEe35L9uUKF3Ui64DOvaMsVt0PU3rdnsbJ4YB-gSZ9eXSU -Emotional masochismDefinition: The tendency to find blatant or subtle

Recorded: 6/28/2020 / Published: //2020Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair85 is joining me to take a dive into BDSM Primal Play and then we’ll be answering your questions live.- Rules to Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- Collaring Yourself aka Self Collaring. https://sexandsilks.com/2019/03/31/self-collaring/?fbclid=IwAR1RuQ8F-ioF5CY4D91w5zxXtHrOeXu1M6mw8Fk47sUzvP-xXfeHfKnqGTg https://www.eternitycollars.com/blog/collaring-yourself?fbclid=IwAR2A7KfnBVWmw3c2VDLo1RiWhO-9ry

Recorded: 6/21/2020 / Published: 9/29/2020Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair85 is joining me to take a dive into BDSM Primal Play. - Rules to Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- Primal Play Defined- http://www.bdsmwiki.info/Primal- Primal play in the kink context is getting to a place where the masks of civilization can fall away and allow for acting on urges and impulses more directly.These can be raw, rough sexual feelings, but they could also be joy, silliness, deep feelings of love and intimacy, feelings of deep tenderness, even sadness and grief.“Primal” doesn’t necessarily have to mean “rough” (though it often may); it’s more a matter of being raw and unfiltered, whatever the feelings present are.The term Pr

Recorded: 6/14/2020 / Published: 9/22/2020Can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair85 and Babylove are joining me to talk all things orgasm play and then we’ll be answering your questions live.- Rules to Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young-What Is A Ruined Orgasm? Why Some People Love Them + How To Try https://www.mindbodygreen.com/articles/ruined-orgasms By Morgan MandriotaSome folks dream of being able to someday have an orgasm, while others get off from having their partner spoil their big O. Yep, you read that right—ruined orgasms are totally a thing that some people enjoy. If you're curious, here's what you should know about ruined orgasms before attempting to wreck your or someone else's next climax.-What is a r

Recorded: 4/19/2020 / Published: 9/10/2020Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair85 is back with me to talk about a writing that was sent to me on fetlife.com by LylacWine titled “Can you afford them?”.-Rules to Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young-“Can you afford her/him?Can you?Not in a financial/material sense (although that does play a part), can you afford her in a life sense, a psychological and emotional sense, is there room and reserve enough in you to give her wha

Recorded: 8/17/2020 / Published: 8/19/2020Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 25 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt, I’m celebrating episode 100 by talking about what I’ve learned over the past four years and 100 episodes. I’ll also be playing clips from listeners like you that wanted to congratulate me.[01:08] Rules to Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- 100 Episodes and Counting: What Have I Learned About BDSM?[01:34] 1: Communication makes me thirsty![03:50] Lady Katheryne[04:21] 2: It is what you make it![08:26] Emer

Can kink be platonic? Is kink always sexual? Can people be monogamous and be part of the BDSM community?Recorded: 5/24/2020 / Published: 7/31/2020Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair and I have a conversation about keeping it Kinky and Platonic. Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Younghttps://valleyadvocate.com/2020/03/23/v-spot-kinky-and-platonic/ by Yana Tallon-Hicks “Hi Yana,Middle-aged straight guy here. I’m in a committed, monogamous relationship with a partner who I love very much. We have a great and satisfying physical sex life though naturally there are dry spells, particularly during the winter-time. I love my partner very much and she is who I want exclusively with no reservations.I’m kinky and my par

Recorded: 5/17/2020 / Published: 7/17/2020Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair joins us again for a conversation about keeping it kinky during COVID / Corona. [03:51] Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Younghttps://www.autostraddle.com/topping-from-the-bunker-tips-for-long-distance-kink/https://vocal.media/filthy/kink-and-social-distancing.[05:47] https://www.autostraddle.com/topping-from-the-bunker-tips-for-long-distance-kink/ [12:12] Role Play[14:30] https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/114[16:10] Follow instructions.[25:19] Practice Orgasm Control[30:32] Send Snail Mail[31:15] https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist[31:50] https://kuldrinskrypt.com/bdsm-contracts-and-collars-s01e49[35:38] Let someone else do the wor

Recorded: 5/10/2020 / Published: 7/3/2020Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair joins us again for a conversation about Total Power Exchange (TPE).. [00:50] Rules to love by.1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[01:29] HaPpY mOtHeR's DaY!!![02:06] https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/YouTube[02:17] Total Power Exchange (TPE) Defined(https://www.kinkly.com/definition/92/total-power-exchange-tpe)-Total power exchange (TPE) is a relationship dynamic that occurs in a BDSM relationship where the dominant partner has total power over the submissive in everything. TPE always applies in sexual situations, but generally also refers to the dominant having power over all other elements of the submissive's life.-TPE is a turn-on for a lot of people b

Recorded: 5/3/2020 / Published to Podcast RSS: 6/26/2020We will be discussing the article on Cosmopolitan's website titled "The New Sex Practice Shibari Is Like Bondage’s Cousin, but Better" by Taylor Andrews.https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a32240707/shibari-definition/Is Shibari new?What is Shabari Bondage and how is it different from other bondage?How can someone learn Shibari?Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt Mayfair85 is joining me and we will be discussing the article on Cosmopolitan's website titled "The New Sex Practice Shibari Is Like Bondage’s Cousin, but Better" by Taylor Andrews. and then we’ll be answering your questions live.Rules to Love By:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[03:13] "The New Sex Practice Shib

Recorded: 4/26/2020 / Published: 5/16/2020Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt returning guest, Master Gabriel is joining us to talk about Exploratory, Cathartic, and Rehabilitation scenes within the BDSM lifestyle. [01:49] Show Producer's[03:27] Welcome Master Gabriel[04:39] Exploratory BDSM[22:45] Cathartic Scening[36:27] https://NCSFreedom.org[51:47] Rehabilitation ScenesRules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Younghttps://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/243Thank you: Show Producers:Benefactor ($2,000/month): Pro Producer ($100/month): Lily ChaosMaster Producer (

Recorded: 4/19/2020 / Published: 6/4/2020Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The KryptMayfair85 is joining me to go back to the basics of BDSM 101 and then I’ll be answering your questions live.[01:44] Rules to Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[02:14] A brief History of BDSM[04:55] BDSM and society[05:29] https://NCSFreedom.org[06:33] What about submission touches your soul?[07:02] Sexual Vs Service submission[09:16] Branding yourself as a sub or a slave without knowing what a bottom is.[10:59] Labeling ourselves[12:05] Tops, bottoms, and switches[18:56] Where Consent and Communication Meet[19:34] Communication: one of the lines between abuse and non-abuse.[21:56] Mayfair's advice to newbies.[23:20] Safe Call Defined[38:03] When do

Recorded: 4/12/2020 /  Published: 5/26/2020Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt I am going to talk about the new show “Sexology” on the Quibi app and then I’ll be answering your questions live.[01:13] LA Times Article on Sexologyhttps://www.latimes.com/entertainment-arts/tv/story/2020-04-06/quibi-sexology-shan-boodram-sex-dating[04:34] Episode: Good Vibrations[05:03] 45% of men use sex toys during sex.[07:39] "The Walmart greeter of intimacy.[10:55] Frenzy. Let's talk about it.[12:26] Episode: What women want. Part 1[13:57] Episode: Slip and Slide. [14:25] Episode: What men really want.[14:58] Episode: Decoding the perfect profile.[19:09] Rules To Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[19:34] Patreon Producers[30:37] BDSM is NOT