Kuldrin's Krypt: A Bdsm 101 Podcast

Recorded: 4/5/2020 / Published: 4/23/2020Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt I am going to finally dive into Quid Pro Quo BDSM and exactly what that means. Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungDefinition of Quid Pro Quo: a favor or advantage granted or expected in return for something.(https://www.google.com/search?q=quid+pro+quo+definition&oq=quid+pro+quo&aqs=chrome.1.0l6j69i61l2.10242j0j7&sourceid=chrome&ie=UTF-8)-Put simply “This for that.”-How does this work?-Negotiated Quid Pro Quo-BDSM-Vanilla:-“Keepin’ Love Alive: No More Quid Pro Quo” From The Star Harald by Mental Health Therapist Mark Anderson. https://www.starherald.com/keepin-love-alive-no-more-quid-pro-quo/article_3e7f7aa1-e3fb-58ab-8642

Recorded: 3/28/2020 / Published: 4/07/2020If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. In this episode of The Krypt I have a special guest, Odalvwaya (a.k.a. Odi) assist me with answering your questions live on YouTube! [00:00:56] Rules to Love By[00:01:21] Opening the live show.[00:03:05] Daily episodes[00:05:04] Getting to know the special guest, Odalvwaya[00:05:29] Growing from a submissive to a Dominant[00:05:59] When a Dominant bottoms[00:07:40] Learning a new implement part 1[00:10:41] Learning a new implement part 2[00:12:29] How long have you been in the scene?[00:14:06] Best advice: Go slow![00:15:47] Biggest warning: Watch out for frenzy![00:16:56] Anyone thing to change?[00:18:45] How to handle play during the COVID-19 pandemic?[00:24:14] When the play slows do

Recorded and Published: 3/7/2020Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. This episode of The Krypt I have an announcement concerning where I have been, what happened to my Fetlife.com account, and when the show will return. Also, some very special thank you’s to some amazing individuals. So let’s hit those Rule to Love By and jump into the interviews. Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungThe Show is NOT ending!!!https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKryp

Recorded: 5/12/2019 and 1/27/2020 / Published: 1/27/2020Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. This episode of The Krypt I have a lost interview from DomCom, LA 2019 with China Doll on fetish fashion and a rant about calling red-emotional vs physical reasons. So let’s hit those Rule to Love By and jump into the interviews. [0:58] Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:25] ChinaDoll[14:23] Manscaped: The Lawn Mower 2.0 https://kuldrinskrypt.com/manscaped Coupon Code KULDRIN20[17:05] Rant on Calling Red: Physical Vs. Emotionalhttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/237https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Thank you: Show Producers:Pro Producer($100/month): Lil

Recorded: 10/12/2019 / Published: 1/15/2020Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. This episode of The Krypt we are talking to a couple of amazing vendors I met at DomCon New Orleans, I’m going to give you my thoughts on the Manscaped Lawn Mower 2.0, and after the closing stick around for another one of my rants. So let’s hit those Rule to Love By and jump into the interviews. [0:58] Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:25] Jessica, Owner of Love Lorn Lingerie https://www.lovelornlingerie.com/ [6:17] Manscaped: The Lawn Mower 2.0 https://kuldrinskrypt.com/manscaped Coupon Code KULDRIN20[10:54] Reggie, Owner of Valkyrie Designs, LLC https://valkyriedesignllc.com/ https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com

Recorded: 5/12/2019 / Published: 12/24/2019Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. This episode of The Krypt we’ll hit those rules to love by and talk to Trevor about hypnosis and the importance of communication.Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:18] Trevor (TigerBoy4947 on Fetlife.com)[2:00] The thought behind clothing and appearance. [4:10] The writer within.[4:43] Let’s talk kink! How long? [5:34] The two ways people typically join the BDSM community.[6:25] What is your primary kink? Hypnosis?!?! Cool![7:17] How does consent work with hypnosis? Prenegotiation? Edge Play?[8:40] Planning a scene.[9:59] How did you learn to be a hypnotist?[10:27] "Is Hypnosis Fake?" Hypnotist stuns TEDX crowd https://youtu.be/1RA2Zy_IZfQ[10:47] What other areas

Recorded: 11/3/2019 / Published: 11/28/2019Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. This episode of The Krypt is from a YouTube Live session I did for those that came together to purchase myself a whip from @_Maker_ (on Fetlife.com)Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:34] A special thank you to those who donated to purchase my whip.[2:37] The Bonding Experience with Mistress Vega and Lady Katie https://kuldrinskrypt.com/thebondingexperience [3:50] Getting into details about the whip.[6:36] Whip questions:How

Recorded: 10/20/2019 / Published: 10/27/2019Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt I’m going to hit the rules to love by and then it’s a conversation that I’ve been waiting three years to have with Attorney Lady Steele on BDSM and the Law.Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:11] Attorney Lady Steele https://kuldrinskrypt.com/AttorneyLadySteele[1:27] America’s only out and proud kink practicing attorney[3:22] What all BDSM classes do you teach?[7:28] The current state of BDSM an

Recorded: 9/21/2019 / Published: 10/3/2019Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt I’m going to hit the rules to love by and then Master Gabriel is joining us for a talk about the dark side of Dominance.Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungMaster Gabriel: [:] Imposter Syndrome[:] Having" to always be "On”[:] Blustery behavior[:] Herd mentality - Like showing off of how big of a dommy pants you are while in a dungeon or changes in behavior based on where you are and who you're with[:] Halo effect - How your behavior as a dominant makes people think certain things of your charges, both good and bad, or how your charge's behavior makes you look[:] Being mad at your sub for your own behaviors https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey 

Recorded: 5/11/2019 / Published: 9/15/2019Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt I’m going to the rules to love by, then It’s back to DomCon LA 2019 for a conversation with Pinky and Angel who are mother and daughter kinksters.  [1:53] Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[2:20] Mother Pinky and Daughter Angel InterviewMother Pinky, Age 44: Age 40 (2015) started reading “Fifty Shades of Grey” and other “Adult” novels.Jumped into research and finding out the truth of BDSM. Started hosting a munch within two months of joining Fetlife.Polyamourous and Pinky’s interesting and complicated (to the outside world) dynamics.[6:43] 2016 Inland Empire Leather Ambassador Title Holder.[11:00] Misinformation in the lifestyle[16:34] D

Recorded: 5/11/2019 / Published: 9/4/2019https://www.gofundme.com/f/nepak-community-fundraiserCall in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt I’m going to the rules to love by, raw blog for a few minutes, and then It’s back to DomCon LA 2019 for a conversation with Rhiannon Aarons where we get back to some basics. There are a few spots in this where mixer was acting up but don’t worry the 2 or 3 times it happens are very brief. [1:59] Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[2:26] Rhiannan Aaronshttp://www.rhiannonaarons.com/https://twitter.com/rhiannonaaronsShow notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/230 Thank you: The Bonding Experience with Mistress Vega and Lady Katie https://kuldrinskrypt.com/thebondingexperience Sh

Recorded: 5/12/2019 / Published: 8/22/2019NEPAK Donations Link: https://www.gofundme.com/f/nepak-community-fundraiserWelcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt, It’s back to DomCon LA 2019 for a really cool conversation with Sir Pent where we talk about consensual breast torture and several extremely well-stated pieces of advice. Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[2:10] Sir PentHow long have you been in the kink scene?What are your favorite things?How did you get into breast tortur

Recorded: 5/11/2019 / Published: 8/14/2019Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt It’s back to DomCon LA 2019 for an interesting chat with Mistress Barbie on Personalities within the community and finding your role through https://BDSMTest.org Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:13] Mistress Barbie BiMistressBarbie on https://fetlife.com/users/1084991 Where does Barbie come from? Your first scene?https://BDSMTest.orgProfessional vanilla life merging with Kinky life?You consider

Original article found at https://theswaddle.com/bdsm-women-positive-effects-confidenceRecorded: 8/7/2019 / Published: 8/7/2019PatreonCan call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt, I am going to share an article that Patreon Executive Producer BabyLove2269 she found on theswaddle.com and written by Pallavi Prasad titled BDSM Culture Can Make Women More Assertive In Work, Relationships. After I read it, I’m going to give you my first impression of what was said. Yep, this is going to be totally different than anything I’ve done before in that its pretty much a raw and unedited episode. Stick around afterward for a special announcement. Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young“BDSM Culture Can Make Women More Assertive In Work,

Recorded: 5/11/2019 / Published: 7/31/2019Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt, we are returning to DomCon LA 2019, for a conversation with the founder of The International Mr. and Ms.Olympus Leather contest, Dave Rhodes. In this conversation, we cover a lot of ground from living through the beginning of the AIDS epidemic to founding a publication and an international leather contest. [1:03]Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:30] Dave Rhodes https://www.theleatherjournal.com/ [1:30] How old are you? How long have you been in the lifestyle? Openly gay? [2:40] When did you get into leather?[4:20] Drummer Magazine in 1976.[6:52] The “Old Guard” and the transformation of the scene from 1976 to the 1990s.[7:57] 1978 th

Recorded: 5/10/2019 / Published: 7/23/2019PatreonCall in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt we are returning to DomCon LA 2019, for a conversation with Micael G. about being a male submissive and importance of dominant women. [0:52]Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:19] Micael G.: [1:32] Why are FemDoms so important to you?[2:45] Do you work to empower women professionally, as a passion, or both? You are an author? [4:35] Are you a submissive male? Service submissive? Do you serve all genders?[6:48] How old are you and how long have you been involved with kink?[7:27] Starting in kink so long ago with a more judgemental culture, did you suffer any judgment for being a male submissive that participates in sissification?[

Recorded: 5/12/2019 / Published: 7/15/2019PatreonCall in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt, we are returning to DomCon LA 2019, for an interview with world-famous Professional Domme Hudsy Hawn. She has been on Buzzfeed's “The Try Guys: Try "Fifty Shades" Style BDSM”, E! TV special ”The Real 50 Shades of Grey”, and several other shows including A&E’s “Storage Wars” So, let’s hit those Rules to Love By and jump into the interview. Then stay tuned for my thoughts after the conversation.[1:10]Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:37] Hudsy Hawn: https://www.fromvanillatokink.com/ For links to her videos: https://www.fromvanillatokink.com/media[2:14] Wrong was the dangerous way you accidentally got into the kink scene?[3:

THERE IS A PIC OF DAVE NAVARRO'S SUSPENSION IN THE FULL SHOW NOTES AT HTTPS://KULDRINSKRYPT.COM/223Recorded: 5/12/2019 / Published: 7/08/2019PatreonYou can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.On this episode of The Krypt, we are returning to DomCon LA 2019, for an interview with Meister Schmerz on hook suspension. Now, this might not be your bucket list but the stories from Meister Schmerz are still worth your time...especially if you are a fan of Jane’s Addiction or Dave Navarro. [1:02]Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:29] Meister Schmerz[1:40] The history name?.[2:41] What is hook suspension? [4:00] How did you get into hook suspension?Book author mentioned: Stelark This is NOT the documentary mentioned in the show but this is a good exam

Recorded: 1/31/2019 / Published: 7/01/2019PatreonWelcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com. On this episode of The Krypt I have a brief listener comment to share, we will hit the Rules to Love By, and then I have something a little different for you. It the sound bite I recorded for The Hall of Kink that covers several different topics from what are Doms and subs to flogging and rope.“Jackwagon6969” in an email basically said “you talk so slow I just can’t listen. For someone obviously smart, you sound so stupid.” Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships

Recorded: 5/25/2019 / Published: 6/24/2019PatreonCall in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.comOn this episode:1: The Rules to Love By2: Susan Wright from the National Coalition For Sexual FreedomRules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:30] Susan Wright from the National Coalition For Sexual Freedomhttps://NCSFreedom.org[1:30] What is the NCSF?[3:10] What has the NCSF done to help get BDSM removed from the DSM as a diagnosable mental illness. How has this impacted the community?[6:25] What steps have been taken to make these changes come about?Child custody issues?[11:19] Hurt Vs. Harm and nationalizing the definition for consent and decriminalizing BDSM.[14:47] Wrongful arrest and conviction of a knife player.[15:30] How do we make political changes to make