Kuldrin's Krypt: A Bdsm 101 Podcast

Recorded: 3/9/2019 and 5/12/2019 / Published: 6/17/2019PatreonWelcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.comOn this episode: 1: The Rules to Love By2: Continuing with our interview series from DomCon, LA 2019: A: Ashley from The Crafty Hedonist https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist B: Chris from Torrid Timber http://www.torridtimber.com/Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungAshley from The Crafty Hedonist[1:35] Ashley from The Crafty Hedonist https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist[2:00] How did you come up wi

Recorded: 3/9/2019 and 5/12/2019 / Published: 6/10/2019PatreonCall in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.comOn this episode of the Krypt, we are hitting the rules to love by, then we are continuing with our interview series from DomCon, LA 2019. This time it is Professional Dom and Rope Master, Master Feenix. After that, I have a lost interview I did at Podfest 2019 in Orlando, FL. with Keri where she talks about her three biggest kinks and how she entered the world of kink. https://Patreon.com/Kuldrinskrypt Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:35] Master Feenix https://www.instagram.com/explore/tags/masterfeenix/[2:00] How long have you been in the kink scene?http://www.barsinister.net[2:32] What is about rope that drew you in?What?!?! You started out as

Recorded: 5/11/2019 / Published: 6/3/2019Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.comOn this episode of the Krypt we are hitting the rules to love by and then we are going to an interview from DomCon, LA 2019, with Master Reverend Gear from House RavynBlood and the Kinky AP Podcast and his girl Vee about their journey and about his podcast. Now, this is a lot different from my usual style. These are two amazing people and we couldn’t stop making each other laugh but the nuggets of wisdom in this are quite abundant.https://Patreon.com/KuldrinskryptRules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:35] Master Reverend Gear and Vee of House RavynBlood and the Kinky AF Podcast. http://kinkyafpodcast.com[2:12] The surprise of being covered and going from Sir Gear to Maste

Recorded: 5/11/2019 / Published: 5/27/2019Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show I use my 24 years of BDSM experience and 20 working the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.comOn this episode of the Krypt we are telling you briefly about a change to our Patreon Page, hitting the rules to love by, and then we are going to an interview from DomCon, LA 2019, with Sir Welph and Sirs’ Button, Robin about telling her children about their D/s relationship.https://Patreon.com/KuldrinskryptRules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2:KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[2:38] Sir Welph and Sir’s Button Robin[2:57] Explain to us your dynamic and how you met.[

Recorded: 5/12/2019 / Published: 5/20/2019Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.comOn this episode:1. Rules to Love By.2. My Collar Maker.3. Mistress Cyan. She is lifestyle kinster, Professional Dominatrix, founder of DomCon, dungeon owner, LGBTQ2A advocate, a living legend, one of the most genuine people I have ever met, and so many more amazing things. [1:05] Rules to Love by:1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:29] https://www.daycollars.comDay Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts. They cater to everyone, from sporty and informal daily fashion to the leather community. They will guide you through the styling of your accessory and the whole thing concerning your order is personalized to your needs and specifications. For in

Recorded and Published: 5/01/2019Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com[0:55] Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:21] https://www.daycollars.com[1:52] Dr. Gary Chapman gives, what most expert and layperson alike, consider an excellent representation of the different ways you and I offer and receive acts of love in his appropriately titled book "The Five Love Languages: How To Express Heartfelt Commitment To Your Mate". Let go through these and see how these also apply to the world of BDSM.As we do, make sure to keep in mind that you probably are a mix of these to some degree. Most people have a primary love language and a few secondary ones but there are those that have an equal part of two or even all five of them. Also, consider that for a lot

Recorded: 4/16/2019 / Published: 4/16/2019PatreonCan call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.comOn this episode of the Krypt we are hitting the rules to love by, I have to share with you my new collar maker https://www.daycollars.com, and then we are diving into an interesting topic presented to me by a play partner, a friend, a listener, and a show producer, SortOutTheKinks, on Reserved Dominants Vs. Assertive submissives. Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Younghttps://www.daycollars.com Day Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts. They cater to everyone, from sporty and informal daily fashion to the leather community. They will guide you through the styling of your accessory and the whole thing concerning your order

Recorded: 3/26/2019 / Published: 4/1/2019PatreonCall in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.comOn this episode of the Krypt we are hitting the rules to love by, I have to share with you my new collar maker https://www.daycollars.com, and then we are talking to My sub, Mayfair about her experience in entering the scene. [0:50] Rules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:14] https://www.daycollars.comDay Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts. They cater to everyone, from sporty and informal daily fashion to the leather community. With DayCollars.com you can make your own personalized style of collars, leashes, belts, cuffs and other leather products. They will guide you through the styling of your accessory and the whole thing concer

Recorded: 3/15/2019 / Published: 3/16/2019Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.comOn this episode of the Krypt we are hitting the rules to love by, I have to share with you my new collar maker https://www.daycollars.com, and then we are talking BDSM Punishments Vs Funishments.. [0:53] Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:18] https://www.daycollars.comDay Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts. They cater to everyone, from sporty and informal daily fashion to the leather community. With DayCollars.com you can make your own personalized style of collars, leashes, belts, cuffs and other leather products. They will guide you through the styling of your accessory and the whole thing concerning your order is persona

https://kuldrinskrypt.com/211Recorded: 2/16/2019 / Published: 2/22/2019Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.comOn this episode of the Krypt we are hitting the rules to love by and then talking to Master Gabriel. [0:44] Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:05] Master Gabriel:A Sadistic Dominant, an Energy Player, and a Devoted Community Educator drawing from an eclectic background of Martial Arts, Psychology, and other surprising contexts, Master Gabriel has been a part of the LA BDSM Community for over a decade. He has a robust skill set spanning various types of play and is known for his unusual creativity in scenes and taking his bottoms to new levels. With his Household, House RavynBlood, Master Gabriel produces, co-hosts, and advises on sever

Recorded and Published: February 16, 2019I love being reviewed by anyone who will provide constructive feedback, So when My Mentor, Dave Jackson from http://SchoolOfPodcasting.com gave me a horse whinny (which is a good thing) I had to share it with you, my faithful Krypters!http://www.podcastrodeoshow.com/kuldrins-krypt-a-bdsm-101-podcast/If you are interested in starting your own show and want to do it the right way: https://www.theschoolofpodcasting.com/?ref=fb004dContact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: kuldrinfire https://www.instagram.com/kuldrinfire/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Kuldrin's Krypt: Patreon Producer’s ONLYPlay Journal, Thoughts on S02E08, and Inside My HeadRecorded & Published: Jan. 30, 2019Welcome to the Kuldrin’s Krypt Patreon Producer’s ONLY Ep. 1Today I have some playtime to talk about, some thoughts about my last episode which was S02E08, and finally, I’m going to dive inside my own head about what the future might have in store for Me.Play Journal:1: Playing with a newbie friend of my sub2: New Year’s Eve3: Having some fun with my Play Partner4: Service Topping a man5: Play at the local dungeonThoughts on S02E081: Self ControlGoing inside my head about the future1: Work2: Personal3: Mayfair4: The showA final note or two.I’d like to thank our Executive Producers Jeremiah, Sihlus, Jess, and ArcaneDgr & violetaurelia. Our Sr. Producers Matt and xEmeraldxWolfx. Our Producers Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay and RoxieBear. And our Jr. Producers K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Painwaits, LxSoumis, and Hayley. If you would like to become one of our show producers go

Recorded: 1/20/2019 / Published: 1/23/2019Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.comSpecial thanks to Rushguy1969 for recommending this topic!For full show notes visit https://kuldrinskrypt.com/208First, a deep into the woods about nurturing positive dominant qualities within one's self. First, I am going to give you a tool to help you figure out what you are already dealing with.Second, I’m going to share with you the things that I feel should be commonly found character traits for those on the left side of the slash...if not both.[1:04] Rules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:28] PAD Temperament Mode ( https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/PAD_emotional_state_model )In order to know the best things in oneself to nurture we first need to know what is already there. For

(For complete show notes https://kuldrinskrypt.com/207 )Recorded: January 7, 2019 / Published: January 8, 2019865-268-4005 / https://kudrinskrypt.comOn this episode: Acceptance within the BDSM Community.[0:43] Rules to Love by[1:10] Krypter:I’ve heard you say on the show that if anyone has questions to write you and I’ve had one for a while that I’m hoping you can help with. Like I said earlier we are relatively new to being out in the community and have been welcomed into to the three local private dungeons in our area. One about 20 minutes from our home the others over an hour away in separate directions. We have a very small core group of people and they all basically take turns hosting events and play parties. The problem we are running into is that about 85% of the people are poly (which we are completely fine with it’s just not for us) and they all play amongst themselves and Master and I only play with each other. We both have explained nicely on multiple occasions that we don’t play with others and ar

Recorded: Dec. 16, 2018Published: Dec. 27, 2018https://kuldrinskrypt.com/206Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.comOn this episode of the Krypt we are speaking with psychotherapist Steven Ing about your magic sex number, Talking to your children about sex, BDSM and religion and much more. [1:05] TEDx Talk: What’s Your Magic Sex Number” http://stevening.com/events/tedx-university-nevada-2018 How many times a week do you prefer to have sex?No matter what your answer is, you are normal.[8:26] Rules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[9:20] THow to have the pre-relationship interview.[14:10] Sexual intimacy.[17:30] Therapist assigning biases. [18:25] Sex and power? Does that feed the sexual appetite? “Everything in life is about sex except itself sex its self which ab

Recorded: 12/09/2018 / Published: 12/10/2018Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.comOn this episode of the Krypt I’m going to help you keep it kinky for the holidays. So let’s hit those rules to love by and jump straight into the topic.Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungWith the holidays fast approaching I get a lot of questions about maintaining a D/s role around the nonkinky family. And a special thank you to my sub, Mayfair85 for suggesting that I do this as an episode. There are several ways to stay in role but not appear anyway that would make grandma uncomfortable. So here are five ways to keep the kink without killing kinfolk.1: Decide on names.2: Decide on food limits prior to any gatherings.3: Use gestures.4: Serve food and drinks.5: Pick cl

Recorded and Published: November 26, 2018Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.comOn this episode of the Krypt I have a fet article and private fet message from a listener about Dom’s using safe words and then I’m going to talk about the Dominants Bill of Rights.Rules to Love by:1; Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Younghttps://fetlife.com/users/3949958/posts/4756802 (AMischiefManaged)"So I was watching a scene in a play space and I heard something I never expected. In the middle of a scene, a Dominant safeworded. He called "red" and said that he'd like to stop.What I saw next nearly floored me and hasn't sat well since.The submissive turned around furious and said: "You can't do that, only I can safeword." She went on shouting about how only submissives have that power and

Rec: November 4, 2018Pub: November 11, 2018 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or https://kudrinskrypt.com/contactOn this episode: My recent dungeon vacation and a listener question from Jr. Producer, Buffalodom84 about hygiene, then you and I are going to have a chat about self-care with a bonus topic of attitude and a quote that could change your life.The Woodshed, Orlando, FL, U.S.A., and Master Cecil.http://thewoodshedorlando.com/Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungHygiene:Jr. Producer Buffalodom84 wrote: “I just listened to your newest episode and had an idea for a new episode. Could you do an episode on hygiene?”What is hygiene?:Conditions and Practices that are to promote health including cleanliness, skin care, and the prevention of infections.Cleanliness Personal cleanlinessCleanlin

Recorded: October 20, 2018 / Published: October 21, 2018Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.comOn this episode: Rules to Love By, Relationship Burnout, Mindreading, Managing Expectations in BDSM Relationships, a listener question that ended in me writing 10 Rules for Hard Conversations.Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungMessage from ForsakenNymph“I just now got to listen to the latest episode. It was good, as always. My condolences to losing Funsize. During the show, someone chatted a line about complacency. That made me think about an idea for the next show. You touched on introducing kink (honeymoon phase). How do you keep things interesting/spice things up after you have gone through every page of your "kinky Kamasutra"? What is the importance of continu

Recorded:   9/15/2018 /      Published: 10/07/2018-Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.com/contact-On this episode of the Krypt we are going to talk about an article I found titled “7 Safe Ways To Explore BDSM Without Hurting Your Marriage”. https://www.yourtango.com/experts/pleasure-mechanics/7-ways-find-your-bdsm-bliss[0:33] Step 1: Communication!!!https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey[2:18] Step 2: It brings balance.[3:10] Total Power Exchange (T.P.E.)[6:00] Step 3: Don’t Blur Boundaries![6:35]Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[7:21] Step 4: Get Specific About What You Want![9:10] Step 5: Take Baby Steps.[10:38] Step 6: “Switch” It Up![16:25] Step 7: Get Trained![18:22] Q&A[21:45] Announcement: Funsize has decided to leave the show due to persona