Kuldrin's Krypt: A Bdsm 101 Podcast

Recorded: 9/9/2018 / Published: 9/23/2018Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.comOn this episode of the Krypt we are going to finish up the interview with Lady Katheryne and then I will give my final thoughts on vanilla with sprinkles. So I’ll hit those rules to love by and then jump right into the interview where we left off last time.Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungInterview with Lady Katheryne[1:37] Kuldrin’s catharsis leads to Lady Katheryne’s catharsis.[6:22] What were the following days like?[6:57] Lady Katheryne’s first true understanding of why Kuldrin has a need to be a Dom. However, a little knowledge is dangerous and can lead to frenzy and becoming an “insta-dom”.[9:18] Trying to tame Lady Katheryne and her opinion on listening to li

Recorded: 9/9/2018 / Published: 9/19/2018Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.comOn this episode of the Krypt we are going to change things up a little from our regular format. Funsize has done an interview with Bratty Red about being vanilla but having some spice in her marriage. Then you will hear the first of a two-part interview I have done with My wife, Lady Katheryne about what it was like to enter the BDSM lifestyle after being married for so long. Rules to Love by:1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungBratty Red Interview1. Vanilla with Spice2. How was Kink introduced into your marriage?3. What kind of kinks do you use?4. How were bondage and spanking introduced?5. Bratty Red’s change of opinion about “Fifty Shades of Grey” after becoming a Krypter.6. Bratty

Recorded: August 5, 2018  / Published: August 26, 2018Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of experience to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.comOn this episode of the Krypt we are going to talk about who pursues whom, but before that happens, we need talk about a few new interesting places find our show, hit those three rules to love by and most importantly, I have to welcome the co-hostest with the mostest, Funsize.Interesting places to find us: iHeart Radio, Spotify, Blubry on Roku, and smart speakers.Rules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungDefinitionPursuit- To follow, chase, hunt, run after, seek to form a

Recorded: July 22, 2018 / Published: August 12, 2018Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.comOn this episode of the Krypt we are going to explore contracts and collars but before that happens, we need talk about a few new interesting places to find our show, hit those three rules to love by and most importantly, I have to welcome the co-hostest with the mostest, Funsize.Kuldrin’s Weekend Intensive September 14-16, 2018 https://kuldrinskrypt.com/kwiInteresting places to find us: iHeartRadio, Spotify, Blubry on Roku, and smart speakers. Rules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungDefinition of a BDSM ContractA non-legally binding but useful tool in negotiations, there to assist with guiding the relationship preferences, limits, interest, and goals. They are also extremely hel

Recorded: June 24, 2018  / Published: July 28, 2018Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.comOn this episode of the Krypt we are going to explore a very complex subject, BDSM in marriage.Rules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungIntroduction:-We have to slightly change up our show's format here because we don't have a definition.  BDSM and marriage separately are such complex topics that intertwining can look like a minefield full of twist and turns.-What are some of the complexities?Jealousy: No matter the dynamic of your marriage jealousy can and more than likely will arise at some point. If you our your partner is poly this may pop up more. It's important to discuss with your spouse if one or both of you become jealous.  Communication can help you find the

Recorded: May 27, 2018 / Published: July 16, 2018 Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit https://kudrinskrypt.comRules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungBDSM definitions for hurt and harm (as defined by Master Kuldrin)Hurt: The intentional physical and/or psychological trials that are either self-inflicted or afflicted upon a typically masochistic person consensually participating in a BDSM scene for the purpose of physical, psychological, and/or sexual pleasure.Harm: The intentional or unintentional physical and/or psychological trials that are either self-inflicted or afflicted upon a typically masochistic person consensually or nonconsensually participating in a BDSM scene that often has immediate and lasting psychological, and/or physical, and/or sexual negative effects.A brief history of

Live Date: 07/01/2018  /  Published: 07/02/2018The chat takes place at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/liveBDSM Masters, Dom/mes, Trainers, and Owners-Unhealthy types of O/p relationships-A brief talk about season 2-Bloodplay-Announcing a collaborative book with Master Kuldrin and Funsize on BDSM 101-Knife play-Needle Play-Resources for submissive training-The submissive's role in social settings-How much of a kink relationship is kinky time and how much appears vanilla.-Walking a submissive on a leash in public-Kneeling in public to present drinks or other items-Kuldrin's Krypt t-shirts, hoodies, and other merchandisehttps://kuldrinskrypt.com/shop-Outing people and what is the lifestyle version of the HIPAA law (Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act) that protects our healthcare information-The two types of controlled Dominants-Kuldrin's Krypt paddles-Being intentional with your actions and not spontaneously reactionary-Jeff and Sara win a paddle!!!-Should Dom's be willing to do what ask of subs-Than

Live: June 9, 2018   /  Published as Podcast: June 13, 20181: Can a little or middle be in a dynamic with a Master?It depends on the protocol required by the Master and the Master's level of compassion. As someone who previously required high protocol, I have been involved in a successful dynamic with a middle and so have many others. It is not a simple answer and like all relationships, results will vary based on the people involved.2:When is it appropriate to give/accept a collar? What are the meanings and types of collars?Play collars can be given or loaned to any person you play with and it is to be returned after the completion of aftercare.Training/consideration collars are given after the relationship matures and new relationship energy has worn off. This ensures that the parties involved aren't jumping in to fast. I recommend never collaring someone prior to the six-month mark. Think of this as you would an engagement ring. It's not to be taken lightly.Full collars are the equivalent of a wedding ring

Recorded: May 27, 2018   / Published: June 3, 2018Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit us at https://kudrinskrypt.comOn this episode of The Krypt, we are going to talk about personal growth and evolution in BDSM and what it means for you and what its been like for myself and Funsize...and speaking of the world greatest cohost...hello Funsize.Amii from AustraliaRules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungDefinitionPersonal evolution is just that.  It is how we evolve and grow over time.What leads to our evolution?LearningStarting out many of us simply had the idea of a kink or activity sounding fun, but as we learned about that specific thing we started to grow and evolve.  As we learned more we found more that we wanted to learn about and the process continued.ExperienceOne type of learning is through

Recorded: May 13, 2018 / Published: May 26, 2018Contact us: 865-268-4005 or https://kudrinskrypt.comRules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungDefinitionsWhat is burnout? Regardless of your position in the lifestyle you can become burnt out. Burnout is often also called Dom fatigue, or sub fatigue, and thought of as an extended drop. Honestly though you can experience a form of this even without having a partner. It is simply the feeling that you’ve had too much of the lifestyle for a time and you cannot find the energy or zeal that you used to have regularly to continue. And it’s not just a feeling of oh I’m tired after this scene, it’s a deeper more resounding, I want nothing to do with this in my life right now feeling. So for those who are really committed to the lifestyle or a particular relationship th

Recorded: 4/29/2018 / Published: 5/19/2018865-268-4005 or https://kudrinskrypt.comRules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungNew schedule: With Funsize every other week Interviews for the off weeksDefinition of the Old Guard: A group that outlined a lot of the etiquette and traditions of modern BDSM through their practices in a subtle military style format post World War Two. History: Now we would like to note that while we typically talk about BDSM in a worldview, or as much as we can, the Old Guard history as we know it is something that is very American. We’re definitely interested in how these things have evolved throughout the rest of the world, and Funsize is chomping at the bit to dive deeper into that subject, but for today we are just focusing on the American side of this topic. We’ve talked a b

Recorded: March 11, 2018 / Published: May 2, 2018Rules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungWhat is polyamory?Broken down into its two parts, poly simply means many, and amor means loves or lovers. Polyamory is the practice of wanting or having more than one intimate partnership, with the knowledge and awareness of all parties involved. Types Sometimes those who are polyamorous who have established committed relationships with one or more of their partners will refer to the relationship as an open relationship. When dating this means that the parties involved have consented to one or both of them dating others. Open marriages also occur in which the spouse or spouses have agreed to the same. This can occur within the BDSM lifestyle when a polyamorous person has play partners, Dominants, or submissives alon

Recorded: Feb 18,2018 / Published: April 18, 2018Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of experience to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.comOn this episode of the Krypt we are going to but first, I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.Rules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungListener QuestionsFrostBiter: (Primal)Can one be a primal and still be a sub and be trained?NikNakPW: (Ending a scene)How is a scene that is naturally coming to an end called? Is there a different word used to let both the sub/bottom and anyone watching know that the scene has ended/is ending? Or is formally ending a scene g

Recorded 1/28/2018 / Published 4/14/2018Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of experience to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.comOn this episode of the Krypt we are going to discuss Protectors but first, I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.Rules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungWhat are Protectors?A usually dominant person who watches over another, their charge, to ensure their safety when interacting in the kink community. They act both online and off, at munches, or even occasionally during scenes to ensure that the charges limits and wishes are upheld. Why is it important?Protectors assist with

Kuldrin's Krypt: A BDSM 101 PodcastBDSM Dungeons-S01E38Recorded January 21, 2018 / Published April 3rd, 2018Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of experience to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.comOn this episode of the Krypt we are going to talk about dungeons but first, I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.Rules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungWhat are dungeons?Dungeons are generally considered as any space with BDSM equipment, used as a play space. They can also be used for classes, meetings, or events. They can be either public, open to a particular community; or private, belonging to a certai

Recorded January 14th, 2018 / Published March 27th, 2018Call in to get your questions answered at 865-268-4005 or visit at kudrinskrypt.comOn this episode of the Krypt we are going to dive into BDSM and the law but first, I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.Rules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungSo as we all know the law can be a sticky subject there to help protect us or if we get caught up in it, well it's not so pleasant.  In today's conversation we have a few things to look at:What are the laws we directly face as part of the lifestyle?In the majority of the U.S at present, there is a common law that states that a person cannot consent to being harmed.  In theory, this would negate all consent of BDSM practices, and generally make everything we do illegal.I would like to break down this common law bec

On this episode of the Krypt we are going to get into the second half of our Consent podcast, with our main focus on Boundaries but first, I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.* A special shout out to Kuldrin, much of this podcast was written by Kuldrin, as he used to teach a class in boundaries during his tenure working in the psychological field. Much of this is actually just taken from those lessons and reformatted into show notes.* When we left off from part one of our two-part series on consent we were talking about the importance of being able to say no, and uphold our boundaries when it comes to consent. A boundary is defined as a dynamic line separating an individual's internal environment and external environment while varying in permeability and flexibility. This also applies to a line between others in that environment. Purposes and Types of BoundariesPurposes are to facilitate separation and individuation and to assist the individual’s adaptation to the environment. For BDSM this mean

BDSM Consent Counts Pt 1-S01E35 (135)Recorded December 12th, 2018 / Published January 16, 2018Consent is an incredibly important topic to both of us, and should be an important topic for everyone out there. The news these days is filled with stories of consent violations and thankfully our society is beginning to crack down on these violators quickly. However we still have a long way to go within the BDSM community. What is consent exactly?Consent is what a person has knowingly and willingly agreed to a form of participation in. That form and those activities, behaviors, etc. are what that consent applies to. Legally consent is defined as being able to freely give agreement to participate in a(n) (sexual) activity. Many states in the U.S. have separate definitions as well which also specify who is capable of giving consent; for example a child many not consent, nor may a person who is unconscious. For more information about these laws and what your state defines as legal consent we have included a link

Recorded December 3rd, 2017 / Published January 10, 2018Welcome to Kuldrin’s Krypt I’m your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of experience to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at kudrinskrypt.comRules to Love by:1. Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2. KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerence, Kindness, Integrity3. “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul YoungOn this episode of the Krypt we are going to talk about BDSM in Literature, and no we’re not discussing 50 Shades but first, I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.Literature both fiction and nonfiction is a staple of civilized society. The lifestyle is a society in and of itself and we have our literature. Our fictions delve into our deepest fantasies and our non-fictions help us learn and share with others.

On this episode of the Krypt we are going to talk about BDSM on a budget but first, I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.So the reason we chose to do this episode now is that Funsize found an infographic on Pinterest about BDSM on a budget and saw a huge safety flaw. On this infographic, it suggest several things that are just fine, however one thing it suggest in particular is the use of household candles. This is a huge no, because household candles have a higher melting point than the candle we in the lifestyle use for wax play, so you will burn your partner if you use these. It’s just a huge safety problem, so today we really want to get into how to have safe, sane, budget friendly BDSM. http://www.ucollectinfographics.com/bdsm-on-a-budget-household-items-that-serve-as-cheap-alternatives-to-toys/ Pervertables- These are items you can convert and pervert for your play, which are not traditionally used in this way. Paddles at home:Spatulas are one of my favorite to be used as paddles. Also if