Proudtobekinky Podcast

***DISCORD, DISCORD, DISCORD! JOIN UP HERE FOR KINKY CHATZ!! >>>> https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E ***** In this episode we talk about having a foursome! As well as how to ensure that everyone has good time and no one feels left out. If you would to follow us on Twitter or  get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms: Twitter Instagram Fetlife Floss’ Blog We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them. You can also support us through Patreon which gives you access to our spinoff podcast Kinkosity. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.

***JOIN OUR DISCORD GROUP HERE >>>> https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E ***** This week we talk about trying male chastity for the very term and how it did and didn’t work out. We continue with our ‘Question of Week’ where we talk about sex toys accidentally going off and make sure you listen out for the story of a dildo being thrown on a roof! If you would to follow us on Twitter or  get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms: Twitter Instagram Fetlife Floss’ Blog We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God, No Love Lost and The Goth Librarian. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them. You can also support us through Patreon which gives you access to our spinoff podcast FemDom and Fetish Fun. As well as ‘349 Kinky, Filthy, Dirty Questions’ compiled by and answered by Bakji and Floss.

***JOIN OUR DISCORD GROUP HERE >>>> https://discordapp.com/invite/SAmS42E ***** Our supporters over on Patreon have been listening to tales of our kinky fun for a while during our FemDom and Fetish Fun spin-off podcast. Now we are bringing that FemDom fun to our regular podcast. In this episode we discuss our latest kink session. Who got tied up? Who got teased? And who got rewarded with a sexy orgasm? We also have answers to our last After Bit question which was; What are your favourite toys for travelling? Our new question is … Have you ever been caught out by a vibrator going off by accident? You can give us your answer via email, or Twitter/Instagram (including DM if you’d prefer). All answers will be featured on our next episode but you are welcome to remain anonymous if you would like to. If you would to follow us on Twitter or  get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms: Twitter Instagram Fetlife Floss’ Blog We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off

We are joined by Naughtia Black this week, to discuss her new podcast Deviants, as well as a whole host of other sexy topics. We discuss her current core dynamic, which is Master/slave and how that aligns itself with her being a Relationship Anarchist. Kink gets a thorough talking about too of course and we give Naughtia a good dose of Quick Fire Questions. As Floss suspected from being an avid online follower of Naughtia she was a delight to chat to and we think you are going to love this episode. You can find Naughtia on Twitter and Instagram and you can of course listen to her podcast. We also have answers to our last After Bit question which was; What is you all time favourite sex toy or piece of kinky equipment? Our new question is … What are your favourite kinky/sexy things to take travelling? This might include top travelling tips for people take sexy/kinky kit with them, or hilarious stories about travelling with said items.  You can give us your answer via email, or Twitter/Instagram (including DM if

Sexy products! That’s right this episode is all about the recent sexy and kinky products we’ve been using from Meo.de. If you are new to Meo then their site is definitely worth a visit. They have some awesome products and the ones we are testing out are only a few they have to offer. The items covered in this episode are: Meo Lubricant Alpha Male 2 Stimulator Big Johnny Prostate Stimulator HurtMe Leather Paddle HurtMe Deluxe LOVE-HATE Paddle HurtMe Deluxe Riding Crop Wrist to Ankle Restraint Black Berlin Wrist Restraints We loved reviewing these products so we could share our experiences with you and we hope you find the feedback useful. If there are any other products you would like our thoughts on, or products you would like us to feature in the future, then please do get in touch and we can see what we can do. We have also asked a new After Bit question, which follows on nice from the topics of this episode; What is you all time favourite sex toy or piece of kinky equipment. You can give us your

Little Rara is our guest this episode. We have been following her for a little while on Twitter and she has previously responded to our pleas for answers to our After Bit questions so it was an absolute delight to talk to her. We discuss how she found herself involved in the kink community and what kinds of kinky shenanigans she gets up to, as well as discussing what new kinks might be in her future and of course what her favourite kinky things are. Little Rara, or should I say Princess Rara due to a recent name change,  also arranges kink events and discussion groups, so that is a large part of our conversation as we get her to encourage all of your to find your way into your local kink scene. If you would like to follow Little Rara on Twitter you can do so via @ThePrincessRara If you would to follow us on Twitter or  get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms: Twitter Instagram Fetlife Floss’ Blog We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being

Dick pics! That’s right we are doing a whole episode on dick pics. So get comfy and hold on tight because Floss does not hold back! Dick pic rage is real! On a more serious note we want everyone to be communicating with more kinky people and getting their kink on and we know that dick pics is the worst introduction ever. We discuss exactly why dick pics are such a problem and why they enrage many of us and why just ignoring them isn’t always our go to move. If we stop just one person sending a dick pic then I will be overjoyed. If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms: Twitter Instagram Fetlife Floss’ Blog We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God and No Love Lost. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them. You can also support us through Patreon which gives you access to our spinoff podcast FemDom

Breath play is the focus of this episode. We haven’t done many episode on specific kink activities but this is a kink we both enjoy and that you must be well informed about before giving it a try. Our aim in this episode is to share with you what we enjoy about breath play, the methods we use to indulge in it and most importantly how we do it safely. We are aware that for many people this is an extreme kink, and would be referred to as edge play. If you decide to engage in breath play please do your research and please, please, please play with someone you trust. Done right and with the right person though breath play can be all the fun and we hope that this episode gives a good insight into why it is one of the kinks we engage in most during our scenes. The After Bit returns with answers from last week’s question ‘What is your best bit of vanilla repurposing?’ and we pose our new question, inspired by one of our listeners, ‘Have you ever mentioned kink in an inappropriate setting?’ Funny stories are our aim,

‘Kinky Kit?’ We hear you ask! ‘Haven’t they already done that episode?’ Well yes, we have. And it’s a big sexy but, we have enjoyed some awesome new products lately and we just had to share our experiences with you all. We pick 3 of our top products each, two joint products and a bonus ‘on the spot’ decision for another item to include. Floss gets told off for telling her Doxy story AGAIN. But cares very little because the Doxy is great and Bakji gets told of because, well he’s Bakji and is always being naughty one way or another. The After Bit returns with answers from last weeks question ‘Have you ever cum accidentally?’ and we pose our new question ‘What has been you best bit of vanilla repurposing?’ Those unassuming things definitely not made for kink that we take and pervert to great effect. If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via any of our social media platforms: Twitter Instagram Fetlife Floss’ Blog We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being T

Aftercare is our focus for this episode. We talk a lot about what happens during kinky sessions and what you can do to make the kinky fun happen for you, but what happens afterwards then the cuffs are off and reality sets in. As with all aspects of kink everyone is different when it comes to the aftercare they need. We discuss what works for us, what we have heard of others doing, as well as sharing some listener comments in our After Bit section of the show. We also discuss how our views on aftercare have changed, who we thinks benefits from aftercare within a BDSM dynamic and what we knew about aftercare before joining the kink scene. If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via hello@proudtobekinky.com or via any of our social media platforms: Twitter Instagram Fetlife Floss’ Blog We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God and No Love Lost. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to re

We got on a plane and travelled to New York City to bring you this episode. We met up with Dick and Max from Off the Cuffs for a joint episode featuring of of their listeners NerdyKinkster. We discuss NerdyKinksters journey in kink and how she has been discovering some of the things she enjoys. She was invited onto the show after responding to an episode of Off the Cuffs where the subject of consensual kink versus sexual violence came up. It was a pleasure to share our thoughts on this and a variety of other subjects, and meeting Dick and Max was definitely a highlight of the holiday. We also got to meet the lovely Pikachump who crops up regularly on Off the Cuffs. The response to last weeks After Bit questions was awesome, so stay tuned until the very end to hear what our listeners had to say about kinks that made their brain so no way but their genitals say yes please. Our next questions is; ‘What obscure things do you do for aftercare?’ and we absolutely can’t wait to hear your thoughts on this. Get in tou

Even in established dynamics like ours, we still have ongoing conversations around negotiating scenes and consenting to activities we are happy to engage in. In new dynamics this is crucial to creating a feeling of safety and trust with your partner, without which there is not much of a foundation to build on. We discuss what consent looks like for us, what makes us decide consent is not being enthusiastically given and how you can ask for consent in a sexy way. If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via hello@proudtobekinky.com or via any of our social media platforms: Twitter Instagram Fetlife Floss’ Blog We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Being There, the Will Sean Podcast, Drinks with God and No Love Lost. We are all available and most podcast apps, and as always love to read you reviews if your chosen app allows for them. This episode also see the return of our bonus section, now officially called ‘The After Bit’, please check out the full post ‘B

Floss and Bakji are no strangers to talking about kink, but this week we are getting down and dirty with a discussion about sexual technique. What is it? Do we have it? And how does one improve it? Some of the things we discuss in this episode are:   Have you ever had a sexual technique used on you that was surprisingly good? How do you encourage your partner to learn new things without offending them? Do you think there ways to increase sexual pleasure that people often overlook? Do you have a favourite technique you like to use? Are there any good resources on sexual technique? A lot of this episode is about our personal preferences and we encourage everyone to discover their own likes and dislikes. If you’ve got a go to move though that always seems to get sexy results then we’d love to hear about it. If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via hello@proudtobekinky.com or via any of our social media platforms: Twitter Instagram Fetlife Floss’ Blog We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox

Non-Monogamy came second in our recent Twitter poll about topics you’d like to hear us discuss. In this episode we discuss: In general terms what do we mean when we refer to non-monogamy? What does non-monogamy mean to us personally? Has your view on what non-monogamy means for you changed with your experiences? What resources have been beneficial in your non-monogamy journey? What new terms did we learn when we started to embrace non-monogamy? Can you ‘choose’ to be non-mono or does it need to be your natural inclination? Do you have a thing you love most about non-monogamy? And a thing you struggle with most? This week also introduces our new segment ‘Unnamed Bonus Section’. Which we hope will encourage listener participations for those of you who are so inclined. If you would like to get in touch with us you can do so via hello@proudtobekinky.com or via any of our social media platforms: Twitter Instagram Fetlife Floss’ Blog We are also part of the Podcast Jukebox Network along with Off the Cuffs, Bein

Confidence is our focus for this episode. More specifically is lack of confidence affecting your kink. If so, this episode is for you. Inspired by a blog post by Floss on her personal blog flossdoeslife.com. We attempt to give you some solutions to boost your kinky confidence, even if that just means faking it till you make it. We would also like to say a huge thank you for your patience while we took a break from our regularly scheduled shows. The time of to freshen up and think of some awesome new podcast ideas was amazingly beneficial, and your ongoing support while we rested was very much appreciated. Our top tips for increasing your kinky confidence are: Start small Hone your skills Sensory deprivation for the win They want your attention   It’s not what you do it’s that you’re doing it Trust that they fancy you (and your body) Communicate about kinks It’s okay to wear what feel sexy TO YOU Be kind to each other when things don’t work When things do work, celebrate them. We discuss all these point in m

Room 101 is our inspiration this week as Bakji and Floss return with what we hope to be a fun episode. While originating in George Orwell’s 1984, Room 101 is said to be named after a conference room at the BBC where he attended incredibly boring meetings. In the novel 1984 it is a room where people are taken to face their worst fears. On a lighter note, it is also the name of a BBC comedy show, where guests are invited to put their pet peeves or worst fears into ‘Room 101’. The host of the show then decides whether or not their particular suggestions are worthy of being banished. In our take on this, we each got to pick four things we would send to Room 101 if we got the chance. In keeping with the theme of our podcast the things we have chosen are relationship or sex based from our days before we met each other. We also chose a wildcard each, which we were to present as a genuine suggestion and the other person had to guess which the wildcard was as we went along. One of us tried their best to disguise the w

Sex toys and lots of them. That is what we have for you this week. We quite often use a few of our toys in our kinky play, and we mention them in passing but in this episode we are giving you our opinions of some of the products that we have acquired over the past few months. As a full disclaimer some of these products were sent to us for free in exchange for our reviews. For anyone who is new to sex toy reviewing, let me assure that free does not equal a great review as this episode will show. We have however tried to be fair in terms of it being suitable for others even if it doesn’t suit our particular needs. Both Bakji and Floss have picked three of their most recently used toys, although Floss rebels and actually talks about five. For prostate and anal play we discuss the following three products: Nexus Ace Medium USB Rechargeable Extra Quiet Remote Control Vibrating Butt Plug - £59.99 Lovehoney Desire Luxury USB Rechargeable Remote Control Prostate Massager - £74.99 Nexus Revo Slim Remote Controlled R

FemDom is our topic of discussion this week. Both Bakji and Floss are big, big fans of FemDom which you may have noticed if you are a regular listener. If you are a new listening then you about to join us in our little world of FemDom for the first time. As a FemDom enthusiast Floss frequents quite a few forums related to the topic, including the FemDom sub-reddits. One of the recurring questions is ‘What do women get out of FemDom?’, the back and forth of these discussion made it clear that a lot of people were a bit uncertain as to why we enjoy it. One of the reasons that seems to make people question a woman’s reasons for enjoying female dominance is the misconception that is doesn’t involve sex for the woman. In most of these cases I think the sex that is being referred to is PIV, where as we tend to mean the entire spectrum of sexual activities when we discuss how we incorporate sex into our FemDom scenes. With these points in mind we discuss what FemDom looks like for us, and how it is satisfying and

Inspired by their own recent experiences and conversations Bakji and Floss discuss the fluidity of kink. We all know there are many kinks and fetishes to be discovered, but what happens when our favourites go out of favour and new passions evolve into something deeper? Floss has been thinking on this a lot lately, as it was her change feelings about a particular kink that started the conversation. Despite how often we talk about open and honest communication, and how we encourage people to be accepting and kind to themselves, it was still a tricky moment for Floss and hopes that in sharing it will help some of our listeners. While a lot of our discussion is based around the fluidity between switching roles, we also discuss the ebb and flow of kinks with a specific role and how as a couple or as play partners, the activities you enjoy most together can also change. We discuss how this has been for us and what our approach to it has been. We also reflect upon the kinks that have taken us by surprise, going fr

Eyal Matsliah is a sexual empowerment coach, and the author of ‘Orgasm Unleashed’ - a guide to pleasure, healing and power. So we left kink behind for an episode to focus on the wonder of orgasms and the joy they can bring. While the book is aimed at women, it is also suitable for anyone who is looking to enhance their orgasmic experience and better learn about the pleasure their body can bring them. We speak to Eyal about what inspires him to do the work he does, what kind of work he does within his coaching and mentoring sessions and the benefits we can gain from engaging in some of Eyal’s approaches. Floss not being one to shy away from sharing her own personal orgasm tales, asks Eyal some questions based on her own experiences, that listeners have previously related to when discussed in other episodes. If you have struggled to orgasm, find masturbation uninspiring or wonder where in the day you meant to schedule time for self-indulgence, we asked Eyal about all these things in the hope the answers will be