Tea With Queen And J.

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… We recap the Black ass Black joy that was our live show at WNYC’s The Greene Space with Michaela angela Davis, before playing what will go down in history as our most epic live podcast taping ever to happen before our next live podcast taping. This week’s hot list: Our live show was lit biatch! Image activist, Michaela angela Davis talked with us about being a Black woman at work, when/where/how to move “unapologetic”, natural hair shit, “image activism”, Black identity & who nurtures us, Halsey, Lena Dunham (insert unhappy face) and more! Also go see Spider-Man: Into The Spiderverse! Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithque

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… Can you be a whole happy ass bitch and still want a partner (yes, obviously)? Sex work vs. sex trafficking, doula’s for everybody, and how to apologize for old sh*t. This week’s hot list: Apply for healthcare! Transness and family members, white terrorism, wash your wig in the sink it’s great, white privilege and who “deserves” what, Black Lives Matter and real estate, grown ass love and vulnerability or nah, Kevin Hart is wild fam, stop telling women to smile it’s corny and abusive, and more! Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.pat

LIVE SHOW 12/10!!!! Join Tea with Queen and J. for a LIVE SHOW brought to you by WNYC’s Podcast Mixtape Series on December 10th with special guest Michaela angela Davis! We want to see you there! Tix & info: http://www.thegreenespace.org/events/thegreenespace/2018/dec/10/podcast-mixtape/ Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this spot of tea episode… Remember those viral feel good videos of high school seniors getting accepted to Ivy League schools? Was that shit a lie & a scam? Also, what to do when you’re Black and your mom doesn’t know, and why are their Black Republicans in New York and whose mans are they? Trigger warning for child abuse discussion between moment 36:57 and 57:23 Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www

LIVE SHOW 12/10!!!! Join Tea with Queen and J. for a LIVE SHOW brought to you by WNYC’s Podcast Mixtape Series on December 10th! We want to see you there! Tix & info: http://www.thegreenespace.org/events/thegreenespace/2018/dec/10/podcast-mixtape/ Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… Is ‘shea butter twitter’ and the natural hair movement a safe haven for white supremacy? Do the white women in your life think they’re doing you a favor? Also, stop saying “that’s gay”, stop giving wack sex, and drink more water. This week’s hot list: Get your arts & crafts on, it’s the holiday depression season!, more from Werk It festival, white liberal fragility right in front of our salad, does every liberal white woman thinks she’s the teacher in ‘Dangerous Minds’? Natural hair shrinkage is racist but we got you covered, Black femme safety, secret relationships, homophobia, transphobia, and Dwight Howard... Tweet us while you listen! #t

LIVE SHOW 12/10!!!! Join Tea with Queen and J. for a LIVE SHOW brought to you by WNYC’s Podcast Mixtape Series on December 10th! We want to see you there! Tix & info: http://www.thegreenespace.org/events/thegreenespace/2018/dec/10/podcast-mixtape/ Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this spot of tea episode… Some of your elders are bigots... yes the Black ones, Black Santa might be satanic, and violence doesn’t always leave a bruise. This week’s hot list: Queen gets her science and tech on at Werk It festival, what constitutes ‘violence’ and when should we use that term? Black women dismissing other Black women because corporate classism is so fvcking tasty, women are not a monolith (we say this every week, but whateves), white folks who invoke fear cuz terrorism is a white American past-time, Black Santa, consumerism, Afrolatinidad, generational shifts vs bigotry and mad other sh!t. Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj a

LIVE SHOW 12/10!!!! Join Tea with Queen and J. for a LIVE SHOW brought to you by WNYC’s Podcast Mixtape Series on December 10th! We want to see you there! Tix & info: http://www.thegreenespace.org/events/thegreenespace/2018/dec/10/podcast-mixtape/ Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… Are you an “auntie”, an “elder”, or an “old-head” and are any of those terms offensive? We explore ageism and mortality and talk shit about old exes. Have you heard of “n*ggerfishing”? (It’s a thing) Iggy Azaelia has but this song isn’t about her. And finally, women’s empowerment - what even is that shit? This week’s hot list: Queen is taking baths now, men never take baths on TV (there's a reason), J. nerds out on For All Nerds Show, our live show is 12/10 and we got dents! Catfishing gets weirder, Iggy Azalea and J.Lo have big booties so it’s cool (this is sarcasm), ageism for everyone, Be My Eyes app, Dom lemon can never leave the pit - sto

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this spot of tea episode… Is the patriarchy ruining your relationship? (definitely yes) Hood lit or ‘nigglature’ as it has been called by somebody somewhere is a having a what the fvck moment on social media, Is Rebel Wilson a level 3 white feminist or did she just repeat some dumb shit that her agent said to get her gassed? Or is it both? This week’s hot list: cover yourself in emollients, Will Smith is the TV dad we thought we had, reality tv destroys families, add these podcasts to your rotation: Jade & XD, #Reaganomics, The Black Guy Who Tips, Grizzly KiKi, follow @broobs.psd on instagram. Should we review season 2 of She’s Gotta Have It or nah? We reaffirm our Queen & J. sex policy, Rebel Wilson is bad at twitter, it’s the 20th anniversary of the cinematic masterpiece “Belly” that’s right (muthafuggin masterfuggin piece kinda), Quan Millz, hood lit, opporcoonists, and Vote and break up with your

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… We talk about the white privilege of Steven Universe (don’t worry, nobody’s cancelled), masculinity on Insecure, we drag the fuck out of people we know , China is legit wilding, and to vote or nah????? This week’s hot list: Steven Universe stays outta pocket, Islamophobia unchecked in China, Queen & J. apologize for what had happened, sisterhood in Syracuse, Black girl wigs for little girl heads, Insecure’s toxic masculinity and why we might be here for Lawrence, you gonna vote or nah on November 6th? Gaslighting Black women in business (we’re over it, and we’re talking about it), and #YouOKSis is a quick and easy way to check on a woman who may or may not be being harassed. Try it sometime. Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this spot of tea episode… we visit Harriet Tubman’s gravesite in upstate NY at the end of our most racist trip ever. We check out the latest issue of Essence magazine and ask what in the fucking patriarchy? Also, pay Black women, celebrity code switching, and white passing at the voting booth. This week’s hot list: Getting laid off is awkward, upstate New York is wack, racist, and transphobic; systemic racism vs. hate speech and other wild sh!t, safe urban space vs. hostile whiteness, Queering The Airwaves: QTPOC Media Symposium, Kelis the all American cook, Essence sells to Black women but are they even about that life, women upholding the patriarchy, cooking videos and the Black hand conspiracy, white supremacy is not a conspiracy theory my guy, passing in a colonized world where don’t nobody wanna be Black and more! Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to hel

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… Are you Black enough, are you dark enough and is that the same thing? White passing in Hollywood and who gets to claim Black or brown and does white supremacy have anything to do with it. Then demonizing Black children and infantilizing white adults, and are you throwing a party, a conference, or an event just to say you did it? You wack for that. This week’s hot list: Venus is in retrograde and your ex is calling you. Who decides who is “white passing”? Dwayne Johnson is a Black ass name but The Rock as John Henry or nah? Nuance is not just a word that people refuse to google. Teresa Sue Klein aka Cornerstore Caroline is a social terrorist, and more! Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawi

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… We rarely talk about interracial relationships because so what, but we’ve got a whole ass Black woman married to a whole ass white man and things get racist at her house, so here we go. We also give a quick New York Comic Con (NYCC) recap and one of our favorite cosplayers gives us a deep dive into what she calls her “fat, Black, geek life” and the role of white supremacist patriarchal capitalism in fandom and beyond! This week’s hot list: You can now listen to Tea with Queen and J. on Spotify (tis lit)! Listen to Black trans women and don’t center yourself like cis trash, Check out forallnerds.com & syfywire.com for all things NYCC. Canon cosplay, fan-art, erasure, body image & desireability, Our favorite Superman on instagram is @flood_movement period. When interracial love is more than ‘love is love’ and racism from the outside world - but real raw race sh!t in your own otherwise lovi

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… Is your life sh!t on a stick right now? We assure you it gets better and offer tools for getting over the hump. Then we reflect on Kanye’s survival, the Black Women’s March, and how white Latinx folks be wilding on the daily, on the reg and all the time. This week’s hot list: Blue check activism, Black girls disliking sh!t out loud is ok, giddy & in love is cool, just not in the group chat, Queens vs b!tches brought to you by the patriarchy, Kanye West still hates Black people, the discomfort of your teens and twenties, Money’s rememberlutions jar, Gina Rodriguez be loud and wrong y más. Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawith

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! This is Part 2 of our review of the Netflix film “Nappily Ever After”! We discuss community, how Black women support and take care of one another, natural hair journeys, desirability, the Black girl magic era and if any of that sh!t existed in this film that takes place in nobody knows when. We're joined by special guest Ola, founder & director of The Free Black Woman's Library. Follow our guest, Ola & The Free Black Woman’s Library! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FreeBlackWomansLibrary/ Instagram: @TheFreeBlackWomansLibrary https://www.instagram.com/thefreeblackwomenslibrary/ Twitter: @sohumstudios https://twitter.com/sohumstudios Events: https://www.facebook.com/events/664724570568864/ Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr:

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this spot of tea episode… We review the Netflix film adaptation of the book “Nappily Ever After” and we ask… Why??? We split this review into two parts. Please enjoy part one and let us know what you think! Follow our guest, Ola & The Free Black Woman’s Library! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/FreeBlackWomansLibrary/ Instagram: @TheFreeBlackWomansLibrary https://www.instagram.com/thefreeblackwomenslibrary/ Twitter: @sohumstudios https://twitter.com/sohumstudios Events: https://www.facebook.com/events/664724570568864/ Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj NOTES AND EXTRA TEA See Soul of a Nation: Art

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… Are Black British actors “taking” Black American roles or is white supremacy just doing what it do? Black trans women are being killed left and right and the media is acting like it’s their fault. And we knew Janet Jackson was blacklisted but do you know the white man’s name who did it? It’s never a conspiracy, always a whole ass white man fvcking with whole ass Black people. This week’s hot list: J. isn’t using her feelings journal for her mental health, but you should. Listen to Marsha’s Plate podcast and stop being corny. Queen is queer ya’ll. Trans women are desired, loved, and not studying your crusty, stankin ass. There might be a serial killer in Jacksonville, Florida. Does anybody care tho? We’re getting a Harriet Tubman movie with Cynthia Erivo! Maybe we should be excited, or maybe we should just fight. If Janet Jackson can’t live, then who can? And Stop. Killing. Trans. Women.

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this spot of tea episode… The greatest athlete of all time makes us wonder if being a Black woman at work sucks for all of us or just most of us, Elvin stopped us from job shaming so we’ve moved on to goal shaming, and Insecure got interesting again, but then it got weird and possibly sizeist. Why it always gotta be Kelli? This week’s hot list: Mac Miller avoided peak white rapper-hood, J.’s having a rough mental health week, Serena Williams is all of us at work as Naomi Osaka gets exoticized for being Japanese while being a whole Black woman, that #geoffreyowenschallenge got weird and classist, and is Kelli on Insecure supposed to be big fat joke on Insecure or nah? Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumbl

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… Does white supremacist patriarchal capitalism make you feel good about yourself? Do you affirm your existence by comparing yourself to others? Are you a dumb bitch? Find out on the next Dragon Ball Z. This week’s hot list: We’re gonna say Calvin repeatedly, but we promise we mean Elvin. Bronx nail prices are self-care, Maxine Waters is Wakandan, we’re not for the diasporadical wars but don’t try it, passport protocol, the white woman wellness racket and don’t let white men tell you what you can’t do (they don’t be knowing). Are you participating in hate speech against whole entire groups of your own people via classism and the other isms or are you just a hater or both? Let ghetto girls and all the girls live. Serena Williams is tennis leave her the f*ck alone. Nike been on their white supremacist patriarchal capitalism. Also everything bagels are delicious so there’s that. Tweet us

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this spot of tea episode… How to get white sh!t by doing Black sh!t. Also success ain’t white, so ignore that first sentence but you get what I’m trying to say. Black bodies, Black spaces, and safe space are several phrases that we’ll during our Afropunk recap but we promise it’s important! This week’s hot list: White Afropunks and accessibility? moshpits, liberated friends are the best friends, entrepreneurship podcasts by and for Black women, myliek, don't be ashamed of your financial goals, is sex self care or nah? self-esteem, body-image, FUTURO Digital Conference, anti-Blackness, POCs need more rest, we’re good on that grinding shi!, and more... Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL tea

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… Is it important to have a Black section? and fvck does that mean? Then we remember Aretha Franklin, and get into some diasporadical foolishness, misunderstandings, voter suppression, and ghosting. This week’s hot list: Safe Black brunch, Queen’s going to SXSW (maybe), What is African American lit(erature) and when’s the last time you were at a library? #1 Aretha Franklin is body positivity goals, #2 Who should NOT participate in her tribute, and #3 Whose opinion we did not fvcking ask for. Racism & ableism join forces to suppress votes in Georgia. Afropunk swaps 3 Smiths & a possible for one Pusha T, when somebody who ghosted you has the nerve to still be alive, and mad other ish. Time stamps: Tea talk/Teamail: 16:42:-43:10: News that’s News: 44:56:-52:56: Pay Black Women: 53:04:00-1:00:35 The Pit: 1:01:00-1:13:37 Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twi

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this spot of tea episode… We find self-care in some new and innovative Black ass television, while exploring the naive white protagonist who gets to be racist for fun. Also step moms who need their ass beat and how to trust yourself. This week’s hot list: Nikki Giovanni, Random Acts Of Flyness, Black women safe cinema, binge watching instead of binge drinking, break ups, life goals, child support (yes again), and dating good dads (unless you're a bumb ass b!tch who thinks dead beats are hot). Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj NOTES AND EXTRA TEA Listen to this throwback episode of Touré Show feat