Tea With Queen And J.

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… Child support and the family structure, who owes what, who does what and who shouldn’t have shit to say about it. Also, new rules for Black hair in the military, and how ‘I don’t see color’ is an act of violence This week’s hot list: Sorry To Bother You, light skinned mediocrity, ladyhood, African prints, Podcast Movement #PM18, commuting & cultural differences, how do you take up space? “I don’t see color” headasses and mad other ish. Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj TELL BUZZFEED YOU LOVE TEA WITH QUEEN &

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this spot of tea episode… We frequently celebrate ourselves our Blackness and our flyness on this show but how do we navigate whiteness? We hung out with hundreds of white people last week and it was scary as hell. This week we give tips for staying moisturized in the midst of white supremacy and even tips for white people who don’t want to be a part of the problem (...just this one time tho). Also: Podcast Movement recap (#PM18), Janet Jackson, microaggressions, several moments in Black hair, diversity vs inclusion, white feminism (again), and the illustrious Migos, Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithq

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this spot of tea episode… We present our #ListenToBlackWomen: Podcasting as Black Oral Tradition panel at #YurhouseSXSW. We had the opportunity to gather several other amazing Black women in podcasting to discuss our voices, our audience, and existence in media. Panelists Brooke Devard of “The Naked Beauty” podcast (Twitter/IG @BrookeDeVard, IG @NakedBeautyPlanet) Diamond Stylz of “Marsha’s Plate: Black Trans Talk” podcast (Twitter/IG @DiamondStylz @MarshasPlate) Laura Mignot of “The Reset Podcast” (Twitter/IG @theresetpodcast @lmigno) Money of “QueerWOC: The Podcast” (Twitter/IG @QueerWOCpod @melanatedmoney) Nikeeta of “QueerWOC: The Podcast” (Twitter/IG @QueerWOCpod @afroblazinguns) Queen of “Tea with Queen and J.” podcast (Twitter/IG @TeawithQJ @TheQueenSpeaks_) J. of “Tea with Queen and J.” podcast (Twitter/IG @TeawithQJ @JaniciaF) Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj Add #podin on t

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… Your fave is a rapist and he said it but woke Black women still fuck with him. Also Black women using their voices in media for good, and is the white man’s news helping to gentrify your neighborhood???? This week’s hot list: Nerd moisture tips, code switching, mental health, coming of age in rape culture, #justice4junior, the Bronx, gentrification, woke silence for pay, Charlamagne & his light skinned friends and mad other sh!t Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj Add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj EVENTS PHILLY July 24th Join us at #PodsInCo

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… How to self-care yourself without getting got! Doing something racist vs being "a racist" (is there a difference and does it really fvcking matter) and we’re Black and we’re cute and we want your loot. Also: Black Femme healing, safe-space, anti-Blackness, interracial relationships, that McClure twins drama, Black diasporadical tensions, and mad other sh!t. It's fun, we promise. Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj Add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj EVENTS HARLEM July 14th Games Dev of Color Expo: http://gamedevsofcolorexpo.com/ WASHINGTON, DC Ju

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… What do you do when problematic (like really problematic) people die? Have you had it with Black people who don’t like being Black? We’re over them too, but we have a message for you. And our final topic, don’t be a wanksta. This week’s hot list: Capitalism, podcast hustle, working while women, Afro-latinidad, Black/Afro-latinx identity, discoveries in Black American identity, colorism, Bad b*tch positive, Can Black women be ‘triggered’? We go there a little with XXXtentacion (with a trigger warning right before the segment so don’t fret), live controversial/die controversial, domestic violence, navigating nuanced situations and social media, social media as real life, nobody asked for your 50 Cents, Terry Cruz, sexual assault, #metoo, and Tone Def Comedy Jam Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj Add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast!

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this spot of tea episode… In the 1970’s Sweetback’s Badass song, Shaft, and then Superfly were considered the start of the Blaxploitation genre, and almost 50 years later with a new Superfly, a whole new Shaft on the way, and others in the works, do we still need Blaxploitation? Should we survive on Black Panther alone, and is the real question - who’s gonna save the hood????? This week’s hot list: Juneteenthk was lit, our guest spot on The Black Guy Who Tips, Trevor Jackson is adorable, Superfly, New Jack City, Belly, polyamory, Black women & colorism, everything covered in instagram flavored #BlackExcellence, and more, listen! Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL teawithqueenandj@gmail.

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… Our friend and trans activist Diamond Stylz talks to us about uniting cis & trans women against the patriarchy, subverting the system with sex work, dating from the same pool of poop, and mad other sh!t This week’s hot list: sex work, Nicki Minaj tried it, Sarah Baartman, Instagram models, using cisgender privilege to combat transphobia, getting past trans 101, white feminism and they foolishness, all of us are bad at dating women, who identifies as queer and who doesn’t, Diamond hits us with the most hard core pit ever, and entertainment industry OG Sway interviews music artist Nate Grants on behalf of white supremacist patriarchal capitalism. How Sway????????? Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj Add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this spot of tea episode… we ask all the questions… Should Harriet Tubman’s face be on money? Have you ever met a Black archeologist? Is now a good time for your suicide advise? This week’s hot list: Kim Kardashian talks to her little friend and bails a Black woman out of prison, new Kenyan film “Rafiki” centers queer women, Harriet Tubman and Dr. Martin Luther King’s debut on US currency paused under Trump (plot twist, this is probably a good thing; hear us out), finding a supportive academic community when it looks like there ain’t none to be found, Anthony Bourdain’s posthumous invitation to the cookout, and mad other sh!t Trigger warning for suicide discussion: Segment begins @ 1:00:00 Segment ends @ 1:17:00 Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook

Welcome to Queen & J.’s “Dear Black People” podcast! We’re two womanist race nerds reviewing the fvck out of season two of the Netflix series “Dear White People” This week we do our final spoiler full review of the series “Dear White People” volume 2, episodes 9 and 10! If you’d like to listen to this episode in two parts, we begin reviewing episode/chapter 10 at moment 53:40. Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj #DearBlackPeople WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/TeawithQJ Instagram: www.instagram.com/teawithqj/ Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ/ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj NOTES & EXTRA TEA Be sure to watch “Dear White People” on Netflix now! Want more Queen & J.? Listen to full episodes of Tea with Queen and J. podcast! New episodes drop every Tuesday, ! Listen to episode 157 of Tea with Queen and J. podcast "#157 Let's Define Reparations Cuz Ya

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… REPARATIONS! Everybody and they mama’s been throwing that word around, does it means something, does it mean nothing? What does it mean, when can we use it, and why? This week’s hot list: Group chat etiquette, staying active vs. losing weight, what the heck are reparations, are free drinks at a bar reparations? Is an individual donation reparations? And if it ain’t reparations is it cool, is it ok, is it right? Also, that Bardi Lisa mural fiasco, and a trifling ass moment in Black hair because white supremacy won’t keep their hands out of our hair. Time stamps: Tea Talk 18:48-23:12 Nikeeta Reparations Discussion 23:12-1:16:00 Moment in Black Hair 1:16:00-1:27:00 The Pit 1:27:00-1:43:00 Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj Add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawit

Welcome to Queen & J.’s “Dear Black People” podcast! We’re two womanist race nerds reviewing the fvck out of season two of the Netflix series “Dear White People” This week we do a spoiler full review of “Dear White People” volume 2, episodes 7 and 8! We will only include spoilers for the episodes that we are discussing and the episodes prior, so if you’re not a binge watcher, there’s still time for you to catch up! If you’d like to listen to this episode in two parts, we begin reviewing episode/chapter 8 at moment 47:04. Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj #DearBlackPeople WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: https://twitter.com/TeawithQJ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/teawithqj/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ/ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj NOTES & EXTRA TEA Be sure to watch “Dear White People” on Netflix now! Want more Queen & J.? Listen to full e

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture and over tea. Drink up! On this spot of tea episode… Are everybody’s coworkers wild racist or just mine? Living alone or safe space roomates - do either of those things exist in NYC? And how do you date when men are trash This week’s hot list: Black graduates and Black ass degrees, Janet Jackson is still the first Black woman to do things because racism, office hate crimes in the good lords 2018, tips on renting in a big city, Dear White People, can you fvck or even make love and get googly eyes for straight men and dismantle white supremacist patriarchal capitalism at the same damn time? Juneteenth, and mad other sh!t Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj

Welcome to Queen & J.’s “Dear Black People” podcast! We’re two womanist race nerds reviewing the fvck out of season two of the Netflix series “Dear White People” This week we do a spoiler full review of “Dear White People” volume 2, episodes 5 and 6! We will only include spoilers for the episodes that we are discussing and the episodes prior, so if you’re not a binge watcher, there’s still time for you to catch up! If you’d like to listen to this episode in two parts, we begin reviewing episode/chapter 6 at moment 58:16 (We spent more time on ep 5 this week because Trevor wtf). Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj #DearBlackPeople WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: @TeawithQJ Instagram: @TeawithQJ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ/ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj NOTES & EXTRA TEA Be sure to watch “Dear White People” on Netflix now! Want more Queen & J.? Li

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… White people try to police us off the face of the earth, rapist cops are running rampant on Rikers, and is it so hard to let Black people enjoy things? Black people, we’re talking to you This week’s hot list: Black joy killers, contrarian ass ni**as, Dear White People, policing as a tool of gentrification, cultural celebrations, quarantining Black life, the royal wedding, life is hard - enjoy things, mental health & free counseling, incarceration & sexual assault, how not to interview a Black feminist/womanist and mad other sh!t Segments: Tea Talk 17:45 - 43:15 #PayBlackWomen 43:15 - 46:15 News That’s Not News (Trigger warning for rape) 46:15 -54:45 The Pit 54:45-1:08:55 Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr

Welcome to Queen & J.’s “Dear Black People” podcast! We’re two womanist race nerds reviewing the fvck out of season two of the Netflix series “Dear White People” This week we do a spoiler full review of “Dear White People” episodes 3 and 4! We will only include spoilers for the episodes that we are discussing and the episodes prior, so if you’re not a binge watcher, there’s still time for you to catch up! If you’d like to listen to this episode in two parts, we begin reviewing episode/chapter 4 at moment 41:09. Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj #DearBlackPeople WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: @TeawithQJ Instagram: @TeawithQJ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ/ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj NOTES & EXTRA TEA Be sure to watch “Dear White People” on Netflix now! Want more Queen & J.? Listen to full episodes of Tea with Queen and J. podcast! New episodes

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On spot of tea episode… Does marrying a Black woman mean that you love Black women? Probably not. Also, skin bleaching and who gets to joke about it - 50/50 chance says not you. And as usual a moment in Black hair and a moment in Black ass life. This week’s hot list: Is Chadwick over it? Black trauma and This Is America, misogynoir is mad common, listen to The Black Guy Who Tips podcast, can you build a house? Can you send reparations via paypal? Queen is running a 5k, self-validation and creativity, colorism, new hair who dis, and Black art, white audience or nah. Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj

Welcome to Queen & J.’s “Dear Black People” podcast! We’re two womanist race nerds reviewing the fvck out of season two of the Netflix series “Dear White People” This week we do a spoiler full review of “Dear White People” episodes 1 and 2! We will only include spoilers for the episodes that we are discussing and the episodes prior, so if you’re not a binge watcher, there’s still time for you to catch up! If you’d like to listen to this episode in two parts, we begin reviewing episode/chapter 2 at moment 40:00. Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj #DearBlackPeople WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: @TeawithQJ Instagram: @TeawithQJ Facebook: Tea with Queen and J. Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj NOTES & EXTRA TEA Be sure to watch “Dear White People” on Netflix now! Want more Queen & J.? Listen to full episodes of Tea with Queen and J. podcast! New episodes drop every Tuesday,

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this spot of tea episode… R. Kelly has BEEN a rapist. Why are we talking about it now? Special guest Kenyette Barnes joins us to discuss #MuteRKelly, the movement to divest from all things R.Kelly and reinvest in protecting Black women and girls. This week’s hot list: #muterkelly, organizing, activism, to-do lists, misogynoir, sexual violence, divestment, lynching metaphors and history, general ashiness, the #metoo movement, #timesup and learning to #listentoBlackwomen Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj NOTES & EXTRA TEA Thank you Kenyette Barnes for taking time to speak with us. Learn more ab

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… what the hell is happening on television? We discuss The Simpsons, The Problem with Apu, and a bunch of other shows that are giving us Black joy or causing us Black concern. We explore how white supremacist patriarchal capitalism is trying to fvck with our natural hair routines. And opinions that we didn’t ask for, like Kanye’s, your woman beating cousins on facebook, and Charles Barkley’s. This week’s hot list: DJ Ralph McDaniels & NY sh!t, our pets run we, we nah run dem, job advice when the world is too much, you are enough, The Simpsons, Hank Azaria is a better yt guy than he was a few months ago, Hari Kondabolu’s ‘The Problem with Apu’, television, do animated characters get away with problematic murder? American Dad, is Roger a problem? Is AtlantaFX fvcking with our Black joy? We want interracial couples to stop staring at us, Black Lightening, Scandal is done and we’re happy, L