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Fast-forward 15 years: what does your love life look like now? We're chatting with former guest Matteson Perry, author of a memoir chronicling his single life, about what he wishes he knew now – fifteen years later as a devoted husband and father. We discuss why you must go through all the heartbreak of dating, the unexpected qualities to look for in a partner, and how to avoid the biggest mistake that prevents you from finding your true love.Check out Matteson Perry https://www.mattesonperry.com/ and his book 'Available: A Memoir of Heartbreak, Hookups, Love, and Brunch' and listen to the first episode we did with Matteson here: https://www.dateablepodcast.com/episode/s2e15-love-sex-and-burning-man-with-matteson-perryFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored by:F

From strip clubs to liking sexy Instagram photos, what's the line of cheating in this day and age? In this week’s brunch talk, we’re discussing the grey area of behaviors that make you feel uncomfortable that may not be as black and white as a physical affair. We discuss forms of microcheating, ways to navigate prior single behaviors, and how to talk to your partner about anything that makes you feel uncomfortable.Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored by:Factor: Get 50% America's #1 Meal Delivery Service at https://factormeals.com/dateable50 or use the code DATEABLE50Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.Dateable is part of the

We think our chances of love are over after that divorce or heart-wrenching breakup, but it's just the beginning. We're chatting with Laura & Heather to hear how their love stories continue only to get better – and how their views on dating, relationships, and marriage have changed drastically from all they've learned. We discuss the problems of being so tied to the relationship escalator, why your checklist doesn't matter, and how you can create a different – but better – kind of love this second time around. Follow Heather & Laura on Instagram @thirstythepodcast and check out their podcast 'Thirsty: The Podcast' wherever you get your podcasts.Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored by:Factor: Get 50% America's #1 Meal Delivery Service a

How much time do you spend together? When should you meet each other's friends and families? How do you still make time for your friends? In this week’s brunch talk, we’re discussing how to manage a new relationship – without loosing yourself in the process. We discuss how to understand both of your needs in a relationship, ways to make it a collaborative process to determine what works best for the two of you, and how to carve out your own time to bring your best selves to the relationship. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored by:Factor: Get 50% America's #1 Meal Delivery Service at https://factormeals.com/dateable50 or use the code DATEABLE50Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.c

We're getting intimate, y'all with Intimacy Coach Andre Lazarus as we talk about how past sexual experiences – or inexperiences – may be holding you back from having the sex life you've always wanted. We discuss how to take back control of anything that's caused you shame, ways to feel more confident about your sexual desires, and why it's entirely possible to live a more connected life with deeper intimacy.Trigger Alert: We touch briefly on sexual traumas including rape, assault, and more.Follow Andre on Instagram @comingcloserwithandre and check out his work: https://coming-closer.com/Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored by:HoneyLove: Treat yourself to the best shapewear on the market and save 20% Off at honeylove.com with the code DATEABLEFactor: G

Dating can be hard (and expensive!) when you're dating multiple people at once, never sure if that first date will amount to anything more. In this week’s brunch talk, we’re discussing balancing all the planning aspects of modern dating with putting your best foot forward for each new person you meet. We discuss the differences between first dates and meet and greets, how to do a "vibe check" without killing the vibe, and ways to plan more intentional lower-budget first dates that still wow. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comOur FINDING YOUR PERSON program is open for a limited time from 11/24-12/3 at findingyourperson.comFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored by:Factor: Get 50% America's #1 Meal Delivery Service at htt

From the Bachelor to Love is Blind to Indian Matchmaking, how much is reality TV is seeping into real-life dating? We're chatting with Natasha & Justine from 2 Black Girls, 1 Rose about what reality dating shows teach us (if anything) about modern dating, love, and relationships. We discuss why we're all so intrigued by reality shows in the first place, how the pick-me mentality has been perpetrated into dating culture, and ways reality TV shows have made us buy into (or out of) the fantasy of love.Follow 2 Black Girls, 1 Rose on Instagram @2BlackGirls1Rose and check out their podcast ‘2 Black Girls, 1 Rose’ wherever you get your podcastsFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.Our FINDING YOUR PERSON program is open for a limited time from 11/24-12/3!! USE code FLUFFING for 20% off on Bl

Nothing is more uncomfortable than when friends don't approve of your relationship, but is it a dealbreaker? In this week’s brunch talk, we’re discussing what to do if your friends don't like your partner – or your partner's friends don't like you. We discuss when this becomes problematic versus something you can get over, how to best handle the situation to try to get closer, and ways you can move forward if the relationship with the friends is beyond repair. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comOur FINDING YOUR PERSON program is open for a limited time from 11/24-12/3 at findingyourperson.comFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored by:Factor: Get 50% America's #1 Meal Delivery Service at https://factormeals.com/dateabl

If you’re freaking out about finding a partner during cuffing season – stop right there. We're talking about why cuffing season is actually the WORST time to find love – and why you should try fluffing season instead. We discuss the reasons starting a relationship now doesn’t set you up for long-term success, what fluffing season is and why it’s a better use of your time, and ways you can fluff to be more strategic while everyone is scrambling. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.Our FINDING YOUR PERSON program is open for a limited time from 11/24-12/3!! USE code FLUFFING for 20% off on Black Friday only at findingyourperson.comThis episode is sponsored by:NOCD: We're partnering with NOCD to raise awareness of relationship OCD. To book a free 15-minute call, go to nocd.com/dateableFacto

Tis the season....for the grilling of what's going on in your love life. From questions about why you're still single to when we'll ever get grandchildren, the holidays can be a stressful time. But have no fear! In this week’s brunch talk, we’re discussing how to navigate these conversations in a way that puts you in control, why we need to remember our family members are probably coming from a good place with these questions anyway, and ways you can use these conversations to bring you closer instead of ruining the holiday. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored by:Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.Uncommon Goods: Get 1

Talking about the future can be scary – especially if you're not operating at the exact same speed as your partner. We're talking with Dr. Alexandra Solomon about how to navigate a pace discrepancy – whether it's becoming exclusive, moving in together, getting engaged, or entering whatever next life stage. We discuss how to share your needs without making it an ultimatum, tactics to help both the faster-paced and slower-paced partners, and why it's important to determine if you can eventually forward move together or if you simply aren't on the same page.Follow Dr. Alexandra Solomon on Instagram @dr.alexandra.solomon. Check out her new book 'Love Every Day'Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored by:Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.

From spending time with their children or even their parents, what do you do when you feel like you come second to your partner’s family? In this week’s brunch talk, we’re discussing how to balance your relationship with other relationships in your life, ways to get to the bottom of the actual feelings you may be experiencing, and why it’s important to broach this topic in a way that doesn’t compete for each other’s time. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored by:Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.Uncommon Goods: Get 15% off your next gift at uncommongoods.com/dateableModern Fertility: Get $20 off your fertility test when you go to m

Maybe you've experienced that great date only to be confused when it didn't result in a kiss goodnight – or anything more. Are they just not that into you....or could it be something else? We’re discussing the different ways we all experience desire as we chat with Mike about being a hetero man who leans more on the submissive spectrum. We discuss the differences between responsive and spontaneous desire, how gender roles perpetuate stereotypes, and why we need to better understand our partners instead of making assumptions. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored by:NOCD: We're partnering with NOCD to raise awareness of relationship OCD. To book a free 15-minute call, go to nocd.com/dateableUncommon Goods: Get 15% off your next gift at uncommongoods.com/dateabl

From the IG story view to continuing to profess their love, why don't exes just go away once the relationship is over? In this week's brunch talk, we’re discussing what to do when you have a lingering ex and what this may mean. We discuss the different ways you can respond, why it's important to clarify intentions before making any assumptions, and how to not let your ex derail you from having the love life you actually want.Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored by:Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.Uncommon Goods: Get 15% off your next gift at uncommongoods.com/dateableDateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You

If you’re pretty much done with the pressure of being single and you just want to live your best damn life, then you’re in the right place, our friends. We’re chatting with Julia Mazur about how her whole mentality changed after hitting that milestone bday, breaking up with her boyfriend, and getting bullied on the internet for being single – all in the same week. We’re discussing how you can be happy being single while still wanting a partner, how to acknowledge the loneliness while moving through it, and ways you can start tuning out outside influences to live your best life. Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored by:NOCD: We're partnering with NOCD to raise awareness of relationship OCD. To book a free 15-minute call, go to nocd.com/dateableUncommon Goods: Get 15% o

What happens when the person you're dating is going through mental health struggles that make it difficult to date? In this week's brunch talk, we’re discussing when it's time to walk away from this type of relationship, how to feel secure in the decision you make, and ways to avoid the trap of the on-again-off-again relationship. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored by:Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.Mochi Melt: Get 15% off beautifully designed lube at mochimelt.com with the code DATEABLE.Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcastsWE

Yup, you heard us right. We often talk about how situationships wreak havoc to your love life...but today we're back with a solo episode looking at how situationships may actually help you. We’re discussing what relational skills you can learn even in a situationship, how to use them to understand what you need in a partner (or what you'll never stand for again), and why even the worst situationship can help open your heart for something bigger and better.Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored by:Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.Mochi Melt: Get 15% off beautifully designed lube at mochimelt.com with the code DATEABLE.BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/d

So you met someone amazing except they aren't fully separated yet...in fact, maybe they're still living with their ex! Is this a total dealbreaker? In this week's brunch talk, we’re discussing the importance of breaking away from the past before starting something new, ways to set boundaries that don't keep you waiting around, and how to see if someone is ready or not to start something new.Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored by:Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcastsWE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE

Once a cheater, always a cheater? We’re finding out as we break down the psychology of infidelity with Dr. Nicolle Zapien about the psychology of cheating and why people cheat in the first place. We’re discussing the main reasons for infidelity, why certain people may be more prone to cheating than others, and how to determine if reconciliation is in the cards (or not).Learn more about Dr. Zapien: https://nicollegottfriedzapien.com/Follow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchickh and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored by:HoneyLove: Treat yourself to the best shapewear on the market and save 20% Off at honeylove.com with the code DATEABLEMochi Melt: Get 15% off beautifully designed lube at mochimelt.com with the code DATEABLE. Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your fi

Is it possible for someone to love and care about you, yet still not want anything serious? Did their words mean anything? On this week's brunch talk we’re diving into the reasons someone can catch feelings yet still not want a relationship, why it's often less personal than you may think, and how to come back stronger and keep your heart open for someone ready to go all in with you.Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast, @juliekrafchick and @nonplatonic. Check out our website for more content. Also listen to our other podcast Exit Interview w/ iHeart Podcasts available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, iHeartRadio, or wherever you get your podcasts.This episode is sponsored by:Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcastsWE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon