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We know you love the science of dating so now it's time to look at all the data! We're chatting with Michael Kaye from OKCupid about the trends he's seeing on dating apps as we approach mid-term elections and cuffing season. We discuss how what people are looking for has dramatically shifted over the years, top tips to maximize your profile on any dating app, and why this time of year is one of the best times to be dating online.Follow Michael @michaelkayepr and OKCupid @okcupid. Michael is also giving Dateable listeners a free upgrade to premium if you create an OKCupid profile and email him at subscriptions@okcupid.com and say you heard him on Dateable. You're welcome!Register now for our 22-day dating app challenge that is re-released just in time for cuffing season! Get your spot now before it's too late: https://www.findingyourperson.com/appsFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.da

Whether it's through social media or within your friend group, when is it time to get out of your secret bubble and show off your partner to the world? On this week's brunch talk we discuss the right time (and way) to go public with your relationship, the important questions you need to know first, and whether you do a soft launch or just put it all out there.Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardThank you to our partners for this episode:Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphotoDateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcastsWE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster, Jan 2025) is availab

There's certainly no denying the progress we've made in this post #metoo world, but has the sexual revolution and feminist movement actually helped us have better sex and relationships? We're chatting with Washington Post columnist and author Christine Emba about rethinking sex and what it means for all of us. We discuss why consent is not enough, the reasons being liberated are making dating culture miserable, and how we can rethink the gold standard of equality.Follow Christine @christineemba and get your copy of 'Rethinking Sex' today!Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardThank you to our partners for this episode:Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphotoDateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcas

So you're seeing someone new and either you or them are not quite ready to do the deed. But how do you know if you'll have chemistry? Or are sexually compatible? On this week's brunch talk we discuss how to navigate when one partner is ready and the other isn't, how to get more comfortable having sex with someone new, and ways that you can explore your sexuality together without having penetrative sex.Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardThank you to our partners for this episode:Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphotoDateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcastsWE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE D

We're constantly looking for new people to date but what about that person where the timing wasn't quite right or the connection never quite blossomed. We're chatting with Vince and Yurika from Amazon Prime's 'The One That Got Away' about what it's like to have a second chance with someone from your past. We discuss when rekindling is a good idea or not, the benefits of familiarity that we don't get with the apps, and how you can open yourself up to more of these reconnections.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardFollow Vince @vincexu and Yurika @yurika.yonedaThank you to our partners for this episode:Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphotoDateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts

Move over Nancy Drew, we're dissecting the age old question of how to tell if someone likes you, especially in times when it's not entirely clear. On this week's brunch talk we discuss how to navigate situations where there are mixed signals, why you can have that fabulous first date (make-out sesh included) and never hear back from the person again, and the #1 thing you should be asking yourself when you are dating.Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardThank you to our partners for this episode:Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphotoDateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcastsWE WROTE A BOOK!

So you're sick of being ghosted, breadcrumbed, roached, or whatever is the term for the latest bad dating behavior? But what happens when you realize you're doing the exact same thing you hate to others? We're chatting with Sonica about how she feels dating culture has caused her to succumb to the lowest common denominator by normalizing bad dating behaviors. We discuss how frustrating it can be to feel like you're trying in a world where everyone else isn't, why dating app culture has changed how we treat one another, and how you can rise up to meet people that match your energy instead of sinking to the bottom.Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardThank you to our partners for this episode:Aurelia: Get 10% off your custom lingerie subscription box using the code DATEABLE10 at Aureliabox.comBetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at b

We are often gravitated to people who different than us but how different is too different? When can we learn from each other's differences vs. when do they get in the way? On this week's brunch talk we discuss the key to navigating differences in a partnership, the nuances of what differences matter and which don't, and how you can thrive in your relationship even when your partner doesn't think or do exactly like you.Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardThank you to our partners for this episode:Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.Cover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphotoDateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcastsWE WROTE A

They say the past is in the past....but should it be? Sometimes reflecting back on our past relationships is exactly how we get to where we want to go. We're going deep with comedian Des Bishop about how his relationships with others (and the one with himself) got him to the place to be with now-wife and fellow comedian Hannah Berner. We discuss how our priorities ebb and flow throughout the years, why dating to "do life" with each other is a better approach, and the balance of being ready and luck when meeting the right person.Follow Des @desbishop, check out "The Des Bishop podcast", and learn more about Des at https://www.desbishop.net/Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardThank you to our partners for this episode:Aurelia: Get 10% off your custom lingerie subscription box using the code DATEABLE10 at Aureliabox.comKensington Books: Kensington’s newes

We get it. You can't help but be tempted to "see what they're up to" and social media makes it all too easy. But when you're on their new partners IG (3 years deep, for that matter) you know this isn't healthy. We discuss how to ween off social media (or at least your ex's feed), why you aren't getting the information you need anyways through this medium, and to channel this energy into YOU and what will be better for your present day state. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardThank you to our partners for this episode:Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.Ettitude: Get 20% off your order of unbelievably soft bamboo sheets and free shipping for a limited time by going to ettitude.com/dateableCover art Ph

We get it...dating can be hard. Especially when you've ended things with the person you thought was 'The One' or went on another bad date. But we're here to spread some hope and optimism as we chat with Meredith about how she's been able to enjoy dating in her 30's and thrive being single after a brutal breakup. We discuss how detrimental breakups can be the catalyst for growth, how to actually enjoy the process of dating (even on the apps), and why personal growth is the most important gift you can give yourself.Trigger Warning: We discuss cheatingFollow Meredith at @meredithtxFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardThank you to our partners for this episode:Aurelia: Get 10% off your custom lingerie subscription box using the code DATEABLE10 at Aureliabox.comRakuten Kobo: Check out the new book The Unmatchmakers by Jackie Lau and get your copy today:

So you're on dating apps, but the matches you're getting are...well....less than desirable. Sound familiar? We're here to talk about how to get better matches on dating apps. We discuss changes you can make that do not involve updating your dating profile, the benefits of having less matches to choose from, and how to reframe what a good match even means. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardThank you to our partners for this episode:Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.Ettitude: Get 20% off your order of unbelievably soft bamboo sheets and free shipping for a limited time by going to ettitude.com/dateableCover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphotoDateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more ou

We're back for Season 15 with crowd-favorite, positive psychology and happiness expert Rob Mack as we talk about the frustration and futility of seeking love from others, instead of yourself. We discuss why we're searching for love in all the wrong places, the detriment of overthinking when it comes to your love life, and how to balance needs in a relationship plans for the future with the present, eternal love that we all hold.Trigger Warning: There is a brief mention of thoughts of being suicidal in the intro when discussing Rob's background and catalyst for becoming a happiness expert.Follow Rob @robmackofficial and learn more about Rob at https://www.coachrobmack.com/. Get Rob's new book Love from the Inside Out: Lessons and Inspiration for Loving Yourself, Your Life, and Each OtherFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardThank you to our partners for this

When you meet someone ah-mazing it's hard not to imagine a future with them. But what's the line of getting ahead of yourself vs. giving it your all? Join us for this week's brunch talk as we talk about a methodology to give yourself a gut check, how even the best of us can fall into fantasy mode, and a surefire way to set expectations according to what you know. Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardThank you to our partners for this episode:Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.Ettitude: Get 20% off your order of unbelievably soft bamboo sheets and free shipping for a limited time by going to ettitude.com/dateableCover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphotoDateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can fin

In our last week before Season 15, we're talking fboy island and how we've changed our perspective on dating (from our episodes, silly, not fboy island!). We go back in memory lane through the many seasons talking about why you can't find 'The One', why maybe your type isn't your type, and how to persevere through it all on your quest for love. Episodes referenced: S4E16: Why You Can't Find 'The One': https://www.dateablepodcast.com/episode/s4e16-why-you-cannot-find-the-oneS5E16: Just Say Yes: https://www.dateablepodcast.com/episode/s5e16-just-say-yesS7E22: Marriage 101: https://www.dateablepodcast.com/episode/s7e22-marriage-101S8E19: Quest for Love: https://www.dateablepodcast.com/episode/s8e19-quest-for-love-with-ryan-van-duzerS9E19: The Next Chapter of Dating: https://www.dateablepodcast.com/episode/s9e19-the-next-chapter-of-datingFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www

No matter how long you dated, breakups are oh so painful. From unraveling a life with someone to mourning the life you'll never have, this is by far the hardest part of dating. Join us for this week's brunch talk as we talk about the first thing you should do after a breakup, when is the right time (or not) to start dating again, and how to move through, not over, this difficult time in your life.Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardThank you to our partners for this episode:Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.Ettitude: Get 20% off your order of unbelievably soft bamboo sheets and free shipping for a limited time by going to ettitude.com/dateableCover art Photography Credit: Larry Wong #lwongphotoDateable is part of the Frolic

We're coming in confident as hell as we chat about giving relationships a second chance (as inspired by JLo and Ben Affleck), in addition to reairing the episode we did on the podcast 'The Confidence Collective' about maintaining confidence while dating even through the bumps in the road. We discuss how to shift your mindset when you're feeling like you're "no one's cup of tea", how to use dating apps more intentionally, and why relationship chicken is the biggest problem in dating.Follow Kristina & Raeann @confidentcollective and listen to their podcast The Confident CollectiveFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardThank you to our partners for this episode:BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLEEttitude: Get 20% off your order of bamboo sheets, plus free shipping for a

So you're looking for a long-term relationship, but for now you got that "friend" you may call when you're looking for a little something something. While you know they aren't 'The One', it's better than nothing, right? You're still getting something out of it...but are you? Join us for this week's brunch talk as we talk about how this arrangement may be setting you back despite realizing it, the exceptions for when a friends with benefits may be helpful, and how to decide if yours is getting in the way or not.Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardThank you to our partners for this episode:Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.Ettitude: Get 20% off your order of unbelievably soft bamboo sheets and

We're continuing the off season for just a few more weeks! Join us as we talk about Yue's layoff and the parallels of feeling disposable in both work and dating. We're also reairing the episode we did on Katie Sturino's podcast 'Boob Sweat' answering all your dating q's. We discuss dating app burnout, the art of meeting people IRL, and how to get back out there after a long-term relationship.Follow Katie @katiesturnio and check out her podcast 'Boob Sweat', book body talk and beauty line Megababe. Dateable listeners only! Get15% off, use the code BOOBSWEAT15 at https://megababebeauty.com/Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardThank you to our partners for this episode:Ettitude: Get 20% off your order of bamboo sheets, plus free shipping for a limited time when you visit https://www.ettitude.com/dateableCover art Photography Credit: Larry

Whether it's defining the relationship, saying the l-word, or moving in together, how do you know when it's the right time or if things are moving too quickly? Factor in if you've had less than desirable role models, unhealthy past relationships, or limited relationship experience. Don't worry, we got you as we discuss what it even means to move 'too quickly', how fear can get in our way, and how to have these important convos with your partner (and yourself).Got a question you need answered? Hit us up at hello@dateablepodcast.comFollow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, virtual live show dates, and merch. Join the Sounding Board at https://www.dateablepodcast.com/soundingboardThank you to our partners for this episode:Drizly: Download the Drizly app or go to Drizly.com and use promo code FAST5 for $5 off your first order.Ettitude: Get 20% off your order of unbelievably soft bamboo sheets and free shipping for a limited time by going to ettitude.com/dateableCo