Social Anxiety Solutions - Your Journey To Social Confidence!

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In this episode... Why does blushing feel so humiliating? It’s not just the redness. It’s what you believe that redness means about you. I share a powerful insight from a live coaching session inside my Social Confidence Club. You’ll discover: • Why blushing is often linked to deeper emotional wounds • How self-judgment and non-acceptance make it worse • How to break the shame cycle and feel more at ease • What to focus on first if you want real relief (and it’s not “stopping the blush”) If you’ve ever blushed and then felt ashamed, judged, or humiliated, especially in front of family, coworkers, or groups, this episode is for you.

In this episode... Think your boss, that confident guy, or a certain social group is what triggers your anxiety? Think again. Seb shares a powerful shift that helped him stop blushing, feel confident around others, and finally feel safe in social situations. It’s not people that are the problem. It’s how you perceive them. And once you change your inner perception, your entire experience changes, fast. • Why others don’t actually make you anxious • How to uncover your hidden threat perception • How EFT tapping rewires your nervous system and creates real emotional freedom

In this episode... Ever felt ignored and instantly spun into overthinking, worry, or self-doubt? In this minisode, Seb shares 3 powerful self-inquiry questions that help stop that downward spiral, plus how EFT tapping helps you release the emotional charge underneath. It’s a relatable and practical tool for moments when your brain starts jumping to painful conclusions. These are the exact questions Seb teaches inside the Social Confidence Club to help clients find emotional freedom fast.

Do you panic at the thought of blushing in public? That rising heat in your chest… the burning in your ears… the shame of knowing people see it? I used to live in fear of that exact moment. In this episode... I share my personal story of dealing with chronic, uncontrollable blushing in social situations, where it started, how it became tied to my social anxiety, and what I tried (unsuccessfully) for years to stop it. Eventually, I discovered a way to release the shame, the fear, and the obsessive thoughts. It wasn’t willpower. It wasn’t exposure therapy. It was acceptance, combined with a powerful technique called EFT tapping. You’ll learn: Why blushing becomes an obsession and what fuels it How past experiences create emotional triggers in the body Why most solutions don’t work (and what finally did) How I released the deep self-judgment and stopped caring… and then, the blushing stopped too What I now use with my clients to help them overcome blushing and social anxiety for good This is a vuln

In this episode... Most people think they’ll accept themselves after they overcome social anxiety. But what if that mindset is exactly what’s keeping you stuck? In this episode, Sebastiaan and psychologist Steve Wells reveal why self-acceptance is the starting point for true social ease, and how tapping can help you get there gently and effectively. To start reducing your anxiety today and feel more at ease socially, get my free mini-course: The 7 Secrets to Social Confidence  bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast   Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too. Thankfully, there’s a gentle, powerful, and effective solution to beat it. It won’t happen overnight, but with certain t

In this episode...If you grew up hearing “don’t be so sensitive” or “man up,” this might forever change how you see yourself. In this short minisode, Seb and ex-MMA fighter Tom Woodfin get real about what it’s like to grow up hiding your sensitivity—especially in a world that sees it as pathetic or weak. They share how years of inner work helped them shift that shame, own their sensitivity, and transform it into deep confidence and connection.

In this episode... "Can you be shy… and still feel confident in social situations?" In this live EFT tapping session, Sebastiaan helps a volunteer release shame and anxiety around being labeled “shy.” Together, they explore how childhood messages shaped her identity—and how tapping can shift self-perception fast.

In this episode... If rejection terrifies you, you’re not alone, and you’re not broken.  In this episode, Social Confidence Coach, Sebastiaan van der Schrier, and EFT expert, Rick Wilkes, reveal what’s really behind your fear of rejection… and why it lingers, even after therapy or exposure. You’ll discover how to gently dissolve the emotional charge behind past rejections, and why tapping (EFT) helps you feel safe being yourself, without needing approval from everyone. Get the free “7 Secrets to Social Confidence” mini course here → bit.ly/socialconfidencepodcast _________________________________________________________________ Do you feel awkward in social situations? Do you struggle to be yourself around others? And do you fear being judged, being seen anxious, and embarrassing yourself? You’re not alone. I’ve been there. It sucks. Big time. But there’s hope. I’ve been fortunate enough to overcome my Social Anxiety... ... and I’ve helped hundreds of socially anxious clients overcome their struggles too.

Have you ever been teased, humiliated, or bullied... and felt like you should be over it by now, but it still haunts you? In this episode, Seb shares how bullying in his own past triggered years of social anxiety, and why those early experiences can quietly shape how safe you feel in the world today. You’ll hear a short but powerful conversation with EFT Master Tania Prince.  She explains how bullying memories get stuck in your nervous system, why they still affect you today, and what you can do to finally break free. • Why some painful moments still feel so fresh • What bullying does to your sense of identity and safety • How EFT tapping helps release those emotional charges • A surprising truth about the beliefs that make us more vulnerable to being bullied If you’re ready to let go of the past and finally feel safe being yourself...

In this episode... Tiffany shares her powerful journey of healing social anxiety after decades of sadness, isolation, and self-judgment. She talks openly about the trauma that shaped her, how she discovered what was really driving her anxiety, and how she gently found freedom through deep inner work. We worked together for 17 sessions using the best of psychology, EFT tapping, and energy psychology. And what unfolded was a quiet but profound transformation.

In this episode... “If I feel confident… I’ll be humiliated.” This is a fear many people with social anxiety carry, but almost no one talks about. In this live coaching session, you’ll hear a Social Confidence Club member gently unpack that exact fear. What unfolds in under 15 minutes is a calm, respectful release of what’s been blocking her from feeling confident. No pressure.No pushing through fear.Just a powerful example of what happens when your system feels safe enough to let go. This is part of what I call the ART approach: Allowing acceptance, Releasing resistance, and Terminating triggers And it’s also the kind of work I do with VIP clients, people who are serious about overcoming their social anxiety once and for all.

In this episode... Do you feel like you have to be perfect just to be accepted? Or to avoid criticism or rejection? This unconscious belief can quietly fuel social anxiety, burnout, and relentless self-pressure In this short minisode, EFT Founding Master and psychotherapist Carol Look shares a powerful insight to help uncover where this pressure really comes from and how to begin letting it go

Always trying to be cool... but just end up feeling anxious?

In this episode... You’ll hear a live EFT coaching session where a Club member opens up about a deep fear: sounding dumb in social situations. He shares how he constantly overthinks what to say, feels pressure to sound smart, and worries he’ll be judged if he messes up — a pattern Seb calls social perfectionism. As they tap through it, the pressure eases — and something powerful clicks: “I realized… it’s not others judging me. It’s me.” Social anxiety doesn’t disappear overnight. But every emotional shift brings you closer to ease.

Shame is at the core of social anxiety. Yet, most people don’t realize it. Emma Roberts does. She’s lived it. Once held back by deep embarrassment and fear of being seen, Emma now trains therapists around the world. In this episode, she shares: How shame manifests and why it often goes unrecognized Her raw, personal story (including hiding in a bathroom before a training!) Why EFT Tapping is uniquely powerful for releasing shame and anxiety A simple Heart Anchor technique you can use immediately What makes healing possible, even after decades of suffering Emma is a world-renowned EFT Master, Clinical Hypnotherapist, and NLP Master Practitioner. She co-founded Integrated Energy Techniques, which blends energy psychology, coaching, and cognitive psychotherapy. “Don’t waste time thinking you’re stuck. You can take control of your life and change it faster than you might think.” — Emma Roberts

In this episode... We share a replay of a live EFT tapping coaching session with James, where we focus on easing the fear of judgment—one of the most common struggles for those dealing with social anxiety. You'll hear how anticipatory anxiety showed up for James before the session, how self-judgment and the belief of "I'm not good enough" made social situations feel unsafe, and how physical tension and emotional discomfort were part of his experience. Together, we explore these feelings, clear resistance to change, and use tapping to reduce the intensity of these emotions. By the end of the session, James felt calmer, lighter, and gained new insights into what was really fueling his anxiety. If you relate to the fear of being judged, or the constant worry about how you come across in social situations, this session can offer helpful perspectives and possibly relief by simply following along.

In this episode... Struggling with social anxiety and looking for an effective way to build confidence and feel at ease? In this powerful interview, Sebastiaan Van Der Schrier sits down with Tapas Fleming, the creator of the Tapas Acupressure Technique (TAT), to explore how combining TAT with Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT Tapping) can support your journey toward social confidence.

In this episode... What if your anxiety wasn’t the enemy but an ally? I sit down with EFT specialist Gene Monterastelli from the Tapping Q&A podcast to explore the power of acceptance in overcoming social anxiety. We dive into why anxiety exists, how our system is actually trying to protect us, and how embracing acceptance can ease social discomfort. Plus, Gene guides you through a simple yet powerful tapping exercise to help shift your mindset and bring more ease into your life.

In this episode... I’m sharing my personal journey of overcoming social anxiety and how EFT tapping played a major role in my transformation. I’ll explain why the 7-Day Social Confidence Challenge is such a powerful tool for breaking through the barriers that hold you back from social ease, even if nothing has worked for you before. You’ll hear about my first life-changing shift with tapping and why it’s the key to unlocking lasting results. Plus, I’ll share a powerful client breakthrough story that shows how subconscious resistance can keep you stuck—and how you can overcome it. If you're ready to experience your first shift and begin your journey to social confidence, sign up for the 7-Day Social Confidence Challenge today! For a limited time, you can join for just $7—an offer available only for the next 72 hours. Don’t miss out—take the first step toward a more confident, social you! Hurry, this offer ends soon! Get the 7-Day Social Confidence Challenge (Was $99, now just $7 – offer ends on Jan 26, 23: