Curious Conversations About Sex

LINKS: All links are on Curious Creatures website: https://www.curiouscreatures.biz/ Our Patreon page: https://www.patreon.com/curiousconversationsaboutsex Rog’s course on sexuality for therapists: https://www.processwork.edu/a-therapists-guide-to-sexuality-taboos-and-kink-with-roger-butler-sept-2025-online-course/ The free one-hour webinar taste-tester for above course: https://community.processwork.org/posts/explore-free-on-demand-video-a-therapists-guide-to-sexuality-taboos-and-kink-with-roger-butler   NOTES: This is the second part of a recording made in July, 2025, following the first nine episodes of the Pan-Political series. It reviews each […]

LINKS: All links are on Curious Creatures website: https://www.curiouscreatures.biz/ Our Patreon page: https://www.patreon.com/curiousconversationsaboutsex Next show recording you can attend (13/8/2025): https://www.facebook.com/events/1241395087140046 Rog’s course on sexuality for therapists: https://www.processwork.edu/a-therapists-guide-to-sexuality-taboos-and-kink-with-roger-butler-sept-2025-online-course/ NOTES: This is a recording made in July, 2025, following the first nine episodes of the Pan-Political series. It reviews each episode, adds ideas around what future-focused […]

Links: https://www.curiouscreatures.biz/ This is an interview, a conversation, and a bit more information about an upcoming course you might be interested in. I’m being interviewed by James Boutin, who’s with Process Work International. In partnership with them, the course I’m running in September is called “Interpreting and Understanding Sexuality, Kinks, and Fetishes”. This conversation covers […]

Show-notes are below… Links: Curious Creatures: https://www.curiouscreatures.biz/ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/curiousconversationsaboutsex Live show: https://www.facebook.com/events/1034160991497938/ Course for therapists: https://www.processwork.edu/a-therapists-guide-to-sexuality-taboos-and-kink-with-roger-butler-sept-2025-online-course/ Mila Gaca’s Intro to Process Work: https://community.processwork.org/posts/beginners-toolkit-june-10-17-24-learn-essential-processwork-concepts-and-skills-with-mila-gaca Show-notes: Okay, so what’s the potential conclusion and ways forward from here? What might the next wave of the gender movement look like, and why’s this series called “pan-political”? Why do you […]

Show-notes and links on our website: https://www.curiouscreatures.biz/curiousconversationsaboutsex_podcast.html (Sorry, too many to fit here!) I’d like to give you an update on this podcast, Pan-Political, an upcoming live show, upcoming courses, Patreon, and why I stopped Curious Creatures’ old workshops (spoiler: can’t say much).

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/curiousconversationsaboutsex Why is this ‘Pan-Political’ perspective so different to the mainstream of gender equality thinking? How could anyone have not noticed that in this world, the evidence overwhelmingly shows that women and minority genders suffer, and men have extreme advantages? How come almost every article you read, and almost every gender expert, agrees that […]

In this episode, we explore two separate questions: Is the world built, shaped, or referenced, around male sexuality? If it is, then why is it so easy to find so many complaints about men and sexuality? First, we rigorously (and often humorously) explore the ways that the world is, and isn’t, built around male sexuality. […]

Is there a wage gap? …It seems overwhelmingly likely that there is. But what causes it? …Here’s where things get interesting. Traditional thinking tells us it’s from a devaluing or outright hatred of women – or a prioritizing of men – that happens almost fractally from the individual level, through to the whole-of-society level. The […]

So… What, exactly, is the Patriarchy? Who, exactly is in it? What is its purpose, and how’s it going against its Key Performance Indicators? Do we at some stage get to participate in some kind of a review process? Is there a way we can get involved, and maybe change it from the inside? Is […]

The default assumption is that a lot of the work we need to do to move forwards, needs to be done in gender-separate spaces. Without a doubt, a lot of great work happens in those spaces. Intriguing questions remain, however, around how we hold these spaces in a way that ensures they have positive outcomes […]

What exactly do we mean when we say ‘toxic masculinity’? Where did it come from? (Hint: Closer to home than you think). More importantly, what’s keeping it going? What do we need to do to stop it? Can toxic masculinity, as a concept, lead us to world peace? Can it solve the gender war while […]

Today, we take the useful but politicised and weaponised perspective of privilege, and turn it into and even more useful perspective that leads us to understanding, peace, and solutions. We start with a review of the current state of thinking, and articulate how that leads us to The Great Privilege Paradox. From there, we add […]

The gender revolution is one of the most important changes that’s ever happened in human culture. Its core intentions, its core missions, are undeniably needed. Now that we’re 70 years into it, in some areas the gender revolution continues to progress. However, in other areas progress has slowed or stalled. Worse, in some areas we’re […]

Well this is a rollicking romp of a conversation, in three parts. I’m chatting with Dr Elliot, from https://myfirmtech.com/. Links are in the shownotes. Dr Elliot Justin has a background in emergency medicine, more recently specialising in sex and technology. We started by having a chat about his product lines, which might be of a […]

I’m still here. I still love you. Since we last spoke, a lot of extraordinary things happened, resulting in me stopping workshops kind of abruptly, and selling The Practice Lab. I will probably say more about all of that in a future episode, but for now, perhaps as a down-payment on some of that, let’s […]

Today, we’re chatting about gender, and how your identity is influenced by the events you experience in your life. The conversation is especially interested in how minority genders such as non-binary and trans identities are formed, and how there’s healthy and less than healthy ways that plays out. My guest is Avgi Saketopoulou, who along […]

Today, we talking about the Death Cult Club, Lomi Lomi, and Integrated Oncology with Alice Peebles. It includes a couple of side-journeys around consent and trauma-informed practice, and touches on Alice’s and Rog’s personal Death Cult Club Goals. Oh, and some tips on how you can start your own Death Cult Club! Links: Alice’s Lomi […]

Today, answering the question, of what to do when things go wrong – especially when you’re topping. To answer it, I’m back with Seani Love, an award-winning sex-worker and workshop facilitator. The conversation comes across like you’ve walked in on a couple of kinky therapists having a chat, which is precisely what it is – […]

Lee Harrington, who’s been on the show a couple of times previously, has recently written the book “Becoming Your Own Beloved”. It’s a wild investment in yourself, and a radical piece of activism against some modern dilemmas. Lee and Rog talk self-care, gender, lateral violence in minority gender groups, and some good old life philosophy. […]

Today, I’m doing a reaction video to a Jordan Peterson interview, except without the video. So I’m just having a reaction, I guess. In the original interview, which I’ll link to in the shownotes, Jordan is speaking about sex, consent, and sex outside of marriage. On top of that, I want to add another couple […]