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What if everything you’ve been taught about anger and respect is backwards?You grew up thinking anger made you strong—but it’s been slowly burning down your influence. Your wife feels crushed, not covered. Your kids see a short fuse, not a strong father.But there’s a better way. A biblical way. A powerful way.In this video, I’ll walk you through the G.E.N.T.L.E. Method—a practical and Spirit-filled framework to help you trade harsh reactions for holy responses. You’ll discover that gentleness isn’t weakness—it’s Christ-like strength under control.We’ll unpack:✅ Why anger is a symptom, not the root✅ How pride and insecurity fuel outbursts✅ Biblical insight from Jesus, Paul, and Proverbs✅ A real-life roleplay of gentleness in action✅ A challenge to practice one part of the GENTLE method this week00:00 Introduction: The Power of Gentleness00:17 Understanding Anger and Its Roots00:58 The Biblical Perspective on Gentleness02:00 The Impact of Anger on Relationships04:04 Practical Steps to Cultivate Gentleness09:35

Procrastination isn’t a productivity problem — it’s a faithfulness problem.In this video, Coach Red Wallace unpacks the true cost of delay — not just to your schedule, but to your marriage, your kids, and your calling. With raw stories, biblical insight, and practical tools, you’ll discover:Why “I’ll do it later” is slow-motion disobedienceHow procrastination disconnects you from your purpose4 actionable steps to live with unshakable faithfulnessIf you’re tired of spinning your wheels, doubting your direction, or postponing what God’s called you to — this message is your wake-up call.

What does it really mean to be a good man? Spoiler: it’s not about being nice—it’s about living with conviction, integrity, and compassion.In this episode of the Fruit of the Spirit series, mindset coach and worship drummer Red Wallace breaks down the power of GOODNESS—not as a personality trait, but as a calling for godly men.You’ll learn:* The difference between kindness and goodness* How to lead your family with quiet strength* What to do when your actions don’t match your words* 4 practical ways to live a life of goodness, starting today▶ Download the FREE Goodness Action Sheet:https://coach-redwallace.kit.com/goodness

Are you holding your family together but feel like you're falling apart inside?In today’s video, we're diving deep into why kindness isn’t weakness—it's a spiritual superpower. Especially for Christian men leading their homes, kindness is how we set the atmosphere, heal wounds, and reflect the heart of Christ.

Are you struggling with patience and feeling disconnected from God's plan? In this impactful video, Coach Red Wallace from Better Than Best Academy reveals why patience is crucial for strong leadership at home. Discover how patience, defined as self-discipline plus time, can transform your relationships, lead to spiritual maturity, and build a lasting legacy. Learn practical strategies to replace hasty reactions with thoughtful, diligent actions, and embrace God's timing in your life.00:00 Introduction: Struggling with Patience and Purpose01:19 The Power of Patience: Self-Discipline Over Time02:34 Biblical Insights: Patience as Love in Motion03:11 Real-Life Challenges: Patience in Everyday Situations04:06 Expectations vs. Reality: The Root of Patience Problems06:01 Proverbs Wisdom: Diligence Over Haste09:05 Practical Steps: Building a Legacy Through Patience12:18 Conclusion: Reflect and Choose Your Path

You were never meant to carry it all alone. The performance. The pressure. The pride.This video is for every man who’s been holding it together on the outside but breaking down on the inside.We dive into the story of Jairus and how humility—not strength—was the turning point that brought healing.You’ll learn the 4 steps to truly lay down your pride and pick up peace through a powerful metaphor: the backpack full of invisible stones.⚔️ It’s time to drop the weight.⚔️ It’s time to stop surviving and start surrendering.⚔️ It’s time to live free.

What if fear wasn’t your enemy, but the doorway to unshakeable joy?

My Son’s Face After I Yelled Changed EverythingWhen Coach Red Wallace yelled at his son, he saw a look that shattered his heart – and it changed him forever. In this powerful episode, Red shares the moment he realised anger was breaking the very bond he wanted to build. Discover how he transformed his approach to fatherhood, leadership, and marriage by learning to lead with a love stronger than anger.You’ll learn:✅ The life-changing lesson from his son’s silent reaction✅ Biblical wisdom on anger and love✅ CALM: A strategy to replace yelling with connection✅ Practical love drills for fathers, husbands, and leaders

Are you tired of performing, striving, and still feeling empty?In this video, I share my personal journey from burnout and spiritual exhaustion to learning how to truly abide in Christ—and what real, lasting fruit looks like when it's born from presence, not pressure.Jesus didn’t call us to hustle harder. He called us to abide.Here’s how to stop taping fake fruit to a dead tree and start living a life rooted in the Vine.

Why are you still stuck even though you're praying more, reading more, and trying harder?In this video, I’m unpacking the real reason you're not growing — and it has nothing to do with how hard you're working.We often chase self-help strategies, but God isn’t asking us to be more impressive. He’s inviting us to be more surrendered.

I thought I was chasing my dream. Music, fame, recognition. But one heartbreak and one sentence changed everything. What followed wasn’t just pain—it was purpose.In this video, I’m not giving you hype. I’m handing you a key to lasting impact: FAITHFULNESS.

Most men and leaders think playing it safe is wise, thinking the devil is after their comfort, chasing the “easy” life— but what if the very thing you’re avoiding is exactly what God is calling you toward?In this video, I share a raw part of my journey — stepping away from comfort, facing fear, and walking in obedience even when it didn’t make sense. You’ll hear how faith isn’t the absence of fear, but obedience in spite of it… and how what looks risky to the world might actually be the safest place: inside God’s will.

Why are you still tired—even after you rest?You slow down, take time off, even go on vacation... but you still feel exhausted.In this powerful teaching based on Mark 2:23–28, Coach Red Wallace unpacks one of Jesus’ most disruptive lessons: “The Sabbath was made for man—not man for the Sabbath.”If you're caught in a cycle of hustle, performance, and religious rules, this message is for you.You’ll learn:Why your “rest” isn’t restoring you- The difference between religious rest and Kingdom rhythm- How Jesus redefines Sabbath as a relationship, not a rule- 3 practical steps to reclaim real rest and resist burnout

You’ve been pushing, striving, grinding... trying to stay on fire for God—yet deep down, you’re exhausted.What if the problem isn’t your passion—but your pace?In this video, we’re unpacking the idea of **“un-rushed urgency”**—how Jesus walked with purpose without ever being in a hurry. You’ll learn how to stop outrunning your calling and start walking in sync with Heaven.

Correction without compassion isn’t leadership — it’s spiritual damage.If you’ve ever been hurt by someone who claimed they were helping you “in love”… or if you’re in a position of leadership and want to make sure you’re building people up — not tearing them down — this video is for you.Today, we’re flipping the script on correction.We’ll unpack 3 essential moves every Christlike leader must master to guide with truth and love — so you correct without crushing and lead like Jesus, not a Pharisee.

Have you ever left church feeling more broken than blessed? You're not alone. In this heartfelt message, Coach Red speaks directly to the silent pain of church hurt—the wounds left not by God, but by people who misrepresented Him.If you’ve been wrestling with your faith, disillusioned by toxic church experiences, or feel stuck between loving God and being done with religion, this video is for you. Discover how to heal, rebuild trust, and find real community again.

Why Success Is Sabotaging Your PurposeWhat if the thing you're chasing... is the very thing pulling you away from your calling?In this message, you’ll discover the truth behind career confusion and spiritual misalignment.

Break This Label Before It Breaks You.Most Christian men aren’t tired because they’re busy. They’re exhausted because they’ve carried labels God never gave them. In this raw and honest video, I share the 3 tools that shattered the lies and helped me reclaim my God-given identity.Inside, you’ll learn how to:

What would your daughter say if she had to give your eulogy today?In this powerful video, Coach Red Wallace shares the emotional moment his client, Anthony, broke down—and made the bold decision to start living a legacy, not just leaving one. Through a tool called the Legacy Letter, you’ll discover 3 life-changing prompts that will help you become the man God created you to be.Whether you're a husband, father, or Christian man feeling stuck or disconnected, this video is your call to realign with purpose and lead your family with clarity and peace.

In a world chasing clout, fame, and performance, could quiet faithfulness be the most radical calling of all?