Sinopsis
Stuck in the spin of Christian dating? Join Candice Candelaria (Marriage & Family Therapist) and Matt Barrios (Pastor) as they collect honest stories to find liberating wisdom for discovery and companionship.
Episodios
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Redefining Unconscious Narratives
20/05/2025 Duración: 13minJoin us for an insightful episode where we delve into the hidden narratives that often hinder our confidence in dating. Discover how stories such as "I'm not good enough" or "I'm broken" can unconsciously affect your search for meaningful connections. We explore how to replace these limiting beliefs with empowering ones, shedding light on the beauty inherent in our humanity as believed by Christian faith. Also, learn about an upcoming in-person event on May 29th at the Dutch Goose, where we invite you to meet new friends, enjoy structured activities, and participate in open socializing. With a focus on fostering authenticity and genuine relationships, this event is the perfect opportunity to engage with like-minded individuals. Keep updated on our upcoming content and events by following us on Instagram, and check out our new workbook on Dateologypodcast.com to guide you on this journey of self-awareness and personal growth in dating. https://www.eventbrite.com/e/dateology-singles-mixer-tickets-1373423268969?
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S3:Ep2 The Addictive Nature of Relationships with Special Guest Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby
11/02/2025 Duración: 40minJoin Lisa and Candice as they dive deep into the complexities of heartbreak recovery. In this insightful episode, psychologist and author Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby shares her wisdom and experience on understanding the physiological and emotional processes involved in breaking up. Discover the stages of healing after a breakup and the importance of embracing dark emotions as a path to personal growth. Lisa explains her eight-step process to help individuals move beyond pain and grow into stronger, healthier versions of themselves. To learn more about Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby: https://www.growingself.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/drlisabobby/
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S3:Ep1 The One Arrow Effect
04/02/2025 Duración: 19minGreetings Dateology! Welcome back for Season 3. Today, we will hear some live audio from our most recent event. The question asked was, "what is one thing you wish the opposite sex knew about dating?" If you listened to the 2min clip that was an error. This is the full episode. Enjoy! Follow us on IG @dateology_events Check out our new website www.DateologyPodcast.com This week, I will be speaking at Peninsula Bible Church on Finding Freedom in Dating. To learn more visit https://pbc.org/young-adult Stay tuned for upcoming episodes featuring special guests like Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby!
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The Space in Between
14/01/2025 Duración: 16minWelcome to another captivating episode of Dateology, hosted by Candice Thompson. We're excited to announce that Dateology now has a presence on Instagram (Dateology_events), where you can stay updated about our exciting in-person events, including the upcoming gathering in Menlo Park. Dive into today's episode as Candice shares invaluable insights into building meaningful relationships by focusing on what you create together rather than individual infatuation. Learn why understanding joint values, life rhythms, and personal growth are crucial for relational success, and discover the importance of being interesting rather than simply interested. This episode also explores the delicate balance between logic and emotion in love, urging listeners to approach dating with wisdom and compassion. https://www.eventbrite.com/e/dateology-christian-singles-mixer-tickets-1131423180189?aff=oddtdtcreator
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Dating and Politics
28/07/2024 Duración: 33minIn this episode, we delve into the complex intersection of dating and politics. With the 2024 presidential election season in full swing, tensions are high, and political discourse is unavoidable. Our goal is to help you navigate these challenging conversations with thoughtfulness and respect, whether you're dating or engaging with others who hold differing views. We'll explore the importance of self-assessment to understand your political stance and its impact on your relationships. We'll also discuss practical tips for handling political disagreements, maintaining balance in your life, and ensuring your mental well-being during these turbulent times. Join us as we navigate this timely and essential topic, providing you with wisdom and strategies to manage political conversations in your dating life and beyond.
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Online Dating
19/06/2024 Duración: 26minWelcome back to Dateology with your host, Candice Thompson! In this episode, Candice celebrates six years of the podcast and dives into a topic that surprisingly hasn't been fully covered here before: online dating. Candice discusses the importance of online dating in today's world, especially for those who may not have many opportunities to meet singles in person. She provides practical tips on how to navigate the online dating world, from choosing the right platform to creating an attractive and honest profile. She also shares her thoughts on the recent controversial Bumble marketing campaign and why certain dating apps may or may not be suitable for finding meaningful relationships. Candice emphasizes the significance of knowing your worth and setting clear expectations to avoid burnout and disappointment. For those looking to dip their toes back into the dating pool or improve their online dating experience, this episode offers valuable advice and encouragement. Tune in to learn how to make the most out o
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Bonus: Sexuality Beyond Sex
05/06/2024 Duración: 11minGreetings, Dataology community! Candice here. Jumping on to release a bonus episode & to provide you with some updates. In this episode, I explore the idea that sexuality beyond sex could involve moments of deep connection with God, providing a sense of oneness and fulfillment. This perspective could empower singles to find fulfillment outside of traditional sexual experiences, promoting a holistic understanding of sexuality. Thank you for joining me on this journey. I'll be back with more fresh content soon. In the meantime, you can connect with me on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/candice-thompson-lmft/ or check out my recent guest appearance on The Movement Soul Collective podcast https://www.buzzsprout.com/1978903/15070041 Stay tuned for more updates and insights!
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The Finale
11/12/2020 Duración: 01h10minWhat a good ol' fun time it's been, and now we're at the season 2 finale! On it, we do a total recap of some of our favorite moments on the show. Think of it like our greatest hits! This marks the end of Matt's consistent involvement with the project, but he might pop in from time to time. And Candice will keep on delivering some sweet, sweet nuggets! To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
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Weird Year
01/11/2020 Duración: 59minThis is a very timestamped episode on the weirdest year of our lives: 2020! Matt and Candice are back to discuss what it looks like to date digitally and safely in a pandemic—including how there might be lots of room for creativity! To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
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The Valentine's One
14/02/2020 Duración: 36minIs Valentine's really just for lovers? We think not. On the market, off the market or somewhere in between, Valentine's day can be enjoyed by all. How? We are glad you asked... -Happy Valentines Day from all of us at Dateology. To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
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The Holiday Special
10/12/2019 Duración: 54minHoliday season is upon us, and the office parties, trips home to family, and New Year's preparations are in full swing. In this season, dating seems to get extra amplified with each new Christmas romcom. What's God's message of empowerment and grace for dating couples and singles this time of year? Join Matt and Candice as they talk it through, share stories, and toss out some ideas and opinions about dating around the holidays. To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
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Dating & Faith
18/11/2019 Duración: 38minIn some ways, all Candice and Matt do is talk about dating and faith on this show. But let's dive deeper into the number one question people have for us about dating: what do you think about Christians dating non-Christians? Join us as we seek out wisdom from the stories we've gathered and open the Bible to guide our path. To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/. Audio engineered by Joey!
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Friendship & Dating
23/09/2019 Duración: 01h04minWhat about when your friend starts to seem oh so dateable? Join Candice and Matt as they discuss friendship and dating. Maybe the friend zone has more to it than first meets the eye. What if your next date might be with a friend from the past? To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
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Attachment, Part 2
16/08/2019 Duración: 01h07minBack for part two of the conversation on Attachment Theory, Candice and Matt ask the important questions about attachment in dating: How would it actually if people who were psychologically secure dated one another? And how does the security of God help bring us into the freedom of more secure relationships? To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
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Attachment, Part 1
26/07/2019 Duración: 44minHow do our early established patterns of relating affect how we date? Listen as Candice expertly teaches about the psychology of attachment. And listen as Matt tries to keep pace with her psychological wisdom! Referenced: How We Love by Milan and Kay Yerkovich To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
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Nugget: Boundaries
21/06/2019 Duración: 15minSharing a quick nugget of wisdom (ain't it so Christian to refer to bits of wisdom as "nuggets??"), Candice speaks from her psychological expertise about boundaries. What are appropriate emotional boundaries to keep in relationships? When is self-disclosure a good idea, and when it is right to hold some vulnerable parts of your story for another time? Plus, Candice announces our need for a sound engineer and the upcoming Happy Hour event in San Francisco on Thursday 6/27/19 To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
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Exclusivity
01/06/2019 Duración: 57minHow do you know when to get exclusive and when to keep it casual? Candice and Matt explore what goes into the conversation: "I want to be exclusive. How about you?" Plus, why not talk about Saved by the Bell and the Archie comics? To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
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Singleness
22/02/2019 Duración: 59minTaking a slight detour from a show all about Christian dating, Candice and Matt discuss singleness. What makes it so difficult? Why's it so beautiful? And hold on a sec... Jesus was single. That's a game changer. To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
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Rejection
08/02/2019 Duración: 56minCandice and Matt chat about the reality of rejection and its foreboding presence in dating. What does it look like to let someone down easily, and how can connecting with Jesus help us handle the pain of rejection? To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.
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Meeting the Family
22/01/2019 Duración: 46minCandice and Matt discuss all that is amusing, strange, illuminating, and sometimes painful about meeting your partner’s family. And ultimately, they discover how as followers of Jesus, there is great opportunity for honor, redemption and writing a new story. To learn more about the show and to connect with Matt or Candice, visit https://www.dateology.org/.