Make The Sacred Shift

There’s nothing more powerful than a relationship that is a living, breathing embodiment of LOVE. Not just as some gooey, lovey dovey thing… That’s super nice and all, but I’m talking about where it matters most… The places that are hurting.The places that are tender.The places that are growing.The places that are stretching.The places that … Continue reading "Intelligently Utilizing The Healing Power Of Love As A Practice."

Sometimes relationships can be so damn evocative that we really don’t know where to begin. You can be confronted with your own issues, and your partners, and over the course of a relationship it can work and grind you. And over the course of 30 years and 30,000 client hours, I’ve watched partners reckon with the … Continue reading "Soul Lessons That Juice Into Hot Sex, Love And Closeness."

I can’t tell you how many times couples and those who seek relationship came into my office and felt shame with self-recrimination that they didn’t know how to bring common sense to their relationship issues. I’ve watched people tear themselves apart.. criticize themselves.. think they were idiots and dumb shits because they have this idea … Continue reading "Common Sense Won’t Help You Have More Relationship Closeness, But THIS Will Instead."

Look, I want you to know something that is going to take the pressure off. For all the noise out there on simply ‘deciding’ that you are going to do something different… There’s another voice that needs to be heard… Especially when it comes to deciding, creating and manifesting a Hot Sex Life, or even … Continue reading "It’s Not Just About Deciding To Have A Better Sex Life, It’s THIS Instead."

What do you do when you want more intimacy and closeness with your beloved, even if you haven’t been having it for a while,or even if you think you’ll never have it? Find out on one of my most intimate, raw and authentic podcast episodes yet. What you do is this; You lean into the … Continue reading "When You Want More Closeness, THIS, Is What Makes It Happen Faster."

When I hear couples dissatisfied about their sexual connection, it makes me sad because I KNOW there is something that you can do about it. It’s not a magic pill, or overnight fix, (and anyone who tells you that should send you running for the hills, rightfully so.) But what is possible, because I have … Continue reading "On Sexual Disconnection, Roots And Sense Wisdom."

I gotta tell you, when I see parents get frustrated with their kids, I understand. Somehow the great, mysterious forces of the universe concocted the experience for us to absolutely fall in love with our little humans when they are babies.. …and then hope that’s enough juice in the bank to deal with the immense … Continue reading "HOW Your Kids Can Be A Fast Track To Relationship Transformation."

When the morass of intensity, disconnection and complication become too much, what do you do? When love feels like it’s waning thin, what steps do you take? How do you ride the wave of coming together and coming apart that is part of every relationship? You need a certain kind of love glue. You need … Continue reading "You Must Ask Love These Questions… And Then Listen To What She Says."

Every week, I hear the desire for things to be easier, for massive healing to happen, and for love to open, blossom and deliver beauty, love and lightness to places where things feel ugly, dark and not welcome. Maybe your version of it this week includes to stop fighting over who is making dinner and … Continue reading "Who Else Wants To Know What To Do To Create Hot Sex, Love And Closeness Miracles."

There are some non-negotiables when it comes to having your family feel secure and emotionally healthy. And in this podcast, I’m going to go into depth on my own personal story of how I discovered these three elixirs that I know are going to help you heal difficulties, reduce overwhelm, make sacred the important things … Continue reading "When You Do These Three Things, Your Family Life Will Be Infinitely More Peaceful And Your Love And Connection Will Soar."

“I want more connection…” “Why must we be disconnected again…?” “Love is supposed to be yummy and close, why is it so hard to connect in a good way?” “This must mean he or she is not the right person for me, right?” I’ve heard more versions of these complaints than you can imagine. Since … Continue reading "The NON-NEGOTIABLE Thing You Must Do To Create The Closeness And Intimacy You Crave."

We’ve been having SO much fun this week going deep into the love medicines that are needed to make you partnership flourish. I know what it’s like for you, you get into stuff in your relationship and you can become contracted, hurt, wounded, injured, upset, annoyed, irritated, triggered, insecure and more. It’s not fun feeling … Continue reading "The #1 Thing To Do To Heal Injuries And Hurt In Your Relationship."

Do any of these sound familiar? “I want to have better sex, but don’t know what else to do.” “I want hotter, wetter, more satisfying sex, and I’m not fulfilled.” “I’m not sure if he/she is the right person for me.” “We used to have hot sex all the time, and then it just fizzled.” … Continue reading "When You Do THIS One Thing, Your Sex Life Will Soar."

What do you do when you find yourself irritated or annoyed with a pattern that your kids are reflecting back to you? When they’re pressing on our last good nerve and you’ve been feeling super distant and not connected with your partner? When you feel upset with them, or wonder why it’s right when you’re … Continue reading "On Being The Transmission Of Healthy Hot Sex, Love And Intimacy, For You & Your Kids, Even If You Feel You’ve Lost Your Way."

I’m very happy to share with you the newest podcast of Hot Sex, Love and Closeness for Couples. In this episode, we connect on how to change the mess in your relationship into EXACTLY the medicine you need so that you can be closer, more emotionally intimate and connected! And, even if it’s been off … Continue reading "When You’re Ready To Make The Mess of Relationship Into Medicine, Even If Your Feel All Hope Is Lost."

So you’ve finally decided that it’s no longer optional, or a ‘nice to have’ when it comes to LOVE. Real love is NOT a luxury. It’s a necessity. So what’s keeping you from taking the steps to actually HAVE it? This is EXACTLY what we’re chattin’ about on the podcast this week. We’re getting – … Continue reading "THIS Is What Your Do To Grow Your Relationship Love Like Crazy, Even If It Has Been Feeling Off Lately."

If there was ONE five minute chunk of time you had to explore what really matters to you this week; – that gave you the actual what to do to help you turn up the heat and make it the hot sex you desired..– that broke it down is simple steps…gave you an example, clicks … Continue reading "The ONE Wild (But Simple) Thang You Can Do To Turn Up The Hot Sex In Your Partnership, Even IF You Haven’t Had It For A While."

I get so LIT UP each week to share this podcast with you because I am experiencing it changing and shifting relationships and families lives. Soul purpose on fiyahhh.. and sex, love and closeness fulfilled. When you hear things like… “Huge gratitude to you Joanna for sharing how to increase hot sex…I never realized it … Continue reading "How To Deepen Relationship Through Embracing The Spiritual Path."

Wondering what new podcast to check out this week? Then check this out. If you’ve got kids, or one on the way, and you’re noticing how stressful it can be with the needs they have, or the way they can activate your last good nerve, I’ve got you covered. Ahh.. it’s nice to feel that … Continue reading "Turning Kid Chaos Into The Medicine Your Family Needs To Be Peaceful {{ Which Guaranteed Brings Parents Closer }}"

“I want to have more connection in my marriage, I want to feel closer, I want the connection to feel easier, and more intimate.” I hear this every week, through the complaints, critiques and dissatisfactions that my clients express. This is SUCH an important topic…because honestly, every couple I know has moments and words like … Continue reading "How To Turn Up The Closeness & Intimacy Factor In Your Partnership, No Matter How It’s Been So Far."