Sex Within Marriage Podcast : Exploring Married Sexuality From A Christian Perspective

Are Dominance and submission games in the bedroom okay? This is a question from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the question of whether or not dominance and submission play is humiliating, if it's okay to call your husband "sir" in the bedroom, what about "daddy", and what if the wife is the dominant one?This month our most popular resource is Our Sexploration List printable, which we're actually giving away free to our $5+ supporters this month. Interested in learning more? Check it out here. Want to get it free, check our supporter information page.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:My wife wants me to tie her up?Beginner Bondage QuestionsHonor BondageHousehold Hierarchy - What does our phsysiology say about who should lead?According to the Bible, which gender should lead?What does household leadership mean for the husband?Finding the Father - Herb MontgomeryFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and Tw

October 2019 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:Other types of orgasmsHow to deal with a transgendered-friendCrossdressing for comfortAn unrepentant husbandOrgasmless sexWife sleeps during sexHusband will not come to bed at a decent timeWhat if you medically can't have sexHow do you switch from being single and chaste to married and sexual?This month our most popular resource is our Spice Jar printable. Interested in learning more? Check it out here.Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:What happens to our souls when we have sex?Dante's The Divine ComedyHow do I know my spous is my soul-mate?Is it wrong for Christians to crossdress?Keep your love on - Danny SilkBoundaries in Marriage - Henry Cloud and John TownsendIs mutual masturbation okay for married Christians?Intimacy IgnitedFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in,

September 2019 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:How do you deal with deployment and sex drivesHow do we improve sexual intimacyHow to improve our sex lifeSatisfaction and adventurousnessHow do you get your wife to be more dominant in bedAsking doesn’t work, not asking doesn’t workHusband has sleep apneaWhat should teenagers do instead of masturbate?Here are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Mutual Masturbation for Married ChristiansDr. Jessica McCleeseIntimacy Ignited - Small Group StudyThe worst time to spice up your sex life9 raunchy reasons why letting him cum up your nostril will lead to the best sex of your lifeIntroduction to Talking DirtyIntimacy Advent CalendarFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.We gained a bunch of supporters back again, some new, so we are 86% of the way to ou

Focus on your spouse, not the model. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, I'm talking about spontaneous and responsive desire are just a model to help educator and guide. But eventually you have to drop the model and focus on how your spouse is unique.Listen to these two podcast episodes first:Responsive desire is a blessingSpontaneous desire is a blessingCheck out our Intimacy Advent Calendar if you're looking for a Christmas gift to help boost intimacy and keep you and your spouse focused on each other during the holidays. Visit the site to check out all the amazing reviews people shared from last year.If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our support page for more info. Also, supporters giving at least $5/month get our Intimacy Advent Calendar free this month.Make sure you subscribe to the newsletter so you don't miss out on everything that's going on. Lastly, if you have any questions, you can always email me at jay@uncoveringintimacy.com.

July and August 2019 Questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:How often do people's sex drives switch from low to high?How to squirtWife is into whippingAnal sex tipsSingle and curious about erectionsLow drive wife is secretly masturbating every nightHusband has a secret Facebook profilePorn addiction ruining relationshipsWife said she could go months without sexLow drive husband with Asperger's SyndromeSex is just another thing on my wife's checklistOral sex not being reciprocatedHusband engaging with women onlineHere are the links I mentioned during the podcast:Responsive vs Spontaneous DesireWomen's Health Magazine - Make yourself squirtBoundaries In Marriage - Henry CloudCovenant Eyes Web FilteringThe Complete Guide to Asperger's Syndrome22 Thing a Woman Must Know if She Loves a Man with Asperger's SyndromeFollow us on Facebook, Instagram and TwitterIf you'd like to discuss the questions as the

Responsive desire is a blessing. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, I'm talking about how responsive desire can actually be a blessing to both the one with responsive desire and the person who's spouse has it.Links I mentioned are:September Kegel / Squat ChallengeResponsive vs. spontaneous desireDo you control your emotions or do they control you?Spice JarSexy MemoryLearn how to massage your spouseSweet almond massage oilOur Sexploration ListSexual inhibitorsDesire vs. willingnessIf you have any questions, you can email me at jay@uncoveringintimacy.com.If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our support page for more info.Make sure you subscribe to the newsletter so you don't miss out on everything that's going on.

Tackling May and June 2019 questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:How important is communication during sex?Is it wrong to not want your wife to lose weight?Someone asks if they should have an affairHow do you find time to have sex when you have young children?Does premature ejaculation affect your sex drive?What do you do if your husband won’t quit masturbating alone?Is it still considered crossdressing if it’s for comfort?A question about male chastity or female-led relationships.Should you suggest a boob job to your wife?A question about language in the bedroomIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Lastly, we're closing in our our next support goal! 93% of the way there!If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our support page for more info.And our survey post should be up this week some time. There won't be a podcast, so make sure you subs

Tackling February and March 2019 questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here for more details and links.In this episode, we're tackling the subjects:Is doggy style demeaning?Does anal sex always cause bleeding?How to start talking about sex with a sensitive wife?Can you have sex with an unsaved spouse?How to handle a wife orgasming too quicklyMutual MasturbationSwallowing your own semenCan you be married to the wrong person?Is sexlessness being unfaithful?Ethical pornIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Lastly, we're closing in our our next support goal! 82% of the way there!If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our support page for more info.And our survey post should be up this week some time. There won't be a podcast, so make sure you subscribe to the newsletter so you don't miss it.

Tackling the newest questions from our anonymous Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here.In this third and final part, we're tackling the subjects:Wife looking up exWife used to be a swingerIs bondage okay?Our sex life is boringWife destroying self-esteemIs it okay to buy my wife lingerie for my birthday?Wife teasing husband sexuallyWhy does my husband want to lick my ass?!and more ...If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Some other updates:We're closing in our our next support goal! If you'd like weekly podcasts, check out our support page for more info.And I'm done the analysis from our latest survey. I just need to post the results, so they should be up soon.Have a question, but don't want to send an email? Call 1-833-719-0228 and leave me a voicemail. If you’re in the US, you can also text me.

This is a sermon I wrote and preached in my home church on Matthew 19:1-11 - Jesus responding to the Pharisees asking about divorce.Check out the video here: https://youtu.be/XZCdnDSKO4UGet the show notes / text of the sermon here: https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/swm042-god-will-never-leave-you/

It happened again. I was answering questions from February and March from our Have A Question page, and the answer to this one turned into it's own blog post and podcast episode. Check out the blog post here.If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Some of the links mentioned in the podcast:Do you control your emotions or do they control you?Have you broken your wedding vows?Attraction SurveyConversation Starters Book37 Questions for spouses to ask each other about sexWhy solo masturbation is a problem if you're singleScheduling sexWant more podcast episodes to listen to? We're 79% of the way to the next goal, which will mean weekly podcasts. Did you know most of our supporters only give $5/month. Add your pocket change to help us meet our goal. Check out our Support Us for more info.Analysis of our latest survey has started, and should be out soon. Don't want to miss it? Be sure to join our mailing list.

I was answering questions from February and March from our Have A Question page, and the answer to this one turned into it's own blog post and podcast episode because the question showed a common misunderstanding about what a soul is. Check out the show notes here.If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Some other updates:We've added some new functionality to our supporter's forum. You can now email in topics to discuss, and can just reply to the notification emails to reply to threads. Our users are loving it and interactions are increasing, which is awesome.Want more podcast episodes to listen to? We're 77% of the way to the next goal, which will mean weekly podcasts. Did you know most of our supporters only give $5/month. Add your pocket change to help us meet our goal. Check out our Support Us for more info.Analysis of our latest survey has started, and should be out soon. Don't want to miss it? Be sure to join our mailing list.Have a question, bu

This is the third and final part of our January anonymous questions from our Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here.In this third and final part, we're tackling the subjects:Sex drive and pregnancyCan medications cause permanent sexual issues?Low-drive husband's affairBirth control optionsResourcesFistingThe banana questionSex machinesSex and being overweightSex in heavenTantric sexIf you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum. Some other updates:We hit our first support goal! Our monthly contributions now exceed our expenses for the blog and podcast. As a thank you, I'll be doing monthly podcasts at least. Want more? Well, then you have to hit our next goal. Check out our Support Us for more info.Our latest survey has hit 1,100 responses. I've started on the analysis and hope to have it out soon.Have a question, but don't want to send an email? Call 1-833-719-0228 and leave me a voicemail. If you’re in the US, you can also text me.

Back for part two of our anonymous reader's questions from January 2019 from our Have A Question page. Check out the show notes here.In this second part, we're tackling the subjects:Is hetero anal sex new?Anal sex re-hashToo large for anal?Prostate massageFelchingFactors in orgasm abilityCan women learn to ejaculate?Can kegels lead to vaginal orgasms?Can men be multiorgasmic?How to learn to orgasm on commandAre my PC Muscles too strong?If you'd like to discuss the questions as they come in, consider joining our private forum.Links to things we discussed:The Key to Feminine Response in Marriage (book)The Act of Marriage (book)Edging (post)The Womanizer (toy)Some other updates:We hit our first support goal! Our monthly contributions now exceed our expenses for the blog and podcast. As a thank you, I'll be doing monthly podcasts at least. Want more? Well, then you have to hit our next goal. Check out our Support Us for more info.Our latest survey has hit 1,000 responses, so I'll be doing the analysis as so

This podcast episode, I'm answer our reader's questions from January 2019. I got a ton of them, so it took me a while to write answers to all of them. However, there are so many I'm having to split it up across multiple episodes.In this first part, we're tackling the subjects:Should single people be reading this blog?Mind-ReadingDIY Arousal LubeIs it wrong to masturbate to get ready for sex?Sex RoutinesSex Furniture"Unwanted" BookSome other updates:I’ve changed some things around with respect to our support community. Until recently, I’d been using Patreon to handle all monthly contributions. Unfortunately, Patreon has gone and upset a fair number of people. So, I’ve changed our Support Us page to include a PayPal option - for those who would prefer not to be involved with Patreon.Also, we have a new survey up. If you haven’t filled it out, please do so here.Lastly, I’ve got a toll-free number! I thought it would be neat if people could leave voicemails of questions and I could include them in the podcast.

Looking for a fun and sexy gift for Valentine's Day? Check out our new printable: Sexy Memory - Foreplay Game On sale now until Valentine's Day. Download it today and have it printed and ready tonight. 60 different activities to choose from so you can play at your comfort level. Been getting a ton of great feedback from both husbands and wives. Some like that it forces them to slow down and lets them get really aroused. Others just like that it includes sex :) If you're already one of our monthly supporters, check your inbox for a coupon code. Don't forget to subscribe so you don't miss out our next round of anonymous questions. If you have a question you'd like answered, you can ask it anonymously here.

This podcast episode, I'm catching up on some listener's questions that I got back in 2018.You can find the complete questions and answers at https://www.uncoveringintimacy.com/anonymous-questions-from-december-2018/Topics include: ED due to medical problemsHusband in erotic chatroomsSex toys caused sexual awakeningList of books for continued learningDouble standard on the blogPositionsAnal sex in Song of SolomonSexy underwear for menHypnosisIs it wrong to masturbate if you don't have an orgasm during sex?Why there is nothing new on the blogHow to ask a potential spouse if they like oral sexOrgasming on command If you have a question you'd like to have answered, check out our Have A Question page at UncoveringIntimacy.comFind us on PatreonFacebookInstagramTwitterPinterest Or subscribe to our newsletter to get all the info.

This is just a quick podcast episode to let my listeners know about our Intimacy Advent Calendar currently for sale in our shop. You remember having advent calendars as a kid? Every day you get a chocolate, or a toy or something. For nearly a whole month, every day there was something exciting to look forward to the next day. Holidays don’t exactly feel that way for us adults anymore do they? Well, I wanted to try and recapture that feeling. At the same time, I know many couples struggle to maintain intimacy during the holidays. Not just physical intimacy (but that too), but it’s also a high-point for arguments and blow-outs. So, I wanted to make something that encouraged us to draw together during this season. So, I put together an Advent Calendar for couples. It took me a while to figure out how to manage things like visitations, big dinners, people’s differing boundaries and comfort levels around certain sexual activities, travel, and even periods. But, I think I found a fairly elegant solution. Check

This is the audio recording of the sermon I preached in my home church about sex. You can get the full transcript on the website. Want more podcast episodes? Support us on Patreon and also get access to our supporter community.